Whether in the entertainment industry or in the lives of ordinary people, in general, the more marriages are married, the worse the quality of marriage.
But there is an actress who has a stable happiness with her third husband. This is a rare love story in the entertainment industry, and she is Shi Lanya.
At first glance, you may be a little blinded and can't find her image in your mind.
But when it comes to Li Yunlong of "Bright Sword", it is like a thunderous existence.
Yes, Shi Lanya's third husband is Li Yunlong's actor Li Youbin.
At this time, you are blinded again.
What's going on? Is Li Youbin's current wife a woman who is married three times?
Yes, not only that, but the role of "Li Yunlong" is still shi Lanya's encouragement to Li Youbin to try.
Almost, you will not see such a fierce and admired Li Yunlong.
And Shi Lanya's original husband is Liu Bin, who once played the bad protein in "The Gate of the Big House".
Coincidentally, Liu Bin has also experienced three marriages.
The protagonists of today's story are Shi Lanya and her original husband Liu Bin.
In 1988, at the age of 16, Shi Lanya starred in the TV series "Siege of the City", and then became popular with the role of Tang Xiaofu, laying a good foundation for her future acting career.
During this period, she and her partner Chen Daoming had rumors of mutual affection, but this matter was not responded to by both sides.
In 1989, Shi Lanya and Liu Bin met for collaborating on "The Black-Eyed Sun God".
At that time, the two were just partners, and there was no relationship other than that, and later I learned that the fate of the two was definitely not limited to this.
In 1992, Shi Lanya was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama, and three years later graduated and signed a contract with the Beijing People's Art Theatre.
The second intersection with Liu Bin was when Shi Lanya had just broken up with her boyfriend of five years, Weizi.
Because Liu Bin happens to be the brother of Shi Lanya's middle drama, and both of them love photography at the same time, Liu Bin often approaches Shi Lanya on the grounds of exchanging skills with Shi Lanya.
Liu Bin's meticulous concern for this young and beautiful sister made Shi Lanya, who had just broken up, feel warm. Soon, Shi Lanya was "taken down" by this master brother and married him without hesitation.
Liu Bin is 10 years older than Shi Lanya, and he is not as good as Shi Lanya in terms of age, body temperament, fame and other aspects.
Liu Bin was born in an ordinary family in Beijing, has been relatively fat since childhood, and has always been very inferior when he went to school because of his figure and appearance.
Liu Bin liked acting since he was a child, and in 1980, in order to dream, he was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, and was in the same class as Jiang Wen, Lu Liping and Cong Shan.
But he has always been shut down by the acting industry because of his size and appearance. After graduating from Chinese opera, he was assigned to CCTV by the school and served as a literary and art host.
After working for three years, Liu Bin, who was born to love acting, resolutely resigned from the "iron rice bowl" of CCTV and pursued his "actor dream".
"The image is not enough, the acting skills are made." In order to act, he once thought hard about acting.
Finally, in 1987, he debuted with his first work, "Kyoto Ball Man" co-starring with Zhang Fengyi and Chen Peisi.
Later, he successively starred in excellent works such as "The Year of The Life", "The Great Eunuch Li Lianying", "Haima Song and Dance Hall", "I Love My Home" and so on, but it has always been tepid, and there are no representative works that can be handed.
At that time, as long as Liu Bin did not shoot a scene, even the cost of living became a problem, which was still quite large compared with Shi Lanya, who had a formal organization.
Therefore, after marriage, the two are still busy with their own careers. In the end, the marriage ended with the contradiction of "gathering less and leaving more" and the reality of "imbalance".
After the divorce, Shi Lanya soon ushered in her second marriage.
After being introduced, she met a "turtle" in the IT industry, although she was an outsider, she was also a young talent. Although the two of them had a good chat at first, Shi Lanya was not as anxious as last time. She worries that people who come back from abroad will have personality discord. So I tried to get along for a while and found that the other party was a gentle personality, stable work, and a good object for marriage.
After that, the two walked hand in hand into the marriage hall.
With the lessons of her first relationship, After marriage, Shi Lanya focused on the family, and soon became pregnant. Shi Lanya was very happy and looked forward to the arrival of the child every day.
After the birth of her son, Shi Lanya simply reduced the opportunity to shoot and concentrated on taking the child at home.
