In the relationship, every love, that is very precious.
Being willing to love someone well has always been a very commendable thing.
In the human world, it is precisely because of the existence of love that life is not so lonely, and the years are not so boring.
How fortunate we are that we have just come into this world, just to have this life.
This is a precious and incapable life, which happens to have, of course, we should cherish it, and we should also love it well, so that these decades can be as wonderful as possible.
It's just that we can love someone well, but we don't have to give our love to someone who doesn't love themselves.
But anyone who does not love us, after recognizing the reality, no matter how much we like it, we must also accept it in time.
Not active, always seems very cold.
The most direct response to loving someone is to take the initiative, and it will be particularly active.
Always take the initiative to talk to each other, find topics to chat, always take the initiative to meet, and the words are full of enthusiasm.
When you love someone, you will always be so active, you can't suppress your own desire to take the initiative to find him, the person who loves you, he will not be any different, how much he loves you, how active and enthusiastic.
You will find that the frequency of his looking for you is always particularly high, and he is not looking for you because he is forced to complete the task, but he wants to do so from the bottom of his heart, always eager to stick with you all the time, reluctant to be separated from you.
His love for you will be written in his eyes and will be revealed between the lines of chatting with you.
People who don't love you, he can't do this, even if he has time, he won't miss you at all, he won't think about going to you, the frequency of him looking for you, really only a particularly low, even if he takes the initiative occasionally, he will only appear quite reluctant.
Talking to you, he will never be very happy, will only appear very perfunctory, will always be particularly indifferent.
Often just a look of love to answer, often just reply very slowly, and always do not want to reply to not reply, directly ignore you, as if did not receive your message.
In getting along, they are often impatient.
Some people have a good temper, but they will always have a very bad attitude towards some specific people, a look that the other party seems to owe themselves, and some people have a very grumpy personality, but they will always be very gentle to some people, especially good temper.
If a person is very good to others, only for you is always all kinds of dislike, always all kinds of accusations against you, always around you is always a particularly helpless, want to escape look, of course, he is not because he likes you so he will be like this.
It's just that he really doesn't like you very much, so he has no patience for you.
I don't want to listen to what you say, I don't want to deal with things for you, I don't want to waste my time and energy on you.
When a person does not love you, does not have you in his heart, and is with you, he will really feel very uncomfortable, nothing is wrong.
Even if you are actually very good, very good to him, and have not provoked him, he will always lose his temper easily, no way, for people who do not love you, even if it is breathing, you may be wrong.
It's not that he doesn't have patience, it's just that he's not willing to give you his own goodness and his patience, and he feels that it's not worth it, you don't deserve it at all, it's not that he doesn't have that sincerity, it's just that he can't give you the sincerity.
Love, will be willing, do not love, is simply not able to pretend, but also lazy to pretend, feel unnecessary.
I don't care about your business at all.
In the vast sea of people, too many people, but they are just passers-by, only one person, will look very different.
It's not that the person is really different, but because of love, it gives the other person a different meaning.
The person who truly loves you, when you are to him, is a very special existence, and he will pay great attention to everything about you.
Will want to know everything about you, do not want to miss at all, will also take into account what you like, what you don't like, all in mind, always carefully take care of you, but also take care of you.
The more people who love you, the more they will regard your things, all of them as their own affairs, and even for everything about you, they will be more attentive than to themselves, willing to always stand behind you when you need it, willing to give everything they have, to help you.
Conversely, if a person doesn't love you, even if you're around him, he won't take you seriously.
Naturally, he will not have any interest in everything about you, he will always care more about himself than you, and what he has always thought in his heart is only his own interests.
Always your own face first, your friends first, your own money first, whether you will lose first, you will not care whether you are happy or not, and what kind of water you are in the water.
The person who doesn't love you, his behavior, in fact, has always been very obvious.
Sometimes, you feel that you can't see clearly, you don't feel clear, it's not that you really don't know, but you just don't want to admit it.
Too much liking a person, very easily, you will often lose judgment and will lie to yourself.
At that moment, you can't care about anything else, you just indulge in the beautiful dream you have woven for yourself, and you are not willing to come out at all.
When you love each other very much and hope that the other party loves you, this is very normal, but even if you want to love and be loved at the same time, you should still be a little more rational and admit the fact that you are not loved.
If you can be sober and see the reality clearly, you will not be in a wrong love all the time, and finally only fall full of scars.
Only then can we really give up the wrong person as soon as possible, have a new beginning, and in the days to come, really be able to love what they want and get the kind of happiness they really want.
Text/Tan Meng
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