People who want to see you, trekking through mountains and rivers will rush to you
Someone said:
"There is a kind of sadness when chatting with people, the message that tells me to reply to you is seconds back, and the message you reply to me is reincarnation.
What is even more disappointing than reincarnation is that it has not been read back. ”
So someone said that if the message was sent for a long time and did not get a reply, I would delete the dialog box.
Because when I saw that dialog box, it was as if I saw my own humility and flattery.
In adult social rules, the last message sent out is not replied to, which means that you have to be interesting and cannot send it again.
Because the silence of the other party is the best refusal.
Usually, the messages received on WeChat are usually returned in seconds.
The second is not because I am idle, but because I know that waiting is not good, I do not want to do to others.
If you can't go back and forth all the time, such as being busy writing, recording radio, or busy with meetings, I will try to reply as soon as possible after busy.
Normally speaking, no matter how busy you are, you will not not reply to the message.
If there are exceptions, when I can't read it back, it means that I'm really not interested in the messages sent by this person.
Even to this person, I don't want to pay attention.
I believe that many people are like me, in the process of treating people and things, there will always be some inadvertent double-standard moments and behaviors.
Take the matter of replying to a message.
When you see the message, you will return it in seconds, and if you don't see it, you will reply in time.
If you can't read it back, you are too lazy to go back, don't know how to get back, and don't want to go back.
Yesterday I was chatting with a reader friend who told me that two boys had been chasing her lately.
The first boy, his appearance and comprehensive ability in all aspects, grew up on her ideal type, which fully met her requirements for the other half.
At first, they also had a good conversation, and they had time to meet for dinner.
But somehow in the middle, the boy suddenly did not reply to the message.
In the past, he took the initiative to provoke the topic to chat with her, and every time the conversation was over, he ended the conversation at the bottom.
But now, he hadn't taken the initiative to find her for more than half a month.
She sent him a message, and he couldn't read it back.
There are no explanations or explanations.
The second boy, although the conditions are average in all aspects.
But she was particularly warm and thoughtful.
Greeting her on time every morning and evening, no matter what time, as long as it is her message, he will reply in seconds.
If you can't reply in time, you will also tell her in advance what you want to do, how long to come back, and look for her as soon as you come back.
Once, she couldn't sleep at one or two o'clock in the middle of the night, so she casually sent him a very sleepy meme.
Unexpectedly, he replied the next second, asking her if she was insomnia or unhappy, and this point was still awake.
That night, he slept and chatted with her until dawn.
The girl asked me:
What is the difference between a second return and a read cannot be returned?
I said, just the two guys who are chasing you right now.
Seconds back to your boys, not necessarily very like you.
But the boy who can't read it back must really not care about you.
How a person treats you, from the speed at which he replies to your WeChat, can actually be spied on.
People who like you, halfway through the shower, will also stop to see if there is any information about you.
People who don't like you, eat a meal for hours, go to the bathroom for a few days, go out like the world has evaporated.
Is he really busy? Not really.
So why not reply to your message? Because I don't want to go back.
Not knowing what to say to you, no superfluous affection or outreach to you to share, and at the same time not interested in the things you share.
That's the difference.
I know a very "strange" friend.
He set up messages to all his friends in the address book to be undisturbed.
Usually reply to messages, in his words, rely on fate.
Because he especially hates the Ding-Dong Ding-Dong prompt tone on WeChat.
However, he not only bothered his girlfriend, but also found his favorite music and set it as her call ringtone.
Girlfriend's message, he always has a second back.
If he was going to a meeting in five minutes, he was still chatting normally with his girlfriend for the first four minutes and fifty seconds.
Ask him why he is so "double standard"?
He said, "Isn't it obvious, she's my girlfriend." ”
So you see, that's the difference.
The person who has you in his heart, even if you don't look for him, he will take the initiative to contact you.
If you go downstairs to his house, he will not necessarily go out to see you.
"Seconds back" and "can't read back", in a sense, are the difference between love and no love.
It is also the difference between caring and not caring.
Messages should be sent to the people who will be returned in seconds, and the phone calls should be made to the people who must be answered.
Your sincerity and sincerity should be delivered to sincere people.
Your tenderness and love, naturally, should also be left to the one who deserves it.
As for the person who can't read it back, let him get busy.
One day, you will meet the person who will send you home by the way, the south, the sea, and the north are willing to meet you, and there are twenty-four hours to reply to you.
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Author: Uncle Nan, Source: Mr. Nanxu (nanxu668). Please contact the original author for authorization for reproduction.