In life, the most comfortable state is to develop according to everything according to "inertia", so that you don't have to think too much, and everything is "familiar and understood", there will be no "lack of security", so the pressure will not be too much.
Therefore, the people we like are all kinds of "joy is joy, anger is anger".
Because it is better to grasp the "vein" of their emotions, so that they know how to get along, which is also in line with sun tzu's art of war: "Know yourself and know the other, you can never lose a battle", no one is willing to try to fail.
Therefore, no one will like "moody" people.
But for various reasons, there are always some people who are easily "moody", and when everyone is happy, she is sullen; when everyone is unhappy, she suddenly gets excited.
So which of the zodiac signs are the most "moody" of the twelve signs?
The following author will talk about it to see if everyone is like this, or whether the people around them meet these personality characteristics.
Gemini
There are a lot of people who will say, "The Geminis I know are all hip-hop personalities that don't fit the moody traits at all." ”
That only means that you either know Gemini as an introverted type close to Cancer Moon, or you still don't know him too well.
Because, although Gemini was born in the "summer", her personality is full of enthusiasm and seems to be very talkative, but she will start from "herself" when she considers all issues.
She may be happy at once, unhappy at once, and when she is happy, she will cooperate with you incomparably; but when she is unhappy, she will use a series of behaviors to sing the opposite tune to you, and also say a series of words that make you unhappy, making you uncomfortable with her.
If it has been cold, it will not feel cold; if it has been hot, you can also get used to it slowly, and the most feared thing is "suddenly cold and hot, if it is left", is this not considered "moody"?
Especially friends who have pursued "Gemini" girls, it is estimated that this feeling will be particularly obvious, you talk to her very well today, you think she has fallen in love with you; the next day, talk to her again, may become a stranger again.
She happily told you today where she wanted to go, and the next day, you made everything ready and happily went to pick her up, and as a result, after waiting for her downstairs for three hours, she didn't come down and sent you a text message telling you: "I'm in a bad mood, I don't want to go."
Leave you helpless, let you guess and guess, and don't understand what is wrong.
A "boy reader" once told me this story: "He used to like a Gemini girl, and all of a sudden, people ignored him."
He was very entangled deep down, he was guessing what he had done wrong, and then he kept texting this "Gemini girl" to apologize, and as a week passed, he suddenly saw this girl on the street holding another boy's arm.
He kept asking the author why? He tried so hard to get closer to her, and he still couldn't get her sincerity. ”
The author told him: "Gemini is inherently erratic, so the person she likes is the kind of person who has a calm personality and can help her make decisions, rather than going along with her in everything."
She is originally a "moody" personality, you follow her again, the more you care about her feelings, she will feel that you are not out of the ordinary, will only revolve around the woman, and then more and more dislike you. ”
When the reader friend was still asking the author what caused her such a character, it was too strange, the author told him: "Don't say it, silly Aries, not because of anything else, just because she is a Gemini!" ”
Sagittarius
Many horoscope articles say that this sign "goes straight and straight, no heart and eyes".
It is these articles that make people misunderstand "Sagittarius" and cause great confusion to themselves.
Although this constellation is a fire sign, she is definitely not the kind of personality that "goes straight and has no heart and eyes".
She seems to be able to make any joke and say anything, but in fact, her self-esteem is very strong, and the bottom line is not high.
Many times, when you say a word, it enters her heart, and she didn't have any big reaction at that time.
But soon, you'll find her disappear from your world, like the phrase, "Goodbye too late to wave." ”
Because, the heat is only her "appearance", and the cold is her "heart".
Just like she told you that she likes "hip hop", but her playlist is full of "slow-paced" love songs, she said she likes sports boys, but the boyfriends she talks about are "uncle-type" mature and stable.
This is how she looks different from what she does on the inside.
So, she can easily contact you today, block you the next day, or have a good conversation today, she can fully understand what you are saying, and the next day she will be angry and ask why you are so "insinuating" to satirize her.
The reason for this "moodiness" is caused by her personality trait of "hot outside and cold inside".
So, many times, don't complain about starting to think that finding a "Sagittarius" lover is to find warmth; who knows that after falling in love, you know, find an "ice cube".
It is easy to find no one, easy to lose your temper, easy to be strong and scold you for a dog blood sprinkler, easy to make you feel that she looks down on you.
This is all "Sagittarius", so if you like Sagittarius and don't look at the "heat" on her surface, it is fake.
To love, love the "coldness" in her heart, that is the real her.
Aquarius
The one who likes to bring home the emotions of work the most is this constellation.
Why, because she likes to blame others and doesn't like to be criticized.
Therefore, if you know her well, or if you are her lover, you will quickly appreciate the difference of "Aquarius".
Other constellations are thinking of leaving "distress" outside and bringing "smile" to the people around them.
But she left the "smile" outside and kept the "distress" to her own people.
Many times, she will suddenly get angry because of a little thing, and it is also possible that no matter how big the problem, she can smile and giggle.
This is because of her constellation, the difference, is "late winter, early spring".
When you encounter her "winter" personality, you will feel completely cold.
But when you see her "spring" side, you will have a feeling that this person is actually quite good, and sometimes he cares about people.
But after getting along for a long time, you will only have one feeling.
This person is also too "moody"!!
Speaking of which, in fact, everyone has also found a problem, the personality is moody, and there is really no benefit.
In addition to making yourself unhappy, you can also hurt others, especially the most important people around you.
Then, since you know, you have to correct it.
Many people have said to this writer: "The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to move!" ”
However, I suggest that you copy the Diamond Sutra, have you copied it?
Many readers and friends have said: "You introduce this thing, I can't come, I can't sit still, I'm not used to it." ”
But when you are "short-tempered, mentally unstable, and moody," can others get used to you?
Therefore, asking more of yourself and asking less of others is the way to make yourself progress and make others happy.
In fact, copying the Diamond Sutra is very simple, a pen, a burning incense, a chair, a table, and a pot of tea, it is perfect.
Let yourself bravely open the diamond sutra copy, let your "eyes, brain, hands, heart, pen" focus on one point, and then copy carefully, before you know it, you can indulge in it.
If you don't believe it, you can try it, even the author's "most impetuous big white sheep" can insist on copying for a few years, let alone you.
Moreover, a few words in the Diamond Sutra also tell you the reason why you should change yourself: "Whoever asks me with a voice and sees me with a voice is a man who practices evil ways, and cannot be seen as it comes." ”
Meaning: "Everything depends on yourself, don't think about blaming others, sending your temper to others, the more easily you are moody, that is, when you put your mistakes on others, although you did not say it, but you think so in your heart."
And when you are willing to change, when you are willing to exercise your patience, concentration, and determination, you will no longer be moody and uncertain. ”
So, if you haven't copied it, try it, maybe you can completely change your "moody" personality.
At the end of the article, the author wants to tell you a secret: "Any person with a good relationship is very good at dealing with the conflict of interests between "himself and others", where to go from this relationship.
Therefore, many people say that "suffering loss is a blessing", which is very correct, because when you tolerate others, others will become more and more inseparable from you, and your popularity will become better and better.
And the ancient books also said that "those who harm themselves, people will benefit", we should not let others bear our bad temper, but should learn to bear others, this is the pattern, this is the road to success."
Therefore, let us learn "tolerance and humility" well, and reduce "moodiness, horizontal eyebrows".
Perhaps, this is the road to happiness!