1. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled endlessly over the inheritance of 500,000 yuan, and Yang Guang took over the mediation
Yang Guang (Chen Xiao) is the host of the radio program "Talk Well", he has high emotional intelligence but is very indifferent to people, although he is very good at communication but never pays sincerity.
Yang Guang has hosted the show for more than fifteen years and has been very stable. But I didn't expect that a young newcomer Zhao Li came to the stage, and the program he made was novel, plus he was very good at means, and soon squeezed Out Yang Guang's program from the golden file.
There is no way for Yang Guang's program to change the broadcast time.
In order to help him, the leader Niu Zhiling (Zeng Li) helped him find a "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law competition for inheritance case".
At first, Yang Guang did not want to pick up, but Niu Zhiling said that the competition between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for production is a social hot spot and will definitely explode. She saw that Yang Guang didn't want to pick up, so she said that you still want to pick and choose now?
Yang Guang was forced to take the case helplessly.
The protagonist of this case is a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law Wan Chunmei is married to the Liang family, and the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been very tense since the day she married, and the two people are almost always quarreling.
And the husband Liang Dahe, who was caught in the middle, was embarrassed by the left and right, and was angry at both ends, and chose to go out to work in desperation. Unfortunately, when he went to work, he accidentally fell off the scaffolding and died on the spot.
This was a safety accident, because the unit did not equip Liang Dahe with safety equipment at that time, so the unit compensated a total of 500,000 yuan under mediation.
Liang Dahe used to tell his co-workers when he was working, "The daughter-in-law is unreliable, and if one day he has an accident, he must leave all the pensions and children to his mother, Mrs. Liang." Therefore, with the help of kind workers, the unit directly hit the money into Mrs. Liang's bank card.
After receiving the money, Mrs. Liang has been holding on to the 500,000 yuan, and has not given a penny to her daughter-in-law Wan Chunmei, and she also wants a grandson. As a result, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled over this.
The street office where the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are located has been mediating but has not been successful, so Niu Zhiling heard about it and took the case over.
After Yang Guang listened to the little assistant's report, he said in a cold-blooded manner that it would be over to find a lawyer to directly fight the lawsuit and get the money back.
But the little assistant said that it is so simple, and the family's affairs are so inhumane to Bo Gongtang, which is also not in line with the traditional concept of our Chinese family.
Yang Guang said, "It is also a modern civilization to have each other and not interfere with each other." Humanity is the root of many contradictions. ”
For this case, Yang Guang did not want to accept it, because it would touch the shadow of his heart left by his childhood. Because of his mother's departure when he was a child, the death of his father, and the fact that his grandmother and aunt often said bad things about his mother, Yang Guang had a hard time trusting anyone, and he always refused to communicate sincerely with people.
However, this mediation made him look directly at his own problems again and begin to reflect on himself.
2. The war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law broke out completely
Yang Guang and Wan Chunmei's mother-in-law met, what he did not expect was that Liao Wang (Wang Xiaochen), who he hated the most, was actually there, and she also announced that she was Wan Chunmei's lawyer.
This can increase the difficulty of mediation for Yang Guang, the two originally did not deal with it because of some friction, and it was obvious that Liao Wang was coming for Yang Guang.
Mrs. Liang preemptively said that my son said that if something happened to him, his daughter-in-law would definitely remarry, so let me take care of the money and the children. Then she asked her daughter-in-law, can you guarantee that you will not remarry in the future?
Wan Chunmei was speechless and glared at her mother-in-law.
Mrs. Liang chattered endlessly that her son's money was exchanged for his life, and cried that he had a bad heart and could not be angry.
Yang Guang saw that there was no solution at all, so he pushed back and said that he would talk about this matter another day.
However, Mrs. Liang did not want to make this matter clear, Yang Guang originally did not want to do this case, and now seeing Liao Wang's domineering eyes, he also gambled on being angry and wanted to do this case.
However, when Yang Guang went to see Wan Chunmei again for the second time, he didn't even see anyone, and Yang Guang thought that it must be Liao Wang's ghost and told Wan Chunmei not to let her see himself.
Therefore, Yang Guang made a plan to move the tiger away from the mountain, using his mother to lure Liao Wang away (because Liao Wang was Yang Guang's mother's entrusted lawyer), and then Yang Guang successfully met Wan Chunmei.
But Wan Chunmei did not cooperate at all, very angry that her mother-in-law always said bad things about her in front of the child, and she now wanted to take the child away from the mother-in-law, lest she teach the child badly.
Without waiting for Yang Guang to understand the situation, Liao Wang ran to take Wan Chunmei away.
This time, the mediation failed again, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not resolved on the original basis, but because liao Wang's joining began to intensify.
Not long after, I received the news that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were fighting.
Yang Guang and Liao Wang, after receiving the call, immediately rushed to the place to find that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were still arguing, and Yang Guang found a piece of paper on the door with the words cut from the magazine forming the text of the kidnapping of the child Lin Lin.
