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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Pride and Prejudice writes: "When I found myself in love with you, I couldn't help myself. ”
For women, their real love with a man is often started in a subtle way, and perhaps they are not clear, and when they realize it, they already love you to the bone.
Women's feelings will not be expressed directly, but through implicit ways to hint at each other, hoping to attract attention and smoothly enter love.
If men can't find and respond to women's love in time, they are likely to miss good people, which requires men to have a certain amount of emotional intelligence and the ability to read women's minds.
Of course, a woman's mind is not difficult to understand, if you really love you, it will definitely give you some signals, as long as you are a little careful, you can grasp love.
Just like in the world famous book "Pride and Prejudice", Elizabeth had a deep prejudice against Mr. Darcy at the beginning, and if Mr. Darcy gave up, there would be no beautiful and happy love later.
In this world, no one will always wait for someone who does not love themselves, but if you do not have the ability to grasp it in time when no emotion comes, you may miss true love.
Therefore, women who intend to be screwed by you will often do this to you, generally will give you three signals, men do not know hindsight.
First, intentionally approach you and gain your favor
If a woman likes you, she will find ways to approach you and gain your favor.
Otherwise, she will have no interest in you, will keep her distance from you, and her attitude towards you will be quite indifferent.
Like in Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth never liked Mr. Collins, and no matter how much he overtures him, it didn't work.
Because, when a woman denies you, she will not be emotional with you at all, and she is unlikely to give you the opportunity to pursue her.
Later, after Elizabeth really knew and understood Mr. Darcy, she was gradually captured by him, and she took on a completely different state.
She has turned from her previous prejudice against Mr. Darcy to an ambiguous affection, longing to be with him.
So she deliberately approached Mr. Darcy, expecting to meet him, hoping to gain his favor, which was a sign that a woman was in love with a man.
Therefore, when a man interacts with a woman, he must read the woman's signal in time, and when she intends to be close to you, it is actually emotional for you.
Women don't like you, her defensiveness will be very strong, and she will keep an absolute safe distance from you.
On the contrary, when a woman is willing to be caught by you, she will take the initiative to let go of her defenses and shorten the distance between you and you, hoping to get your attention.
Therefore, Mr. Darcy detected the signal of Elizabeth's love in time and firmly grasped it, which made a world love classic.
He admired Elizabeth's kindness, admired her talents, felt incomparably comfortable with her, and felt very strong in love.
True love is the interweaving of two loves, and it can achieve a certain tacit understanding, which Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy have done.
This reminds the real man that if a woman intends to approach you and can achieve the same frequency resonance with you, it means that love is compatible and beautiful, don't miss it.
Second, give you the opportunity to let you know her
If a woman really wants to associate with you, she will definitely give you the opportunity and let you know her, hoping to have a deeper relationship and integration with you.
The woman who wants to be with you is very sincere about your attitude, she will not hide anything from you, and shows special sincerity.
Women are usually very reserved, and the way of love will be very subtle, if it is not the man who is in their own heart, naturally they will not give you a chance.
Only when she is eager to have feelings for you in her heart, she will be willing to let go of her reticence and shyness, so that you have a comprehensive understanding of her, so as to get your favor.
The beginning of any relationship begins with giving each other a chance, and if there is no chance, there can be no good love.
Therefore, men should understand that when a woman intends to give you a chance, you should not hesitate, you must be bold in pursuit, take the initiative to confess, so as to successfully win her heart.
As in Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Darcy met Elizabeth at a ball, but elizabeth was prejudiced because of his arrogance.
Elizabeth believes that Mr. Darcy is a man of low personal character and is very resistant to association.
Therefore, when Mr. Darcy offered to show his kindness, she firmly refused and did not give him any chance.
Fortunately, in the later interactions, Elizabeth gradually found that she had misunderstood Mr. Darcy, although he looked a little arrogant on the outside, but inside he was a gentleman of high quality.
At this time, Elizabeth put aside her prejudices and intended to associate with Mr. Darcy, and also gave him many opportunities to have a deeper understanding and understanding of each other.
With the deepening of the relationship, Elizabeth no longer resisted Mr. Darcy's overtures, and gladly accepted his courtesy, and fell in love with each other, and finally achieved a beautiful love.
Therefore, a woman is willing to give you the opportunity to understand her deeply, indicating that she has a good feeling for you and is willing to have feelings for you.
When she is willing to let you into her inner world, that is, a signal to you, eager for you to take the initiative to pursue, hope to join hands with you in the future.
Third, accept your help and be willing to fall in love with you
In Pride and Prejudice, elizabeth and Mr. Darcy's love twist begins with Mr. Darcy's selfless help.
At that time, Elizabeth had a younger sister named Lydia, who fell in love with Wycombe, the son of a descendant of the Darcy family, who was of inferior character.
Because he was deeply liked by Darcy's father, he was bent on coveting the Darcy family property and was an insatiable man.
However, Mr. Darcy had already seen through Wycombe's nature, so that his plan did not succeed. So, With a grudge in his heart, Wycombe went around smearing Mr. Darcy.
Especially when he learns that Mr. Darcy is in love with Elizabeth, he takes the initiative to coax Elizabeth's sister Lydia and attempts to take her to elope, in order to get revenge on Mr. Darcy.
To Wycombe's surprise, however, Mr. Darcy stopped his plan in advance and was willing to pay for it all, giving Wycombe a lot of money to help Elizabeth's family through it.
When Elizabeth learned all this, she admired and appreciated the generosity and pattern shown by Mr. Darcy even more, and was willing to entrust her life.
She was willing to accept Mr. Darcy's help and was deeply impressed by his character and the powerful pattern he showed throughout the process.
In the end, Elizabeth completely accepted Mr. Darcy's show of love and was willing to share a beautiful love with him.
So, when a woman is truly conquered by you, she will accept your help and long to be pampered by you for the rest of her life.
Because, in her heart, you are a man worthy of trust, she is completely conquered by your character and pattern, and her love for you will be more firm and persistent.
If a woman doesn't love you, she can't care so much about you and won't easily accept your help.
Only after thoroughly understanding you, she will let go of all worries, willing to be with you, no matter whether the future is good or bad, will not change the determination to love you, which is the typical signal that women love you.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
"Pride and Prejudice" wrote: "If a woman falls in love with a man, as long as the woman does not deliberately hide from the man, the man will definitely see it." ”
It is true that the woman who truly loves you will not deliberately hide her thoughts, and she will definitely give you some signals to make you aware.
She will intentionally approach you and gain your affection; give you the opportunity to let you know her; accept your help and be willing to fall in love with you.
When you read these signals of women, you must seize the opportunity to pursue it sincerely, and believe that you will soon have a beautiful love.
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