The ideal of true love or fantasy of true love is not the same as the real love in reality, but many times, emotional people have no way to overcome this psychological gap.
For example, a person who feels that his true love is a person who can tolerate all of himself, accept all of his own, good and bad, etc., the ideal plot is heavier, then if he meets a person, and later finds in getting along, the other party is more and more unable to accept him.
This will lead to him thinking that the other party is not his true love, even if the other party is really to her, this kind of thing sounds ridiculous, but in fact this kind of thing is very common in reality.
It's just that in reality it should not be called ridiculous, but it should be called sad.
In other words, in order to make a person fully accept himself, he must first accept everything from the other party safely.
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With the Gemini, you can ask them all kinds of questions, the more bizarre, the more bizarre, the more extraordinary the better, you can see the activity of the Gemini through these questions, see the Gemini's agility.
But try not to ask questions like "What do you think your true love looks like, or who does true love look like?" ”
Open the skylight to say bright words, this type of question, you ask is also a white question, Gemini really does not know, not joking, even if gemini's true love is now standing next to him, he does not know.
Don't pull the ideal component, this is meaningless, Gemini is not an ideal type of person, but a very practical person, just to say that their reality is a bit erratic.
Suddenly coupled with the active state, gemini sensitivity or keen perception appears, which is a very heavy point in their personality.
But the people who can discover the profound character of gemini will only be in the minority.
Why? The reason is also very simple, Gemini is good at verbal work, what you say, or what to instill, he does not recognize, he is cunning, you have no way, but you should know that Gemini in these behaviors, it is the time of confusion and lack of assertive thinking.
That's why you see Gemini's sophistry, or argument.
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Gemini's sensitivity affects their normal state, including emotional awareness, or words and deeds, and so on.
I've said before that "Geminis have a hard time expressing their true emotions in their hearts," and they are accustomed or good at expressing words that have nothing to do with real emotions.
If you think about why, in fact, the answer is still the above logic, although Gemini is not an earth sign, it is actually very similar to the earth sign in terms of the concept of true love and emotional consciousness.
Gemini can like a lot of people, and may have a crush on some people, but does this have anything to do with actual love? Never mind.
Like is just like, just your own good feelings for some people in your heart, at best, you want to get close to this person, want to understand this person.
When he can't hold back this kind of liking, Gemini may approach a person, but if the other party thinks that Gemini is interested in her, or likes Gemini and wants to confirm the relationship with Gemini, then he will find that Gemini has run.
Why did the Gemini run? Because she was confused, it wasn't the result she wanted.
She just wanted to get closer, wanted to understand, curiously interested, and was far from the point of having anything to do with it.
Gemini has no way of confirming their desires, that is, they do not know what they really want, why this is happening, the reasons for this are not complicated, and the answer is in line with the logic of the wind sign.
Because they never think so much, what they think about the most is the current and current things, such as what they don't want to do, what they want to see, and so on.
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Suddenly you make gemini think so far, can they not be confused? For example, confirm the relationship.
Conversely, if Gemini didn't get bogged down when he met someone who wanted to confirm a relationship with her, and then the two of them got together, could you say that the relationship would last?
No, when Gemini feels uncomfortable, he doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore, and he will use the simplest way to avoid it.
This kind of thing gemini is hard to avoid, boy, you know.
Gemini man because he likes a girl, likes the figure or the face, with a girl to get together, and then after a period of time found that it is not the life he wants, then he will retire.
Gemini will be willful in the relationship, or quite willful, they will always have a myriad of reasons, such as you made an appointment with Gemini last week to go to the movies, and he didn't come, or he was late.
Later you ask him "why" and he will give you countless reasons, all kinds of reasons, you show anger, or start to accuse, Gemini is uncomfortable again.
Gemini's wayward little bit is very hardcore "I know I'm doing something wrong, but you can't say, if you say I'm uncomfortable, I'm uncomfortable I'm embarrassed, embarrassed I don't want to see you."
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So when you encounter this kind of thing, you can still see gemini avoidance behavior, you tell her the problem of being late, the problem of defaulting, she is always pulling other things, you feel that she is not in the same channel as you.
Seeing this state of gemini, you will be more and more unable to control emotions, and the more you can't control your emotions, the more embarrassing gemini will be, how do you communicate, how to deal with it?
Gemini actually thinks very simply at this time, "Now that it is so embarrassing, how can it not be embarrassed?" For example, I say something else, turn the topic around."
And you see that she is sophistry and does not have the proper attitude towards the problem.
So throughout this whole thing, do you see the sensitivity of geminis? You can't see it, so once this type of thing happens more often, the gemini will basically be gone.
Then when he thinks of you, his mood involuntarily deteriorates, not that you are not good, nor is he bad, but these things make him feel bad, his mood is stressful, and he does not want to face this kind of thing that makes him uncomfortable.
But then again, people who get along with Gemini, which one will basically encounter the same type of thing, when the problem occurs, you can't talk to Gemini about a channel.
You think he is arguing, in fact, he wants to deal with the trouble or embarrassment in front of him quickly and simply, two people are not together, and it is not easy to solve the problem.
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To put it bluntly, Gemini sometimes it is not clear that he is irresponsible and that he has done wrong, but he does not want to admit it, he cannot admit it, because doing this thing makes him very uncomfortable.
Admit it, you are not intentional, such as deliberately breaking the contract, or deliberately doing something wrong, do not admit it, and feel that you are irresponsible, so when you are confused, Gemini begins to drift.
Gemini's concept of true love is actually really very simple, that is, he needs someone who can adapt to himself and he can get used to each other.
To put it bluntly, the other party can accept everything about him, good or bad, that is, to adapt to him, he can also accept the good and bad of the other party, and have a habit of the other party.
Then in this case, the concept of true love of gemini appears, and here in gemini, it is basically impossible to have that firm and strong concept of true love, only to get used to a person, to get used to a relationship, a very practical concept.
So no matter what this person looks like or what his personality is, as long as this special relationship is triggered, the special emotional consciousness of gemini is also triggered.
In the case where Gemini is used to a person, they can't leave, and the attention is not a matter of whether they want to or not.
Even if he wanted to leave, he couldn't do it, he couldn't pass his own level, and the reason was still the logic of the first paragraph.
Gemini always has a naughty and active child living in his heart, plus he himself is two children, and the sense of security they need is actually:
A relationship that makes you inseparable and accustomed to it, regardless of whether you are rich or poor, no matter how long or short.
A very simple concept, but also a very sacred concept.
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