I remember reading a sentence in a book before
Growing up is a countless number of times
Countless times of confusion
And countless stoicism and fortitude
The so-called growth
It is to be able to gradually accept the original self
I can also better face my different self
On the road to growth
Everyone gets tired
No one can bear all the grief for you
There is always a time when people have to learn to grow up on their own
And what are the compulsory courses for growth?
First, farewell
Saying goodbye is the first lesson of growing up
When I was a child, I always hated that time passed too slowly
I always want to escape from my parents
Go and see the outside world
afterward
Finally got what I wanted
The first lesson required is to say goodbye to your parents
Say goodbye to your hometown
I always thought that the distinction was simple
But when we got on the train from home
Watch as the familiar sight outside the window fades
The ears still echoed before the departure
Parents repeatedly nagging
"Stay safe"
My heart couldn't help but feel sour and astringent
Originally
That's what it's like to say goodbye
We have been saying goodbye all our lives
Say goodbye to your past selves
Meet your new self
That's the real growth
Second, loneliness
Loneliness is the second lesson of growing up
Loneliness is a noun with no clear answers
It is the embodiment of multiple emotions
It's a lot of things that a person has to face
The loneliness being experienced
We call it confusion
Passing by those lonely
We call it growth
I believe most people start in elementary school
I basically have very good friends around
Every day when I go to and from school, I walk in groups of three or five
But from the first day of college
Most of the time
More appears
Or the figure of a person
Eat alone
Go to the library alone
Run alone
……
First
When it comes to doing a lot of things alone
You may feel uncomfortable
But gradually
You will get used to and even enjoy this loneliness
Loneliness is not terrible
Learn to find your own strength in loneliness
Grow up in solitude
Third, try
Trying is the third lesson of growth
Growing up is about never stopping attempts
Xiaobian once saw such a story
someday
There are the parents of a crow
Went out to hunt but did not return
It's day after day
Year after year in wait
Try it slowly
Learned the skills to survive on your own
The story is simple
But the truth is very profound
Growing up requires trying
Friends and family around you
Often said to us
You don't try it
How do you know if you can succeed?
Despite every attempt
Not always will succeed
But there will definitely be something to be gained
In an attempt
Our wisdom grows
Capabilities are enhanced
Humanity is sublimated
Can allow us to accumulate enough experience
Dare to try it
Let's grow in trying
Fourth, be strong
Being strong is the fourth lesson of growth
People always have to swallow some grievances
Then dry the tears without a word
Keep going
No one was born from armor
But you can make yourself indestructible
Learn to be strong
It is a compulsory course for one's growth
Once upon a time we were
It will be because of some small setbacks
And back off
It will be because of a little dissatisfaction in life
And lose faith
Now we are gradually understanding
There are always some difficulties in life
We need to face it alone
You can allow yourself
Hide in the corner and cry bitterly
But after wiping away the tears
Still have to get back on your feet
Step by step, step by step, step by step, from the difficulty
After all
Who is not frustrated on one side
Learn to be strong while learning
A compulsory course for growth
There are not only these few courses shared by the editor
There's a lot more to be discovered
You can't succeed
But you can't help but grow
Hopefully, we will grow at the same time
There is light in all eyes
Live as you like
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Text 丨Han stop ink
The picture 丨 partly comes from the Internet
Typography 丨Tang Flute language
Edited by 丨Lan Xiaoyuan