Wan Chunmei and her mother-in-law immediately panicked when they saw it, and the two were extremely anxious and wanted to take money to save Lin Lin.
Yang Guang looked at the flustered mother-in-law and suggested that Wan Chunmei call and ask the teachers at the school. The teacher said that Lin Lin had left after school long ago.
Unable to find the child, there is no whereabouts, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are anxious to turn around.
Yang Guang asked them to wait at home, and he and Liao Wang went out together to find the child.
The two men found Lin Lin in an abandoned factory, and he was very resistant to going home. Yang Guang patiently analyzed Lin Lin's situation, because his mother wanted to take Lin Lin, and he was reluctant to give up his grandmother, but his mother and grandmother were incompatible, so Lin Lin fled to his "small castle".
Listening to Yang Guang's words, Lin Lin cried, such a small child he could not solve the contradictions of adults, but he loved his mother and grandmother very much.
Yang Guang assured Lin Lin that he would definitely reconcile his mother and grandmother.
Then, Yang Guang and Liao Wang sent the child home together. Wan Chunmei saw her son come back and hug the kiss, and Mrs. Liang's hanging heart also let go.
This time, Yang Guang saw the real crux of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Lin Lin's situation reminded him of himself when he was a child, and for Lin Lin, he also had to mediate the mother-in-law.
If family conflicts are not properly resolved, it is always the children who are hurt.
3. Yang Guang's last trick is to reconcile his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Niu Zhiling saw that Yang Guang could not solve the case of her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for a long time, so she found Liao Wang and recommended a new case for her.
As soon as Liao Wang heard that she was Yang Guang's superior, he immediately understood that Niu Zhiling did not want to participate in the case of Wan Chunmei's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fighting for inheritance. So, she didn't want to give up.
Niu Zhiling guessed Liao Wang's thoughts, simply opened the skylight and said bright words, bluntly saying that since Liao Wang intervened in the case of Wan Chunmei's mother-in-law, not only did not resolve the original contradictions between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law has intensified and even intensified.
Liao Wang also agreed that this was indeed the case, and he was relieved.
Niu Zhiling also told her that it was Yang Guangqiu's Li Hengji who let her join the lawyer team in Qiangou Village. At this moment, Liao Wang suddenly realized why he had tried to win the consent of his superiors before, but then he suddenly brought himself with him.
In this way, Liao Wang and Yang Guang temporarily put aside their personal emotions and joined forces for the first time to solve the matter of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's struggle for inheritance.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were invited to Yang Guang's office, and as soon as the two sat down, they quarreled again over the child.
Yang Guang stopped them both in time, and he asked Wan Chunmei who usually brought the children?
Mrs. Liang immediately interjected, usually I bring it...
Yang Guang interrupted her, I was asking Wan Chunmei. Mrs. Liang closed her mouth.
Wan Chunmei replied very honestly, usually the child's grandmother takes it, the child has a good relationship with her, she usually tells the child not to listen to the mother, to listen to the grandmother.
At this time, the mother-in-law was a little weak and began to avoid the look in her eyes.
Yang Guang asked Old Lady Liang if she had brought up her son herself?
Mrs. Liang said, of course, she brought it herself, how could my own son bring it to others.
Yang Guang put forward a hypothesis that if your mother-in-law insisted on taking Liang Dahe with her and not letting you touch it, and instilled in him every day how bad it would be for you?
Mrs. Liang fell into deep thought.
Subsequently, Yang Guang asked Wan Chunmei about her income, and Wan Chunmei said that she had to work 12 hours a day to earn money to support her family. It is because of this that the child is given to the mother-in-law and asked to help take care of it.
Then, Yang Guang asked Wan Chunmei to look at her mother-in-law's hand, and asked Liang Lao Taiping if she was doing all the housework when he was too peaceful?
Yang Guang said that we have learned that your mother-in-law has severe rheumatoid arthritis in her hands, and once Liang Dahe wanted to take her to see it but was rejected, because she was afraid of increasing the financial burden on the family. In the winter, she is reluctant to open the washing machine, you and Lin Lin's clothes are all washed by her own hands, you always say how bad your mother-in-law is to you, at least her dedication to this family is obvious to all.
However, I don't see a little gratitude to your mother-in-law in you, not at all!
Wan Chunmei bowed her head in shame.
My mother-in-law said, in fact, this little work is nothing for me, and I also want them to live a generous time. Talking about her son, and then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to blame each other, the mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law forced her son to go out to work, and the daughter-in-law blamed the mother-in-law for provoking their husband and wife relationship every day to cause the husband to run away and die. Both men cried bitterly about their grievances.
Yang Guang comforted them and let them vent. However, Yang Guang still reminded his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that both Liang Dahe and now Lin Lin have become the "items" that you two are fighting for.
If this knot is not untied, then Lin Lin's departure is the beginning of a tragedy.
Subsequently, Yang Guang asked Lawyer Liao Wang to tell Mrs. Liang if she could take her grandson away.
