Life, all kinds of tastes. Triumph, frustration, acquaintance, separation, the various encounters in the world, just like a pot of old wine, after the fermentation of time, become thick and long.
From birth, a person needs to go through sour youth, taste sweet love, go through hard struggle, experience the pungency of life, taste the six tastes of life, and life is complete.
980 years ago, a poet was born, he became famous at a young age, but his life was full of twists and turns, and his steps did not stop.
He took up the wine glass of life, drank the six tastes of life, and turned stones into gold between the pens.
1. Be steady when you are proud
"Kazuko Yumiike Nostalgia"
Life is everywhere like, it should be like Flying Flying On Slush.
Occasionally left finger claws on the mud, Hongfei that recounted things.
The old monk has died into a new tower, and the bad wall has no reason to see the old problem.
In the past, the rugged days are still not remembered, and the road chiefs are trapped and donkeys hiss.
In the sixth year of Jiayou (1061), Su Shishi's career was officially opened. Everything went smoothly, and it seemed that as soon as you looked up, you could see the golden future.
New towers, old walls, life is changeable and unpredictable. In the face of the seemingly flat road of life, Su Shi stabilized his mind and did not inflate his arrogance.
People should be able to stabilize when they are proud. Many of life's flaws and mistakes happen when you are proud.
As the old saying goes, "Heaven desires to bring misfortune to others, and first be proud of them with a small blessing." When people are proud, it is easy to "float up" and become arrogant and boastful, thus losing the right direction.
Only by maintaining a sense of crisis at all times, constantly learning, learning to reflect, and seeing their own deficiencies can we make long-term progress.
2. Bear it when you are frustrated
"Jiang Chengzi Mizhou Hunting"
The old man talked about juvenile madness, left pulling yellow, right Qingcang,
Nishiki hat mink fur, thousand riding roll Hiraoka.
In order to repay the city with Taishou, shoot the tiger and see Sun Lang.
The drunken chest is still open, the sideburns are slightly frosted, and why bother!
In the clouds, when will Feng Tang be sent?
Will draw a bow like a full moon, look northwest, shoot the wolf.
In the fourth year of Xi Ning (1071), Su Shi was transferred away from the Capital Division for opposing Wang Anshi's change of law, ushering in the first point of frustration in his life.
In the eighth year of Xi Ning (1075), Su Shi also wrote this poem "Jiang Chengzi" during his tenure in Mizhou.
There are always times when life is not smooth, some people are frustrated, like a deflated ball losing morale, but some people face unsatisfactory but more and more courageous.
There is a saying that "hold on, the world is yours". We are all ordinary people, and the IQ difference between people is not much, but some people succeed and some people fail, and the secret is that successful people can always persevere when they are frustrated.
In the face of unsatisfactory things, do not escape, this second do not give up, the next second there is a miracle.
3. Stand the test
"Moving Lianzhou by Chengmai Crossing the Sea Yuanfu 3rd Year June 20th"
The three changes in the cross-fight turned to three changes, and the bitter rain and the final wind also dissolved the sun.
Clouds scattered moon ming who embellished, the sky dissolved sea color ben clarified.
The empty Lu Shuo took advantage of the meaning, and roughly understood the regulus to play the music.
Nine dead Nan Huangwu does not hate, Zi you qi is the best in life.
If you can tolerate the short-term frustrations in life, what about the long-term ups and downs?
From the beginning of Xi Ning's four years of foreign office to the third year of Yuan Fu, Good Luck never cared for this optimistic poet.
He has lived in many places, from Beijing to Hainan. In being degraded again and again, he found pleasure instead.
The ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle once said, "When a man calmly endures one great misfortune after another, the beauty of his soul shines out." ”
When "the roof leaks in the overnight rain", instead of complaining about the unfair fate, it is better to applaud yourself, to know that it is not a raptor but a river, life gives you more grind than others, because you have greater potential energy than others.
4. Be able to bear grievances
"First To Huangzhou"
Self-laughing life is busy with mouth, and the old career turns absurd.
The Yangtze River goes around Guo Zhiyu is beautiful, and the good bamboo and mountains feel the fragrance of bamboo shoots.
Eviction may as well be placed outside, and the poet is exemplary as Shui Cao Lang.
Only ashamed of nothing, shang fei official family pressed the wine bag.
Grievances refer not only to the injustices and grievances that others have given you, but also to the loneliness and poverty of life.
Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou in the third year of Yuanfeng, from Taishou to deputy envoy of the regiment, his life was even poorer, and the most important thing was psychological grievances and unwillingness.
People must be able to withstand grievances and learn to be self-sufficient and self-pleased. Life does not have to wear gold and jade, big fish and big meat, "the happiness of the soul is self-sufficient."
Zhou Guoping wrote in the book: People should have the source of happiness in themselves, it originally exists in everyone, depending on whether you excavate and enrich it.
The biggest obstacle to happiness is to expect too much happiness and compare your own misfortunes with the happiness of others. The poor have a poor way of life, the days of being rich and rich, happiness is never in the material.
5. Be a positive energy friend
"Linjiang Xian Send Qian Mu Father"
One by one, the door changed the fire three times, and the end of the world stepped on the red dust.
Still smiling.
No wave true ancient well, there is a festival is autumn reed.
Sadly lonely sails sent overnight, sending off the light moon and clouds.
There is no need for a green eyebrow in front of the zun.
Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian.
Su Shi is a person with "positive energy", and he often benefits a lot from his fellowship.
Life is stressful, everyone feels confused, there will be a lot of complaints and doubts, this time you need a friend with positive energy to cheer you up.
No one likes "Xianglin Sister-in-law", repeating the injustice and misery in life over and over again, people are all sunny animals, eager for warm sunshine.
Your emotions have a significant impact on those around you, and no one wants negative energy people together. Be a positive person and make friends with positive energy.
Although friends can be the trash can of your bad mood, not everyone can endlessly receive your bad mood.
6. Cherish family happiness
"Jiang Chengzi Yi Yi ZhengYue Twenty Night Dream"
Ten years of life and death are vague, not thinking, unforgettable.
Thousands of miles of lonely graves, nowhere to say desolate.
Even if they do not know each other, they are full of dust and sideburns.
At night, the ghost dream suddenly returned home, the small window, is grooming.
There are no words for each other, but there are thousands of tears.
It is expected that the intestines will be broken every year, the night of the bright moon, and the short Matsuoka.
There is nothing more important in the world than family, which is the wealth we should cherish the most.
Family happiness is the first gift of human beings, and there is no place in the world more comfortable than your own home, no matter how simple and frugal that home is.
Su Shi's mourning poem can be passed down through the ages, but it is nothing more than the emotions contained in it that are touching to the heart.
Money, power, lost can be returned. Once love and happiness are lost, it is like a broken vase that can no longer return to its original form.
Cherish the time with your family, accommodate each other, care for each other, and keep the light of family happiness.
Life must go through all kinds of hardships and hardships, encounter all kinds of things, and rub shoulders with many people. Life has sweet and sour, will be bitter and salty, life has tasted sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, and finally returned to plain.
Cherish the lovers and friends who accompany you for a trip, hold your mind steady, bear the grievances, withstand the wind and rain, and withstand the test.