It was another quiet and peaceful morning, as usual, with morning runners running down the road outside Paul's house, a rare family day.
Yeah, the psychiatrist also has a home, and paul is agonizing over the child's reluctance to go to school, Paul explains that you have to go to school, and I have to go to work, which is the division of labor for everyone.
See, there are times when the means of communication between relatives are not effective for the client. The child finally shouted angrily that you would never understand me and walked away, and Paul shook his head and was forced to prepare to receive his own visitor. Isn't it ironic that as a counselor, I can't even get my own family relationship, which is as uncomfortable as the teacher's children's poor academic performance.
There is no way, the family has a difficult sutra - this almighty word can comfort everything. Maybe this is to pave the way for today's visitor, the visitor Sophia is also a 16-year-old child, gymnastics girls are preparing for the Olympic trials, but at this time there was a car accident, someone saw that she was riding her own bicycle and crashed into the car, the accident is not big, is taking the judicial process, the lawyer suggested that she look at the psychological counselor may be able to make some suggestions. And she thinks that she has no problem, just wants to get the professional advice of the psychological counselor, so she started a new consultation, is there any problem with the gymnastics girl? It depends on how Paul digs:
It also begins with the usual question: What can I help you with?
Sophia: I just wanted to come and ask you for professional advice after the accident, my lawyer recommended you to me, I don't know what happened, a car crashed into me, I don't know what happened later, they said I rode my bike into the street, sophie laughed herself when she said this, which made her think of the accident when she accidentally played with the motorcycle, that time it was unintentional, an old lady said there that she wanted to kill herself, shouted very loudly, I really wanted to kill her, but I couldn't say anything. Because I was lying on the ground uncomfortably.
Paul: Tell me more about car accidents! Where does it happen?
Sophia: At a gas station close to my gymnasium, I don't remember anything
Paul: Do you feel comfortable talking about yourself? Can you tell us about yourself?
Sophia: At 16, at the age of 12, she won the National Gymnastics Championship and is currently preparing for the Olympic Trials, what else do you want to know?
Paul: How's it going? Life outside of gymnastics?
Sophia: Great, just didn't have the energy to talk about the "This Is Your Life" show (the satire Paul's questioning is the same as on the show), and I used to watch this show with my mom a lot, and the actors were very old. Maybe they don't have anything to do? Want to end up on the show? Can you give me a professional opinion?
Paul: It's not like a doctor just taking a picture, it can't be done.
Sophia: I think I'm better off. After a pause, you don't want to see how the report is written?
Paul said he was happy, Sophia once again stressed that she wanted to give you some professional advice through the report and what happened today, the heart is not on the consultation itself, so Paul talked about the relationship between the family, Sophia said that you have not talked to your mother, which is very important, because she thinks the counselor knows the above content, but repeatedly asked irrelevant questions to make her very angry, which is not what a real counselor should ask.
But apparently Paul did not chat with Sophia's mother, he did not answer the question directly, but said I just want to know more about you, obviously one time is not enough for psychological counseling, at least 3 or 4 times, so it seems professional, and then say immediately read your report OK? This move quieted Sophia, and as Paul read the report, she wandered around the various displays in the office. The two men gave their opinions on the model of the ship and the book.
Paul read the report and said that the social worker thought you hit the car yourself, and you didn't answer any questions about it, and that was right. Did he tell you if you often think about death? Everyone thinks about hope, but how death comes, do you have any particularly specific thoughts about this?
Maybe the sudden mention of death made Sophia a little uncomfortable, and she said that three chats would be like this? Paul said that this is not a little difficult for you to accept, Sophia did not answer positively, but offered to drink some water, Paul thoughtfully put a straw in the cup, and asked if he needed me to help you? With mobility issues like you, it must be uncomfortable, what makes you most uncomfortable?
Sophia replied that everyone muttered that you were a child. Paul didn't go on, diverging from the topic: Did you come by yourself? Mom didn't send you over?
Sophia was very angry when she mentioned this, she had previously thought that her mother had called and the counselor, they colluded well, but the counselor did not, Paul said that the result of the mother calling this result did not make you very angry, this is for sure, Sophia said, my mother thinks this report is true, she thinks I want to get rid of gymnastics this sport, think I want to kill myself when I am stressed, other parents go to the gym to see their children, but he never, why did I let myself get hurt before the qualifiers?
Why do you say all this as if it were psychotherapy, I just need you to write a report that I'm not a crazy person who crashed into a car myself!
Paul said that's why you're here today? Are you afraid you won't pass the test and just want a proof that you're not crazy?
I have to go, the time is up, you have no time, Paul continued: Who do you call when you have something to call? 411 dial patrol desk, very ridiculous isn't it? Because I moved so often I couldn't always remember the number at home.
How about you and your father helping each other?
He always has formulas to accompany and support me, he always accompanies me when there is something going on, he is the only person in the world who loves me and the only person who believes that this car accident is not the cause of me, except for my coach CY, I often watch children for him.
Can I go?
What do you think of doing my homework before my next consultation and writing down my thoughts and inferences for this report? I don't think I can do it, and I'm sure you can. Sophia got up and put on her backpack and prepared to leave.
From the consultation, it can be seen that this is a gymnastics girl who hopes to get "support", maybe this car accident is her reason, but it is not important, what is important is the mother-daughter relationship behind it and Sophia's desire to get the affirmation of others Psychological feelings must be satisfied, which will affect the next development of life, may not catch up with the auditions for this reason, the matter is artificial, never underestimate the power of the will, as a gymnast, solve the psychological knot to help play on the field.