Liao Wang moved out of the law and said it, and Mrs. Liang said that you should directly say how to move out of the law.
Liao Wang told her that it was not against the law for Wan Chunmei to take Lin Lin away, and it was illegal for you to take Lin Lin away.
The mother-in-law still did not die and asked, then if she remarries, can I get my grandson back?
Liao Wang told her that unless Wan Chunmei gave up her guardianship rights, she had no right to take her.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled for the child again, and the mother-in-law meant that Wan Chunmei could remarry, but the child had to be kept to herself, but Wan Chunmei cried that she would not remarry, and she would not give the child to her mother-in-law when she died. Seeing that the two were in a stalemate again, Liao Wang called Wan Chunmei out.
This time, Yang Guang came up with an idea, that is, to let Wan Chunmei scare Mrs. Liang into saying that she would take the child away.
When Wan Chunmei said with a serious face that she wanted to take Lin Lin away, at this point, Mrs. Liang couldn't sit still, she was afraid that her daughter-in-law really wanted to take her grandson away this time, and she just heard the lawyer say that it was also legal to take away, and she began to be afraid.
Mrs. Liang panicked, grabbed her daughter-in-law's arm and begged her not to take Lin Lin, and she did not want the pension, but only begged not to take the child.
Wan Chunmei put down the harsh words, Lin Lin did not want to take him away from me until he was 18 years old.
Mrs. Liang said, I am not going to rob the child with you, I am afraid that if you remarry the other, it will not be good for the child.
Yang Guang immediately interjected, Aunt Liang, you are only in your 50s this year, and it is reasonable to say that you can also remarry.
Mrs. Liang was a traditional woman, and when she heard this, she was shocked, and she was busy stopping Yang Guang and not talking nonsense.
Yang Guang took the opportunity to give Mrs. Liang a reason, the sky is going to rain and the lady wants to marry, you say your daughter-in-law, then what if your daughter-in-law says so about you? So, don't we bring what didn't happen to us to the present to disrupt our lives now, isn't that a mediocrity?
The daughter-in-law smiled and said yes.
Yang Guang said to Wan Chunmei again, since you definitely have to be promoted and raised at work, then your time is definitely not enough, how do you have time to take care of Lin Lin? So Aunt Liang, can you help take care of it?
The mother-in-law immediately agreed, and said that as long as she could take care of her eldest grandson, she could do anything.
At this time, Wan Chunmei's heart also softened.
Yang Guang began to understand the reason and moved with affection, from Lin Lin's point of view to help them analyze, if the two of them were arguing would be a devastating blow to Lin Lin, this family would mean that they would be scattered. Moreover, the impact of this harm on the child is very bad. Therefore, to think about how to create a healthy family atmosphere, it is most important to let children grow up in a healthy family environment.
In the end, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law released their previous suspicions and went home together.
4. Write at the end:
In fact, in the process of mediating the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Yang Guang found that the focus of the dispute between the two was not the 500,000, but the child. The mother-in-law is worried that the daughter-in-law will take the child away, and if she remarries the child, she will suffer. The daughter-in-law can't stand the mother-in-law instilling the mother's bad thoughts into the children every day, and feels that the mother-in-law really destroys their mother-child relationship. In addition, the daughter-in-law is busy going to work every day and ignores the mother-in-law's contribution to the family, the two have never communicated positively, and they are preventing each other from reborn.
Therefore, Yang Guang used the way of empathy to help the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law understand each other's true thoughts. He first asked his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to re-examine each other's efforts, let the mother-in-law know that it is not easy for the daughter-in-law to earn money alone to support the family and raise the children, and also let the daughter-in-law understand that the mother-in-law is also doing her best to pay for the family every day. Think emotionally and understand each other's difficulties.
Then, let Liao Wang use the law to tell the mother-in-law that it is illegal to rob the child, and the daughter-in-law is the real legal guardian, and she has the right to take the child. This broke through the mother-in-law's blind arrogance and made her jealous.
On the other hand, Yang Guang comforted his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law from the perspective of being conducive to the growth of the child, analyzed the pros and cons, and told them that only two people working together would be good for the child.
In the end, Yang Guang let Wan Chunmei pretend to take away the child, but instead let the two people show their true hearts, not only let Wan Chunmei see that her mother-in-law really wanted to accompany her grandson, but also let her mother-in-law feel that her daughter-in-law just wanted to raise the child well and did not have the idea of remarrying.
In the end, the mother-in-law understood the daughter-in-law's difficulty, and the daughter-in-law also understood the mother-in-law's good intentions, and the two people's ultimate intentions were for the good of the children.
There is a saying that the power of language is sometimes better than a thousand troops, in fact, some things are very simple, but some people do not communicate sincerely, but only use some mean, ugly words to hurt people, and finally make both lose.
In fact, speaking well should be the ability that adults must have, and only by knowing how to empathize can the relationship between people be harmonious and long-lasting.