It takes a moment to reach out, but it takes many years to hold hands, no matter who you meet, she is the person who should appear in your life, not by accident.
Fate is something that when you don't believe it, many things tell you that it really exists, and when you believe in it, you will find that it is far more magical than you think.
It seems that in a lifetime, everyone you meet, when you meet, and in what way you meet, has already been set.
So although some people come, but soon leave, before you can be sad, new people appear in your life, bringing you unprecedented pleasure.
And the feelings you encounter, some may be just shallow likes, like the breeze in the spring, comfortable but not long, some are unforgettable, like the cold wind in winter, even if it blows for a long time, but still has not forgotten.
For women who have loved you deeply or still love you, they will not be able to help but tell you these "secrets" in an attempt to make you aware of their feelings and take the initiative.
1. Her requirements for her lover
In the eyes of some men, women take the initiative to say these things, which is a euphemistic rejection of themselves, so that everyone can retreat from the difficulty and stop having any delusions.
Although it is not excluded that there is such a situation, everyone must learn to listen carefully to what the woman says, because in addition to the case of euphemism to refuse everyone's heart, there is also a situation where they euphemistically express their love to everyone.
Some men, perhaps because they are more introverted, or because they are not sure whether the other party likes themselves or not, have never shown their hearts to women.
At this time, women have already fallen in love with them, but they are hindered by face, it is not easy to directly confess, but they want to go further, so they have to tell everyone euphemistically in this way, in fact, the person they like is exactly like this.
So when you listen carefully, after their descriptions of their lovers, you will find that many places have striking similarities with themselves.
2, your image in her heart
It's not a secret to say that things like impressions are involved, but when it comes to different people, it becomes completely different.
Most women do not easily talk to others about their impressions of the people they like, because they are worried that others will perceive the clues of their true emotions from them.
In fact, in women's brain circuits, there has always been such a strange setting, they will feel that in the relationship, if they like each other first, it is a "faceless" thing, only being chased will make them precious enough.
So many women, even if they have a favorite person, rarely mention it to others, but if she takes the initiative to talk to you, your image in her heart is basically positive, such as very careful, very good at taking care of people, etc., most of them are in love with you.
Especially at the end of the sentence, if you can become your girlfriend, it should be a very happy thing, so there is no doubt that she has completely fallen in love with you, and this is to confess to you, if you also have feelings for her, don't hesitate.
3, some unknown things
In everyone's heart, there are some little secrets that no one knows, maybe these secrets are not a big deal, maybe it is just a skip of class when they go to school, or there is an online relationship that ends without illness and so on.
Maybe these are insignificant things in the eyes of others, but in the hearts of the parties, they are secrets that cannot be easily shared with others, even if they are friends with good relationships, they may not have much understanding.
And when a woman takes the initiative to share these unknown things with you, you can actually be sure that your relationship has been classified as a very intimate type in her heart.
Even this degree of intimacy has far exceeded that of ordinary friends, especially between friends of the opposite sex, often need to have a certain distance, but they continue to shorten the distance between each other, which shows that they are sincere with you.
Perhaps the woman who is in love with you at the moment has a certain difference from the lover you imagine, but there is a certain distance between reality and fantasy.
What's more, life tells us that there are never perfect people and things in this world, too perfect feelings, only happen in fairy tales and imaginations, the normal state of reality, in addition to blandness, is full of holes and rebirth.
So we must learn to accept the real people or things, their imperfections, and after a long time together, you will find that it is these shortcomings in them that create the sour, sweet and bitter feelings.
Sometimes, because of the contrast, it can reflect the preciousness of happiness and sweetness, and if a person is only immersed in sweetness and happiness, he will forget their original taste.
If you don't hate them at the moment, you may wish to try to accept and start a good love, and maybe the final harvest will be far more sweet than you originally imagined.