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The ancients had a saying: "One life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulations of yin virtue and five readings." Six seven phases and eight gods, nine noble people and ten health. ”
A person's fate, to be honest, is closely related to the above ten aspects. This includes what we often call "the time and place are favorable", that is, the necessary conditions for a person's successful development.
However, how many people can have the conditions for successful development?
Take "life" as an example, some people are born in rich families, a lot of houses and cars, and the money they have basically can't be spent in a lifetime, then they belong to people with particularly good lives.
On the contrary, some people are born in remote rural families, not to mention that the house is gone, perhaps even ordinary life is difficult to maintain, basically struggle all their lives, and can not get a foothold in the big city, which belongs to people with poor fate.
In this regard, some people will say, can not the latter change their fate through efforts? Of course, it is possible, but most of the people who can change the fate of poverty are rare. For example, you are an international champion, or a successful entrepreneur on the cusp.
And for ordinary people, their fate is exactly in the middle of these two, not extremely good, not extremely bad. At this time, most of the people who appear around these foreshadowings are good people.
02
People with good lives tend to "inadvertently plant willows and willows".
The ancients had a saying: "There is a heart to plant flowers and flowers, and there is no heart to plant willows and willows." ”
When we deliberately do something, we find that these things are often not done. But when we go with the flow and do things without utilitarianism, it becomes.
Why is there such a contradiction? There is an interesting saying that Heaven will not let anyone do what he wants, but it will make him encounter the surprise of fate.
Some people do not have the will to be promoted and raised, but he is promoted and raised, and unconsciously embarks on the management and realizes the leap of beating workers. This is the surprise that God gave him.
Some people don't have the idea of making a lot of money, but he just encountered an opportunity, made a good fortune, and unconsciously improved the quality of life. This is the surprise that God gave him.
In this world, after all, there is a kind of person who lives with a normal mind, lives a life with a natural mind, and then gets what he deserves and has a stable life.
03
People with good lives "just" pass everything.
There is a kind of accidental and inevitable coincidence in this world, that is, "just right".
A student, he originally only had the level of two books, but he happened to be admitted to 211; an ordinary clerk, he could only be at the grassroots level, but he happened to be appreciated by the leader and promoted; an entrepreneur with a good idea, he could only fail, but he happened to be favored by an investor, and gradually became successful.
For such a situation, we may wish to look back at our own experience in the first half of our lives, and we will be clear.
You know, the matter of "just passing the pass" is the compensation given to people by God after all, and it is also its recognition of our hard work. Although there is no absolute "good luck" in this world, there is still a relative "good luck".
Just like the "natural and man-made disasters", why do some people just escape the disaster, while some people have to leave in a hurry? It can only be said that the former's "just right" pass is the opportunity given to him by God to regain his new life.
People, need to cherish everything that "just got" and don't be dissatisfied.
04
People with good fortune will meet noble people one after another.
The ancients believed that there were three great joys in life, and when the gold list was titled, in the cave room, the candle night, he met the old man.
In short, a person who can achieve something in his career, be happy in marriage, and meet a confidant in ordinary life is already a great success.
When we "anthropomorphize" it, then we will find that life needs to meet three noble people, one is Bole, one is true love, and the other is a confidant.
Let's think about it, have we really met these three nobles?
In the workplace, there are bosses who regard you as your right arm, which is your good fortune; in the family, there is a partner who is good to you and has always been by your side, which is a blessing that you have cultivated for many lifetimes; in the jianghu, having a confidant by your side is even more of a blessing for you.
What we see and encounter is the arrangement that fate has given us. As for who to arrange for us, it depends on our "fate".
05
People with good lives will "keep the clouds open and see the moon."
There is a saying: "Taoguang cultivates obscurity, and the clouds see the sun." ”
Only when a person knows how to silently accumulate his own strength and enrich his own confidence when his strength is relatively weak, can he seize the opportunity at some point in the future and make a splash.
Just like Zhu Di of the Ming Dynasty, who knew that he could escape the disaster many times and finally launch the Battle of Jingnan and become the first king of the clan to successfully rebel in history?
There is a saying that is very true, it belongs to you, no matter where you are, you can get it in the end. And what does not belong to you, even if you are in this position at the moment, will eventually pack up your bags and leave.
Fate sometimes has to have it, and fate must not demand it at any time. Some people are rich and noble after all, some people are ordinary after all, some people are hard work after all, what is there to force?
It can only be said that giving yourself a hope and giving yourself some enthusiasm for struggle, perhaps, you and my life, can "keep the clouds open and see the moon".
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