Sincerely this thing is really expensive, giving it to the right person is priceless, giving it to the wrong person is worthless. Likes can be free, but by no means cheap.
As Lu Xun once said: "Feelings are two hearts treating each other sincerely, not a beating of one heart to another." "That's true, because he could have been otherwise.
I remember watching such a short film "Mr. Indifference" before, Mr. Indifferent is an indifferent person, he always maintains the appearance of "two hands in the bag, no one loves".
He watched in the elevator that someone wanted to enter the elevator, and he would not choose to help the other party press the door button. Walking on the street watching the balloon in the little girl's hand fly away will not help him catch the balloon that is going to fly away, and when the worker carries the goods, the trolley slips away from him, and he will not stop it.
Until one day when he was waiting for a red light, an old grandmother took his hand and asked him to help him cross the street. The grandmother walked very slowly, and soon the green light turned into a red light, and this time the two people walked to the middle of the road. Just then a car sped up.
Mr. Cold was so frightened that he quickly stopped the car. After two people crossed the road. The grandmother thanked Mr. Indifferent. At that moment, Mr. Indifferent felt the joy of helping others, so he changed and began to help others as much as he could.
In fact, through this short film, we are also telling us that love needs to be transmitted, whether it is in feelings or in life, paying does not necessarily have to be rewarded, but we need to know that it is worth paying. Instead of me being sincere with you, you're cold to me.
It was as if Mr. Indifferent must not have been like this at the beginning, maybe he had paid his heart before, but after paying his heart, he was not cherished, and he became like this. Just like the same person who truly loves you. If you don't understand his efforts, like Mr. Indifferent, eventually love will disappear.
You know, a person who treats you sincerely, he does not owe you anything, nor is he afraid of anything from you. It's only because he cares about you that he's willing to give you a hard time.
Therefore, we must know how to cherish the person who is sincere to you, and do not wait until after the loss to regret it. As Lin Huiyin said: "The biggest regret in life is not that you missed the last person, but the person who wants to be good to you the most when you are wrong."
It is like the love of Elizabeth, the second daughter in "Pride and Prejudice", which tells those who know how to cherish each other's sincere efforts, it is easier to harvest happiness.
Elizabeth, the second daughter of the Bennett family, was a very assertive family, and on an occasional occasion she met Darcy. Darcy's family is relatively well-off, and his annual income is also very impressive. Although their first impression of the initial encounter was not good.
But as the two people interacted more and more. Darcy gradually began to fall in love with Elizabeth. And one day he confessed to her for the first time, and although this confession was rejected, Darcy did not give up.
Instead, he chose to treat him with sincerity. As if knowing that Elizabeth had misunderstood herself, he wrote specifically to explain that the misunderstanding between the two men was lifted.
Finally Elizabeth discovers Darcy's true heart. She also began to let go of her blind prejudices and accept Darcy's sincerity. Even after being sneered at by Darcy's aunt, she still insisted on her inner choice and accepted Darcy's marriage proposal.
Because he knew that Darcy's love for her was sincere, the life of the two people after marriage was also very happy, and under her persuasion, Darcy also reconciled with his aunt, and she and Darcy's family also got along very happily. And why can they live so happily? It is precisely because they know how to give each other sincerely.
As Mencius said, "People know each other, you know each other, people know each other, and you know your heart." This means that people get along with each other by sincerity. Only sincerity can stand the test of time.
Therefore, in our lives, we must not lose the person who is really good to you. Because a person's sincerity needs to be understood by others. You know, once this kind of thing is consumed and disappointed enough, all that remains is to turn around and leave without hesitation.
As the saying goes: "Throw me a papaya, and repay it with Qiongju." The feelings of giving do not have to be reciprocated, but they need to know how to cherish. Therefore, when you have a person around you who is really good to you, you must not fail him.
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