We got married at the end of 2012 and by 13 years we hadn't been pregnant, so we went to the local hospital for a check-up, and it turned out that I had no problems and my husband had poor sperm quality (often on the night shift). Just in the hospital to eat Western medicine for a few months, again check or poor quality, and check the varicocele is not too serious, the doctor said that it will not affect fertility.
Later, I looked for a local Chinese medicine doctor and said that I was cold in the palace, and I and my object both drank Chinese medicine, drank for more than a year, and the test results were still not good. The family has been urging to have children, saying that it is really not possible to go to the test tube, but my husband has been reluctant to go. Later, if I really took Western medicine and Chinese medicine and it didn't work, I was ready to go to the test tube. Originally, I didn't understand test tubes, and I always thought that doing test tubes would definitely be successful, but then it hit us very hard (it may also be that we are not ready and do not know that we need to rest well to do test tubes).
An experience of failure
In October 2015, I went to the hospital in Tianjin and saw the doctor to tell us that the quality of sperm is poor, coupled with the low probability of natural pregnancy with premature ovarian failure, it is best to do ivory tubes. The preliminary tests of the test tube began: blood draws, chromosomes, liver work, HIV, etc., everything was normal. The doctor gives the antagonist regimen, which begins to promote the discharge, and every two or three days goes to the injection.
Because you still need to go to work, often go back and forth between home and Tianjin, sometimes take the train at one or two o'clock in the morning, and when you get to the hospital at five o'clock in the morning, you have been sitting at the hospital door until eight o'clock to see the doctor and see the doctor and get up in the afternoon, the snow is heavy, the train is stopped, the bus does not start, the husband has to rush home at night, he finds the private car on the high speed home, sees the big truck and the small car overturned and crashed at the high speed, and I and my husband feel afraid when they get home on the high speed.
On November 26, I finally waited for the egg retrieval, only four were taken, and everyone else took a dozen, which was particularly uncomfortable. Wait for the embryo culture in the hospital, wait for the transfer after three days. On the third day to the hospital, the nurse began to shout names and tell the patients to match a few, etc., the whole room was all named, only me and I were left, the nurse did not pay attention to us, we were particularly puzzled, we went to ask the nurse why did not call our name, the nurse said that your unworthy, did not say a reason. What is a thunderbolt on a sunny day? What is the mood to reach the freezing point in an instant? That time I really felt that people in their fifties who wanted a second child were all matched, and we, hey...
After the Spring Festival of 16 years, I discussed not going over there to do test tubes, too tossed, too tired, and the body could not rest. After consulting at the local hospital, I knew that I could test tubes, and I thought that it was not used to toss back when I was close to home (at that time, I thought that as long as the hospital could do test tubes, it should be the same, and now I know that the idea at that time was wrong). After preliminary examination and induction of ovulation, there was only one follicle in the end, and it was directly abandoned.
From 16 years to 18 years, I did not do test tubes directly, not because I didn't want to go, I was really scared, and it was also because I had no money. For more than two years, the elders of the family said that we should not be able to get pregnant, even the IVF and sperm can not cultivate good embryos, if not, it is better to get together and disperse, but our two sons are under great pressure at home and do not want to leave.
The way to test the tube for children
On August 29, 2018, we once again embarked on the journey to Tianjin to seek a son. Because we are getting older, we are more and more in a mood to have our own children, and because we can no longer escape, we have to face reality.
First time: Failure
I saw the doctor at the fertility hospital, told the doctor about my specific situation and previous experience, looked at the list of examinations, and the doctor said that it was best to test tube. Therefore, I listened to the doctor's arrangement and began various examinations, examinations, filings, ovulation, egg retrieval, and transplantation. In the end, three were taken, only one was cultured, and twelve days after the transplant, the blood was drawn and failed. Although it failed, my husband said that at least this time the follicles and sperm could be combined and transplanted, which was much better than the previous results.
After the Spring Festival of 19 years, we heard that the Tianjin doctor had a good look at fertility (because my husband and classmates got pregnant after taking Chinese medicine there for a few months). Seeing the doctor, he also said that the probability of natural pregnancy is relatively low, if you do test tubes, you can prescribe some formulas in the early stage to improve the quality of sperm and follicles, so he took Chinese medicine for four or five months. Finally, the doctor let me do the examination, and after seeing the results, he directly said that it was better to test the tube as soon as possible, because of the situation of the two of you, the test tube is the fastest way to have a child.
Second time: Biochemistry
On May 7, 2019, I went to the fertility hospital again for egg retrieval, this time taking three, and mixing and transplanting two fresh embryos. This time I feel that the hope is particularly large, after all, the transplantation of two is greater than the chance of transplanting one, some prints measured on the home test strip, but twelve days later to the hospital to draw blood hcg only 25, the doctor let wait to see doubled. Heck, doubling is bad, the doctor announces that biochemistry is gone. Although it failed again, it was better than the previous one, and it could be formulated and transplanted into two (that being said, it was just our two sons finding some comfort for each other).
Third time: give up
The third doctor gave the long plan, the initial examination showed that there were six or seven follicles, and finally the post-ovulation examination showed only one mature follicle, and we simply gave up. The money for the pre-examination and injections was adrift again, and he was once again guilty.
Fourth time: Success
On October 11, 2019, I came to the fertility hospital again, the doctor said that various situations have appeared, various programs have also been used, and we discussed how to carry out the next time, I said to try it without the luteal phase program, the doctor feels that this program can be tried. Through preliminary examinations and so on, on December 9, the eggs were retrieved, four were taken, and the doctor let the direct sac be saced and frozen for a year before transplanting.
After the eggs were retrieved and we came out of the hospital, we went straight home, and each time we stayed near the hospital for a few days waiting for the results of the hospital. This time I thought that waiting here may not be successful, just go home and count it, love it. After returning home, there are acquaintances who introduce a place where acupuncture is particularly good, and many people have looked after it there, so I will go to acupuncture every day without delay. I originally wanted to go to the transplant after the New Year, but it was just in time for the serious epidemic, until I went to the hospital for consultation in early March 2020.
The doctor said that we had a frozen embryo with a level of 4BB and the embryo quality was very good. Let April 25th come transplantation. By the 25th, we drove to the hospital at 1:30 p.m., and when it was almost four o'clock I was called in and entered the operating room for a transplant. After returning home after transplantation, unlike the original every time you arrive home, you have been lying down, this time back home, the activity will be active, as long as you do not mention heavy objects do not feel tired, after the transplant immediately take the fetal protection pills.
Wait until the sixth day to test the pink with the test strip, at that time I thought that this time should be pregnant, I want to be a mother, said to my husband, my husband was happy that night until three o'clock in the morning to sleep.
On May 7, I came to the fertility hospital to draw blood hcg481, and the official announcement was pregnant, so happy. May 27 to do B ultrasound with fetal heartbustache fetal buds, June 30 NT normal, the same day the hospital and free blood draw to do non-invasive DNA, July 1 hospital sent results show that are low risk, and finally graduated in the reproductive hospital. Started doing pregnancy tests at the local hospital until January 21, when my little princess was born, all our tests were all green lights.
My husband and I cried when we saw the children, and in eight years, how much sin we had suffered on this road of seeking children, and how much we had been talked about behind the backs of other people, only those of us who had experienced this road could understand. Finally, I wish all my friends on this road will be well pregnant, to maintain a good mood (mood is especially important to the success rate), do not give up, and firmly believe that we will have our own healthy and happy baby!