After experiencing some things in life, you will understand that no matter how you live, there will be people who talk nonsense; no matter what you do, there will be people pointing fingers. No one's life is doomed to tragedy, it's just that you put yourself in the wrong place.
First, do not overestimate yourself
People, it is not easy to identify others, it is more difficult to recognize themselves, often they are determined by themselves, and others measure a foot. Reducing the self-confidence of fans, quitting pretentiousness, and not overestimating one's position in the minds of others is a rare self-discipline for a person.
Life will always give you a candy and then slap you hard, let you wake up, let you recognize your position. People who lack self-discipline always expect to be looked up to and love a point; and those who uphold self-discipline always maintain a modest and cautious attitude, good position, not offside. There is a saying that the water becomes a sea because of the good, and the mountain does not compete for height and becomes a peak. The more a person knows how to bow his head, the more opportunity he has to hold his head high.
Don't bother with yourself, look at life from another angle, it is the new happiness. The world is like a mirror, frowning at it, it will frown at you; look at it with a smile, it will smile at you. In fact, in the end, whether people are sad or happy, everything depends on themselves.
Throughout the ages, there will be such a kind of person, who hears that people are in distress, sneers, is more mean, and when he hears that people are unfortunate, he claps his hands and applauds and calls for retribution. Always living in resentment, hurting the body and being sad, not only adding to the blockage of others, but also making yourself unhappy. Life is not disturbing, it is all mediocre people who seek it out.
Life is in the world, and sometimes there are gains and losses, and there are mixed sorrows and joys.
How much despair you see, how much pain you experience; how much hope you see, how much happiness you have.
Second, do not look down on yourself
Once a person is intoxicated by his own weakness, he will be blindly weak, and he will fall on the street under the eyes of everyone, on the ground, lower than the ground. Walking in the rivers and lakes, if you are willing to be cowardly, every step of the road under your feet is bumpy, if you do not spare any effort to become strong, all the way is a smooth road. Contempt for himself, in addition to the increase in hardships and hardships in front of him, he also lost control of his future life.
A person's greatest stupidity is to degrade himself at will and fall into self-contempt. "Sometimes you think the sky is going to fall, but you're actually standing crooked." It is not others who destroy themselves, but their powerless selves. Inner weakness will only make people's lives bleak and dull, and they will lose everything. Life is a practice, looking inward for strength in order to be a better self.
If you can't think straight, put it down, and if you lose it, you will be indifferent. In life, there will always be some times when you can't think straight, and you will always experience the loss of something. If you can't think straight, put it down, and if you lose it, you will be indifferent. The road of life is never smooth, always mixed with all kinds of sudden moments, you can choose a road to go black, you can also choose to change the road to continue walking. The mountains don't turn, the roads don't turn, the roads don't turn, people don't turn. In another way, another mentality, everything is actually not so difficult. Don't always care about gains and losses, when we come into this world, we don't bring anything, and when we leave, we don't take it with us.
At all times, understand that letting go is not losing, and attachment is the root of suffering. If you blindly calculate gains and losses, and live in the regrets and regrets of loss, life is a tragedy.
Third, life, put yourself in the right position
Ancient clouds: not obscured by floating clouds, only because they are at the highest level. Have a strong heart, whether standing at the foot of the mountain or climbing to the top of the mountain, always know that there is a mountain outside the mountain, and there are people outside the people. The so-called stupidity does not lie in ignorance, but in not knowing one's own ignorance. Life is a lifetime, not impetuous, not flustered, with a normal heart to settle their position, life is naturally vast and lofty. "A gentleman's business is born in a way that is born in the first place." Find the right position, not offside, good position, improve yourself, surpass yourself, everything will come naturally.
Throughout a person's life, the position is constantly changing. In the low position, do not be arrogant and thin, do not rest on your laurels; in the high position, do not be arrogant and self-respecting, and do not look at no one. In this way, you can live a stable life. If misplaced, life will only be a tragedy. Everyone has a different destiny, has different choices, what kind of attitude to treat fate, fate will give you feedback on what kind of life.
Correct yourself, look at life with a simple and peaceful attitude, stubborn persistence, will only make yourself lost; open-minded choices, but will make you easier. For the rest of your life, I hope that you will face life with the simplest, most sudden, and most gentle attitude, easy and simple, happy and happy, brave and loving to meet all the beauty.
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