In the Wong Kar Wai movie "2046", there is a very profound line: "In the past, when a person had an unspeakable secret in his heart, he would run to the mountains, find a tree, dig a hole in the tree, tell the secret to the hole, and then seal it with dirt, and this secret will never be known." ”
There is a kind of liking that cannot be hidden, and even if you cover your mouth, it will run out of your eyes.
Before we meet the people we like, we always complain about the lightness of fate, but after meeting the people we really like, we really understand that even if the road is far away and the mountains and rivers are blocked, they are laying the groundwork for meeting the right people.
For the rest of your life, may you meet the right person, gentle in heart, eyes on you.
01. The rest of life is long and there is no need for someone who is not worthy
The saddest thing in the world is to love without being able to, like tossing a coin, obviously thrown to give up, but still give yourself an excuse to change the rules of the game three games and two wins.
You think that your love for him is hidden, but the whole world has seen through your careful thinking about him, and only you are still struggling.
There is a lyric in "Mercury": "How far will it take to enter your heart, how long will it take to get close to you, and the person who is close but can't get close is also waiting to meet you." ”
There's a popular comment that says, "You're my star, and I'm trillions of years away from you." "He is your unique, but you and him can only be separated by glass, not yours after all."
The rest of life is long, there is no need to be so persistent, there is no need to be so long. If he is the one who deserves it, then please insist, if he is not, then please boldly and confidently leave.
02. The rest of your life is short, so it's better to find someone with the same frequency
Han Han said: "How far a person can go depends on who he has traveled; how good a person is, depends on who he has guidance; how successful a person is, depending on who he is with." ”
What kind of people we choose to be with, what kind of life we will eventually have.
Whether it is a friend or a lover, only when the three views are consistent, will they get along comfortably. Only when encountering the same frequency will it be accompanied for a long time. Only when you meet someone who understands yourself, you can live up to the rest of your life!
I saw such a passage on the Internet: "There must be a 'magnetic field' between people and people, although it cannot be seen or touched, it will continue to transmit your three views and preferences to the outside." "People with the same frequency and the same three views will automatically move closer."
People with the same frequency have a special tacit understanding. You are happy, he will accompany you to be happy. You grieve, he gives you something to lean on, gives you warmth. People with the same frequency know that you also care about you, and they know how to respect your three views.
In the days to come, may you also find people with the same frequency as yourself, and walk through the years quietly and smoothly.