What needs to be flattered is hypocrisy; it is not the good people who need to be explained.
Reluctantly some can't last; if you make it up, you will be sad.
Do not please others
Any relationship you have to work hard to please will not last long,
What needs to be carefully maintained is not the norm.
People who truly love you don't need to please,
None of the people you need to please are the ones who really love you.
Life is already so tired, why look at other people's faces to live.
The road of life is seven seven eight eight, everyone has everyone's opinion,
You are not rmb, naturally everyone can't like you.
Shift your gaze to yourself and close your ears
Don't care what others think, people have to live for themselves after all.
You are you, not pleasing, not pandering,
Don't please, live as the most brilliant firework in the sky.
Yi Anju left his name in the history books with poetry,
But it was because of her persistence and unpopularity. Not flattering the world,
Do not please others, and break through the established female cage with a high posture.
Do not please others, do not care about the eyes around them,
Only in this way can we not live into a mediocre side of a thousand people.
Listen to what others say, and don't have to pay attention to other people's eyes.
Only you know your own energy and know your future direction.
Instead of pleasing others, enrich yourself.
Grief is not explained
Where in the world there is empathy,
If the needle is not stuck in your body, you will not feel the pain.
Everyone has their own sufferings, and there is no need to preach them to everyone,
The well-known suffering, like the story in xianglin's sister-in-law's mouth, is just a joke.
True maturity begins without saying bitterness,
Tears and telling can't change the ending of the story,
Just as the grains of sand in the shell digest themselves, they can only turn into pearls if they persist silently.
Explaining grief is just repeating the past over and over again,
Sprinkle salt on one's wounds over and over again, and one looks forward,
Living only in the memory of the past, life will also abandon you.
After her husband Zhao Mingcheng was convicted, Li Qingzhao was also charged with collaborating with the enemy.
She donated a lot of her family's collection and began to flee.
The weak woman in the chaotic world is like duckweed in the rain,
No one knows how much she has suffered, and she never tells anyone else.
When encountering things, don't panic and make a big fuss, calm down and find a way out.
Encounter some difficulties don't make it like you are the most pitiful under the sky,
When people say their misfortune, you must know that no one can help you,
Only by cheering yourself up can you solve the problem.
Don't force yourself
I once read a saying: Everyone who feels hard is forced.
Reluctantly coming is not sincere, naturally it will not last long.
Before you love others, learn to love yourself. Don't force yourself,
The most important thing to be a person is to be happy, and people live for a lifetime.
If you don't make yourself happy, then what hope is there.
Rules and regulations have lived in all directions for most of their lives,
Force yourself to do something you don't want to do,
Occasionally, "indulge" and let your real self breathe.
Gold has no feet, no one is perfect. Don't force yourself,
People are not perfect, and if they really can't do it, forget it, just try hard.
Not forcing others is also a way not to force yourself,
Whoever can do everything as you wish, who can everyone meet your requirements.
Confucius said, "Do not do to others what you do not want."
In "The Book of the Dragon Slayer in the Heavens", Zhao Min once said, "I prefer to be reluctant", and the result was all kinds of difficulties and dangers.
Meet people you don't like, no need to change them.
When you encounter things that you are not accustomed to, there is no need to worry about it,
You have to follow your principles. There are many rules in the world.
Not a life
What life is afraid of is that it will be made up,
If you've had your own life, what else can you be responsible for?
Some people say that life needs a sense of ceremony, and the sense of ritual is not pretentious or extravagant,
It is a responsibility, a positive attitude towards life.
You fool life, and life naturally fools you.
All things are mutual, and when you bring what is possible and bring it into your life,
Life will not give you a good look.
Life needs to be exquisite, but it cannot be done.
People who make up their lives generally have no goals and no plans,
Such people often do not feel the joy of life,
Life is a task for them, not a pleasure.
Li Qingzhao was in exile when he was cheated on marriage.
Her husband punched and kicked her, in which case she did not force herself,
He made up his mind to live his life, but sued his husband,
She freed herself from this tragic marriage, even though she was also imprisoned for suing her loved ones.
People still have to have their own pursuits,
Say "no" to a bad life, instead of going with the flow and letting life push you along.
When you finish reading this article, I hope you can spread it out, spread some positive messages, and let the world have a little more love.
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