The husband is an elite in the IT industry, with super working ability and a considerable income.
Shi Lanya took care of the housework and children at home. Life is also harmonious and peaceful.
During that time, Shi Lanya, who left the screen, felt that living an ordinary life was also a kind of happiness.
However, this happiness lasted for a long time, and it was broken by a sudden accident. The husband was diagnosed with cancer, not long after his son was born.
In people's minds, cancer is the equivalent of a "terminal illness."
Unwilling to let his beautiful life be destroyed in this way, Shi Lanya stopped working and concentrated on treating her husband's illness.
But husbands who know that time is short are running out, so as not to drag their wives and children down, they can't help but file for divorce.
At first, Shi Lanya did not agree, but the husband who was unable to make up his mind finally signed the divorce agreement.
At this point, Shi Lanya's second marriage ended.
After experiencing two marriages, Shi Lanya couldn't help but start to doubt life, and she didn't dare to easily step into her feelings.
But she couldn't be depressed, because she still had a son to raise, so she started filming again.
Unexpectedly, in the process of filming, she finally met the true love who had stayed together for a lifetime.
In 2003, when Shi Lanya was filming the TV series "Jiangshan", he met the actor Li Youbin.
The two play a loving couple in the play, although it is the first time to cooperate, but the two cooperate very tacitly, the husband and wife's love feelings are interpreted very well and naturally, the director said: it is to feel like this.
Soon, the two identified each other in the continuous shooting, and developed the feelings in the play to the outside of the play.
But at that time, Li Youbin was not completely free, and he and his wife had been separated for many years due to emotional discord, but they had not applied for divorce certificates.
In order to be gossiped about, his love affair with Shi Lanya can only be turned into an "underground love".
Later, Shi Lanya would often go to the crew to visit Li Youbin. Knowing that Li Youbin was ill, she also went to the play to take care of him, and when someone asked, Li Youbin said that this was his assistant. And Shi Lanya was so nameless and unambiguous to accompany Li Youbin.
In December 2004, during the preparation stage of "Bright Sword", Li Youbin was found in the play.
Li Youbin originally wanted to refuse, after all, starring in many works of the same type had no effect, and the shooting conditions were very difficult.
But after Shi Lanya read the script, he said to him: "You must take this play." ”
I have to say that Shi Lanya really has a poisonous eye. Li Youbin exploded with the role of "Li Yunlong" in "Bright Sword". At that time, the old man who was basking in the sun in the corner of the wall could learn to roar twice when he mentioned Li Yunlong.
Later, every time Li Youbin received the script, he first showed it to Shi Lanya, and Shi Lanya felt that he would only pick it up. In addition, Li Youbin originally had good acting skills, so his career has always been able to maintain this height.
At this time, Li Youbin finally realized that he should give Shi Lanya an explanation.
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Li Youbin and Shi Lanya have been friends for many years, and their feelings have been very stable and low-key.
So he went to his wife and explained the situation. The wife knew that they had been separated for many years and had no feelings. So he acquiesced to Li Youbin's divorce proposal. In order to make up for his wife, Li Youbin chose to leave the house.
In 2008, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya ended their five-year "underground romance" and got married.
After the two people received the license, it was not made public, resulting in Shi Lanya being once considered by netizens to be "small three insertions". The aggrieved Shi Lanya, who had been scolded, did not explain a word and a half.
Although Li Youbin came out to clarify, it was still to no avail. It wasn't until Li Youbin asked his ex-wife to come out to explain that the storm stopped.
It turns out that Li Youbin and his ex-wife not only have no feelings for each other, but also have different plans for the future, Li Youbin is a career type, and his ex-wife cares more about the family.
After experiencing this storm, the husband and wife no longer hid it and lived their lives generously.
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They no longer pursue career peaks and choose to spend more time returning to their families. As she grew older, Shi Lanya's figure was obviously blessed, but this did not affect her to play on stage at any time.
Occasionally, the couple would also perform a play together.
The two stood on the stage holding hands, like a kind of old husband and wife's years were quiet.
If there is a chance to star in a TV series, she will still pick up.
In 2021, the popular TV series "Imperial Gifts" has closed the hearts of a large wave of viewers.
The fiery Princess Xiping inside has always attracted the attention of the audience. She is only a small supporting role, but she will be a noblewoman who was born in the door and has experienced the ups and downs of the court, and the interpretation is amazing.
