Everyone craves love, but not everyone is lucky enough to meet the right person at the right age.
Sometimes you feel that the person is, but you don't want to be together, but there are all kinds of frictions and contradictions. Obviously still in love with each other, but I feel that I can't go any further.
Breakup, the result that no one wants to face. But where in this world can everything be completed?
After the breakup, some people have been indulging in the past and can't extricate themselves; some people seem to be light-hearted.
Some people say that people who can't put it down are not because they have nostalgic for that relationship, but because they have paid and are unwilling in their hearts. I want to dwell on it for a chance to turn back.
But those who let go after the breakup, really must be able to let go? Some people say that if the other party treats you like this after the breakup, it most likely means that they have completely put you down.
01 Hearing everything about you again, I have been indifferent
How can someone who has been in love easily erase everything? It's just that some people are more receptive to reality, and some people are afraid of facing the future life alone, still fantasizing that the other party can turn back and renew the old relationship with themselves.
However, not every relationship has a chance to start over, and not everyone is waiting for you to come back. Some love, the past is the past. Some people, breaking up is breaking up.
When things move by, when the other party hears your name, it is no longer alarming, all things about you are no different from ordinary people, at this time, you no longer have any obsession.
He has laid you down and is determined to start a new life. If you continue to dwell bitterly, there is no longer any meaning.
It is better to distinguish between the two from now on, and each life is happy. Even if it is temporarily painful, the long pain is not as good as the short pain, and it is more of a torture than to be reluctantly together with someone who no longer loves himself.
02 When I meet you again, the wind is light
I like a poem the most, a pot of turbid wine to meet happily, how many things in ancient and modern times, are all laughed at.
I always feel that it is the best state for people to meet again after the breakup. Each other has their own life, for the past, neither hidden nor deliberately mentioned, but a look of light wind.
After the breakup, although you can't be a friend, being an ordinary person is better than being hostile to each other.
If you are still angry about the past relationship, but the other party can be calm with you, it means that he has let go.
No matter how sweet and vigorous your past is, it is all in the past.
For you, it may be impossible to forget for a while, but time will change everything after all. Instead of clinging to the past, it is better to let go of love and give yourself new opportunities.
03 Sincerely wish you a new relationship
Maybe when you just broke up, no one will be generous enough to congratulate the other party on having new feelings.
After all, I have had it before, and the thought of the person I loved being held in the arms of someone else may be very uncomfortable.
However, one day, when you see the other person again, you can calmly bless him, see him happy, and be happy for him from the bottom of your heart, indicating that you have really let go.
Feelings are so wonderful, when you fall in love, you can't tolerate a little sand in your eyes. When one day he suddenly let go of his nostalgia, he showed a very bland look at who he was with and how happy he was.
In fact, I was able to accept the breakup calmly, and I also removed that person from my heart.
In fact, since we have broken up, there is no need to be confused by the past. Anyway, it is impossible to be together again, but it is better to wish each other happiness in a generous way, which is the manifestation of the pattern.
YiShu said that in the final stage of the lost love, hearing the name of the other party is the same as that of the passerby, but it is just a name, without any special significance, at this time, in fact, you have come out of the lost love.
And in this life, whose feelings are not stumbling? There are also many unknown efforts behind those seemingly sweet loves, but who will talk to you in great detail.
If you can't do it, you have to break up, and there is no need to become obsessed, and you can't walk out for a long time.
Some people say that after the loss of love, in fact, you do not love that time, not the person who never forgets, not the experience, you only love the fledgling but still clinging...
If you think about it, all the unhappiness in your heart really stems from this.
Therefore, there is no need to tie the past to oneself and become a burden and block the way forward.
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