There are many people in life, always can not calmly put down, whether it is love, or friendship, or even the trivialities of life, as long as there are changes in the middle, even if they have made the greatest efforts, in the end still failed to get their inner expectations.
For this reason, he could not eat, could not sleep, and in the end he could not change anything but torturing himself.
Therefore, in the adult world, we must learn to let go of things that cannot be changed, and understand that letting go is not a kind of recognition of fate, but for a better life.
01
In this life, people are born as human beings, they all want to have a perfect love, and they all hope that that person can love themselves as much as they love him (her).
Even in my life, I long to be with the people I like, as beautiful as I first saw, but we all know that life is not a fairy tale after all, nor is it an idol drama written by the screenwriter in the TV series.
We can't predict the end of each love, what we can do is to love each other well and cherish each other well when we are together, even if in the end, because of some things, you and that person can't be together in the end.
As long as in that relationship, you try your best, whether the ending is acceptable or not, you must learn to let go, because a person who does not love you, your persistence, will only limit you to a humble situation, your humility will not be exchanged for the love of that person, but will only make the person who does not love you more and more dislike you.
Therefore, only by learning to let go of a relationship that you love but can't make the person you love but can't make you feel sorry for missing you occasionally when you think of you.
02、
Some people say that everyone will meet about 50,000 people in their lifetime, about 100 people, and at different times of life, they will become good friends they think they are.
But at different stages of life, they will be scattered, not what you did wrong, not what he did wrong, but the living environment changed, and finally let some people drift away.
In life, if your friend suddenly drifts away from you, don't chase after him for a word that offends him and keeps him away from you, and don't doubt whether his kindness to you is true.
Because maybe it's just that you and his living environment have changed, forming two parallel lines that don't intersect, and naturally there is less contact.
So at this time, what you have to do is not to make more contact, but not to deliberately disturb, because in order not to want to be estranged from the relationship and contact more, the difference in lifestyle will only make the chat extremely awkward.
Therefore, only by letting go of a friendship that is gradually drifting away will we make that time of sincere treatment better.
03
In fact, the so-called injuries in life, and the troubles that cannot go through, are just the entanglements of their own moments at that time, as long as people know how to put down, time will heal all the injuries, all the troubles.
As Pushkin said, everything is temporary and everything will fade away. Everything that has passed away will become a good memory.