What would you do if you fell in love with someone who couldn't sway himself? His liking for you is uncertain, erratic, not even at the level of desire, so how do you feel? How are you going to handle such a relationship? The following in-depth analysis of this constellation may give you a reassuring pill.
The way and logic of taking Gemini
First of all, there is a small "rule" about Gemini's emotions, likes, feelings, and hearts: purposeful people, strong people, impatient people, impatient people, people who can't stand up to them, etc. When such people have a liking feeling for a Gemini, then this kind of feeling basically cannot be established in Gemini, and they will unilaterally resist or deny.
Let's take a very simple example, which actually abounds in reality.
For example, Gemini man, there is a girl like a Gemini man, after the two people understand each other, the girl will say to the Gemini man "Let's be together", then can this Gemini man agree?
The answer is basically no! Gemini men are likely to say to this girl, "I don't want to be in love right now."
Then many people have no solution, everyone is so active in a girl, you a boy still have to refuse, do you not like her?
Here the contradiction point of the Gemini appears, just like this girl does not want to continue because of the rejection of the Gemini man, but the Gemini man will not let go, and he does not want the girl to leave him.
So what kind of logic is this?
In fact, this is a very simple logic, first of all, the feeling of "like" of geminis is very fast, and this kind of like will also act on many people or things.
This means that this kind of liking is normal in the mind of geminis, it is relatively pure, or gemini is relatively simple.
For example, a boy whose twin children like to play basketball in high school, and boys who like to play games well in college.
However, in high school, she did not fall in love with the boy who played basketball, and when she went to college, she fell in love with this boy who played games well.
So now there's a problem —
Are the two likes of this twin the same like?
The answer is the same, except that the latter's preference is helped by realistic conditions.
So if there is no such reality arm, the love of the twins is still in the heart.
Now let's go back to the original question above, where gemini men are unsure of a relationship for two reasons.
The first reason is —
He himself didn't produce the emotion of "liking" to the next level.
The second reason —
In Gemini's view, at present, they have no realistic "arm help" together, or there are no realistic conditions.
Then this is actually a more contradictory problem - you like each other, but you are not with each other, and the reason for not being together is your own reason, and at the same time, the other party can not give up.
We use two words to describe this contradiction of the Twins, one is confused, and the other is unclear.
In fact, this kind of problem, to put it bluntly, is a sentence - Gemini is not so fond of each other at present, but in his own opinion, he still likes each other a little.
Therefore, in real life, when Gemini is in love with someone, what they talk about is the process of chasing, curiosity, and liking, rather than wanting to be sure to be with each other from the beginning.
This period can be described as "
A period of ambiguity that has been unilaterally lengthened
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So the most critical and interesting question arises – why is Gemini like this?
On this question, I personally recommend that friends not ask Gemini himself, because they do not have the answer, in fact, the answer to this question lies in gemini personality and thinking ideas.
Friends who know Gemini better should know one of gems' traits—
The words and deeds of this sign are basically dominated by self-feelings, thoughts, thoughts, logic, and moods.
It's like a gemie talking to a friend in the first two minutes, but after two minutes he's gone, and as long as he doesn't want to say it, he just gives you a reason and disappears.
Then when he wants to say it, he will pull the previous reason back and continue the sea chat, and the cycle will start over and over again.
But his friends will guess because of his words and deeds — is he in a bad mood? Did something happen to him?
In fact, it is not, he just does not want to talk.
Gemini is also such a logical habit for what he does not have to do, so this sign is very forgetful.
For example, you ask Gemini, "When did you tell me what you didn't say last time?" He'll tell you to "think about it and say it again."
They are not the kind of people who "promise you what to say to you in the afternoon, and they will definitely say something to you in the afternoon."
Therefore, Gemini's words and deeds have a specific habitual characteristic - words and deeds are capricious, casual, free-spirited, and unrestrained.
The cleverness of this constellation is also reflected in these aspects.
Then this kind of word and deed feature is so-called for people who have nothing to do with Gemini, and it has no big impact.
But if a Gemini is like this with his object, then his object is very likely to be "hurt" by him, or even run away from him, which is also common.
The same logic, such as a Gemini man or gemini two days ago said to you, "I will love you for the rest of my life, and I will always be by your side."
But maybe two days later he's in a bad mood or angry, and he'll tell you, "I don't love you, I've had enough."
Many people say that the existence of vows here in Gemini is not necessary, but in fact, this is a one-sided view.
The truth is—
Gemini will say a lot of words similar to vows when their favorite emotions erupt or feel like an outburst, but these words are not vows in Gemini's heart!
This distinction must be clearly distinguished.
So, about gemini's heart and emotions, we can't help but think of a very realistic and heartfelt question - what kind of person does Gemini need?
Is it a person who fell in love at first sight, or a person who has been in love for a long time?
Don't think about it, this question really doesn't need you to think, because Gemini has no answer.
Or to put it another way, when Gemini is still more fond of a person and the two people are still in their freshness, he and the other person are both affectionate and believe that the two people have a long-term relationship.
But if Gemini has no feelings, his long-term relationship may not last more than a week.
In fact, the truth about Gemini's emotions and feelings is not these things, but things that Gemini himself is not aware of, this thing is called - habit.
Habits are irresistible to Geminis, and they can't find any reason to give up.
People who have Gemini friends around them should be more aware of some of their habits.
For example, some Gemini are weaned very late, some Gemini have a habit of maintaining something, good or bad, and others say that it is useless and so on.
And this customary concept is the way and logic of determining geminis, under the concept of habit, gemini is sufficiently specific, but also affectionate enough or humble.
And if Gemini is not used to people or feelings, then they can find countless reasons to resist or give up.
To put it simply:
Gemini will unilaterally lengthen the ambiguous period when in love, so what you have to do is to lengthen the ambiguous period.
Don't be impatient or panic, don't worry that he won't fall in love with you, and don't have to be afraid that you won't come to fruition.
All you have to do is"
Carry the ambiguity to the end
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Let Gemini have a deep enough memory of you, this memory will be triggered when he is sad, happy, etc. When he has emotions, they will remember you from time to time.
And there is no way to do this.
Because in reality, no one's charm and attractiveness can always rise or remain unchanged for Gemini.
And the key to that is."
There are no relational constraints and constraints
”。
In this case, your state will definitely play out beyond normal, and your emotions will not fluctuate and passive because of the relationship you desire.
And for your relationship, then you are the one at the helm, time, space, fun, fun, etc. You will have it here, all of it.
What Gemini needs, is interested in, and is curious about can be replenished here.
Gemini's desire for himself cannot be determined, and even if he is, it will fluctuate.
What you do is make his emotional needs and emotional desires more uncertain, but he can't give up.
Then this pattern will become a habit over time.
This habit will be deeply imprinted in gemini's subconscious and heart, and then you will see gemini's heart and determination, and the affection and dependence on you they show in this situation will definitely surprise you, because their emotions are impossible to control, but they are deeply yearning and longing...