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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
In the relationship, some women do not understand why men originally pursue very hard, the attitude is also very enthusiastic, suddenly cold, do not come to chat.
In fact, most of the time, men may have a lot of thoughts and appear to be very means when pursuing women.
If you don't understand his thoughts, you may become passive in the relationship and end up being led by the man's nose.
Any relationship is gradually cultivated, a man really loves you, he will definitely spend his mind to please you, will not rush to be cold with you.
The most common is to chat, and the man who really likes you will definitely use the chat method to get to know you and make you expect from him.
In this process, whether a man is true love, it will be reflected, and the man who loves you deeply will not rush to be cold to you.
However, some men are different, they will suddenly snub you, suddenly disappear from your sight, never come to chat with you again, in fact, it will see his true heart, it is likely not true love.
Generally speaking, a man suddenly does not talk to you, most of them are "ulterior motives", there may be 3 kinds of ideas, it is better to know it earlier.
First, use the means of indulgence to stir you up
Many men suddenly do not talk to women, in fact, they use the means of indulgence, everywhere to stir up women, and will not easily pay the heart.
When they first start, they will be very enthusiastic, like to say some sweet love words, make a lot of promises, and then reassure you.
Then, when you can't wait to be with him, he suddenly doesn't look for you, making you anxious.
When you really have a good feeling for him, maybe they will get in, think you are very good, and want to ask you out.
If you are not thoughtful and rush to agree, they will make all kinds of teasings on you, and when the freshness is over, they will not cherish it.
No matter how you treat a man later, he will not be interested in you, and will only treat you as one of many people who are provocative, and do not really love you.
At this time, he has no expectations for you, and naturally he will suddenly break off contact with you and do not want to call you to chat.
You have paid the heart, paid the feelings, and all you get is the man's disregard, and such feelings are not worth it.
Under normal circumstances, men use this means of indulgence, appear to have ulterior motives, they will pursue many women, as long as they feel that women are very good, they are willing to spend their minds.
The common routine, that is, to be enthusiastic about you at the beginning, disguise the appearance of really loving you, and make you lower your guard.
When you gradually fall in love with him, he will want to indulge, suddenly stop looking for you, let you have greater expectations of him, and completely hold you.
At this time, he puts a little more enthusiasm into you, pretends to make love with you, asks you out, and finally chases you down.
Therefore, women should understand that men who truly love you will not easily break off contact with you, and it is impossible not to chat with you.
Only men who like to seduce women and don't want to give their hearts will coldly you, they are just playing, and they must stay away when they meet.
Second, if you don't talk about it, you are tired and lose interest in you
In the relationship, some men suddenly stop talking to you, may be tired and lose interest in you.
They may have genuinely loved you before, but after spending a long time together, they feel that their feelings are flat and they don't want to spend time on you.
Especially when he is tired of feelings, he doesn't want to see you at all, and he doesn't want to talk to you.
Some women in this situation always think that they are not doing well enough, so they are more pleasing to men, which is really unnecessary.
In general, a man has no interest in you, develops a boredom, and no matter how well you do, he will not be impressed.
Basically, the man suddenly stops talking to you, the problem is all with him, and it has nothing to do with you.
Therefore, when women get along with men, they should not always easily deny themselves, let alone set limits for themselves.
If a man suddenly stops looking for you, you should not be bent on pleasing him, which will seem very undignified and will make him look down on you even more.
Instead, all you have to do is keep your dignity, live better than before, and make him regret it.
No matter what kind of relationship, the man and you suddenly keep a distance is a sign that he does not love, and women should pay attention to it.
A man who truly loves you will not get tired of you over time, and even if the feelings are flat, he will care about your feelings.
Men who don't love you will only deny everything about you in the passage of time, ignore you, and get used to being cold to you.
Such love is likely to not stand the test of time, and women who meet men who are tired of you must plan early.
Third, there is a new goal, and I don't love you anymore
The man suddenly stops talking to you, and the biggest possibility is that he has a new goal and doesn't love you anymore.
Such a man, no matter how much he loved you before and how sincere he behaved, will leave you once he meets a more heartwarming woman.
In the end, this kind of man's love is not firm, has ulterior motives, and always sees one to love one, especially hypocritical.
When he finds a new goal, he will put all his thoughts on others, and he will naturally have no enthusiasm for you.
Even if you take the initiative to find him, you may not let him look at you more, men don't love, and what you do is wrong.
In his heart, he will only feel that the new goal is better, willing to invest more time and energy, and even pay a lot of economic costs, just to catch up with them.
Therefore, he will not have a trace of nostalgia for you, and he would like to leave your sight early, and naturally he will not come to you again.
Just like the male colleague of the unit, he originally had a girlfriend, and after three months of love, he suddenly met another girl and felt that it was even more exciting.
So he gradually alienated his girlfriend and spent all his time chatting with the girl.
His girlfriend had something to look for him, or sent him a lot of messages, he didn't pay attention to it, he couldn't bring up a trace of interest, and he used the excuse of being busy at work every time to prevaricate.
In fact, he wasn't busy, he had a lot of time, but he was chatting with other girls.
He once said bluntly: "If you don't love your girlfriend, you naturally don't want to chat with her, who wants to spend time and energy to pick up a woman who doesn't love?" ”
So, when a guy suddenly stops talking to you, it's basically that he doesn't love anymore and has found a new target.
Women meet men like this to you, be sure to stay sober, it is best to stop the loss in time.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
In "One Thousand and One Magic Formulas", it is written: "A person cannot go away, but because he does not want to go away; a person who breaks the contract is because he does not want to go to the appointment, and all the excuses are nonsense, which is used to cover up his unwillingness to sacrifice." ”
If men don't love, they will naturally not be enthusiastic about you, and they will not have sincerity to speak of.
He suddenly stopped talking to you, that is, he had ulterior motives and hoped that you would take the initiative to quit, at this time you did not have to entangle, let alone please, it was better to maintain dignity and live your own life.
To sum up, if men suddenly stop talking to you, there may be these 3 thoughts, and it is better to know them earlier.
To seduce you with means of indulgence; not to talk is to be tired, to lose interest in you; to have a new goal, not to love you.
In short, in the face of a man who suddenly broke off contact with you, you should not be sad and sad, but you should see his mind clearly, if it is not worth consuming, it is better to put it down as soon as possible.
Love, is a two-way rush, in the face of men who do not love you, there is no sense of entanglement, leave yourself some dignity and decency, is your pattern.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.