At this time, some sharp-eyed netizens found: Wow, isn't this Shi LanYa!
Although he is old, he has a good temperament and state, and even has a hint of maturity than when he was young.
It's just that this big headdress on the top of the head must be very heavy.
Because both of them had children before, Shi Lanya and Li Youbin did not have children after marriage, and they cherished this hard-won relationship even more.
After experiencing emotional ups and downs and life experiences, Shi Lanya finally found the true meaning of life in the third marriage. Today, she has the love of her husband, the company of her children, and a happy and satisfied life.
Looking back at the experience of her first husband, Liu Bin, it can be said that it is unfortunate.
After divorcing Shi Lanya, Li Bin married two more wives, but neither had a good ending.
When filming "Black Hole", Liu Bin knew his second wife a lot, many of whom were exactly 20 years old and a post-80s.
From the perspective of Shi Lanya and his second wife, Liu Bin has an undetectable attachment to young and beautiful women. However, unfortunately, due to the long-term concept of discord and the age gap, Liu Bin once again embarked on the road of divorce, ending this marriage of less than four years.
Although the marriage failed, it also left him with a son. This son is also a kind of psychological comfort for Liu Bin.
Two failed marriages did not cause Liu Bin to stop looking for his love.
As he wished, in 2011, 50-year-old Liu Bin married a 25-year-old girl Wang Lijun as a wife.
Some friends laughed at him that "old cows eat tender grass", but he did not think so, and after marriage, he had a son and a daughter, which made him more and more proud of the spring breeze.
But he never thought that this marriage had given him the heaviest blow in his life.
Facing the third marriage, Liu Bin has a self-reflective consciousness compared with before. The combination of old and young wives made him love his wife and feel a little guilty.
So at the age of 50, he still works hard to create a better life for his family.
Logically, as long as a man can settle down and live a good life, life will not go too wrong.
But there is a big problem between Liu Bin and Wang Lijun, that is, age.
Although Liu Bin has nothing to say about this "little petite wife", what kind of mood does Wang Lijun feel when she faces such an old man who is comparable to her father every day?
Wang Lijun is not an insider, but she has a well-known friend - Wang Baoqiang's ex-wife Ma Rong.
As the saying goes, "Things are clustered in groups, and people are divided into groups." Through her good friend Ma Rong, we may also be able to spy on Wang Lijun's character and fetishes.
Sure enough, the reason why the two married was precisely because of Wang Lijun's cheating.
An angry Liu Bin went to confront Wang Lijun, but found that Wang Lijun was already preparing to leave.
She and her brother removed all the valuable items in the family, including Liu Bin's collection of antiques, calligraphy and paintings, clothes and so on, a total of 180 boxes. When it was found, only 80 boxes remained, of which 100 had been transferred.
He worked hard to make money outside, but he raised a white-eyed wolf.
The angry Liu Bin pushed her in a fierce quarrel with his wife, and Wang Lijun took the lead in taking the bruises from these pushes as evidence of domestic violence to sue Liu Bin in court.
In order to fight for the custody of the child, Liu Bin also sued Wang Lijun in court.
The old and young wives who used to be loving are now in court, and the matter is being spread to the limelight.
Although Liu Bin finally won the custody of his daughter, he was also seriously injured in this disgraceful "divorce incident", and his image was greatly damaged because he was accused of "domestic violence" by his ex-wife.
The only warmth he had left was probably his daughter. The little girl lay quietly and well-behaved on her father's stomach, and the father and daughter enjoyed this simple happiness.
Liu Bin, who has passed the age of flower armor, still has to take care of his daughter.
Shi Lanya and Liu Bin experienced three marriages in their lives. The difference is that Shi Lanya, who left Liu Bin, had the love of her husband in those two marriages, and now she still lives happily and happily.
However, Liu Bin was more and more unfortunate than ever, and in the end, he ended up with a "two empty people and two money".
There's nothing wrong with pursuing something beautiful, but don't indulge your desires too much.
One should know oneself before one knows what one really needs.
How many people have spent their whole lives pursuing things they shouldn't have, only to find that it is not worth it until their hair is gray.
Don't touch things that don't belong to you, otherwise you will lose what you already have because you are punished.