On April 21, Beijing time, Gu Ailing recently accepted an interview with the media, in the interview revealed a lot of interesting things about himself, including answering a question of whether he was rebellious, Gu Ailing said that when he went to learn skating, his mother did not agree, but he still went to learn, and also stressed that he wanted to learn the 360 degrees or even 720 degrees of action. What is funny is that Gu Ailing also said in the interview process not to tell her mother, which is completely consistent with her own 18-year-old age, and there will always be something that girls of this age do not want to say to their mother.
When the host asked Gu Ailing if he had ever rebelled, Gu Ailing said: "I skated for 3 days in my life, that is, 3 days with them (Sui Wenjing Han Cong), they taught me on the 2nd day and then learned." Then Gu Ailing added: "Don't tell my mother, I said I want to go skating, I want to learn 360 degrees, but my mother was Peking University speed skating before, she said it was too difficult and too dangerous, and she wouldn't let me do it." ”
In the end, Gu Ailing said that she also learned to learn the movements she wanted to learn, and when summarizing her own actions, Gu Ailing stressed that when she was a child, she decided her own things and would not let her mother make decisions for me, which once again reflected the educational style of Gu Ailing's family: "So the choices in my life are all made by myself, if I let my mother choose, she will definitely not let me engage in such a dangerous sport." ”
Let the child choose what he wants to do, this feature is the focus of Gu Ailing's education since childhood, even if it is contact with skiing, it is the mother Gu Yan in order to have a companion to take Gu Ailing to ski, follow-up with Gu Ailing himself skating to be interested, only decided to embark on the road of professional skiing, everything is from Gu Ailing's own interests and choices, there is no Gu Yan forced her daughter to learn. Education in this way also allows Gu Ailing to stimulate his greatest skiing energy, guide himself to develop by interest, and eventually become an Olympic champion at the age of 18!
Of course, from Gu Ailing's remarks, it can be seen that Gu Yan will also worry about her daughter's safety at some times, after all, some of the actions of skiing are dangerous, before participating in the Winter Olympics, Gu Ailing once filmed a documentary, revealing that in the past, when practicing skiing, Gu Ailing had fallen to the brain during a training, resulting in a short period of amnesia, when Gu Yan was with her daughter, accompanying Gu Ailing through this difficulty.
It can be seen that although Gu Yan knows that some of Gu Ailing's choices will make her dangerous, as a parent will worry, she still supports her daughter's own decision, which is undoubtedly to respect the child and let Gu Ailing grow up freely.
(Lin Xiaoxiang)