Truly loving someone is uncontrollable.
The more you love each other, the more you can't help but contact each other, and you can't help but miss, these are from the depths of the heart, it is an instinct, and it does not require any reaction.
If you don't know if he really loves you, you can look at the actions he does, whether he will take the initiative to find you, whether he wants to have intimate contact with you, whether he will miss you.
The person who truly loves you does not need you to say anything more, he will hide his love in action, as long as you observe carefully, you can find his deep affection for you, and he can't hide it if he wants to.
In fact, a man loves you deeply and will "control" to do these things, if he has not done anything for you, then what about true love?
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He will not be able to control the initiative to find you
When he loves you deeply, he will not be able to help but contact you, as long as he has free time, he will chat with you, meet you, and want to spend a lot of time with you.
And if there is no you in his heart, he will naturally not take the initiative, even if you look for him, he is also in the mood to ignore you, and if he is in a bad mood, he may not even reply to the message.
Therefore, you have to believe that the person who loves you deeply, his initiative is an instinct, every time he thinks of you, he will not be able to control the initiative to find you, even if sometimes he will be afraid of annoying you, but more is still afraid to cut off contact with you.
As long as I can chat with you, it is already a kind of happiness, if I can meet you, it will make him more happy, true love for someone, it is so simple.
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He will not be able to control the intimate contact with you
If a man loves you deeply, he will want to have more contact with you, whether physically or verbally, as long as he can have contact with you, he will be very happy.
Just like people often say now "kiss and hug and hold high", this is a way to show love, when he likes you, he will want to have such intimate contact with you, see you want to hold hands with you and hug, this is the most natural behavior.
If every time he sees you, there is no reaction, even if you want to hold hands with him and hug, he will refuse, that can only mean that he is resisting this matter in his heart, and he is also resisting you as a person.
If you want to know whether he loves you deeply, it depends on whether he is willing to have close contact with you, and the person who loves you deeply will not want to be close to you.
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He'll miss you uncontrollably
Missing a person can't help it, especially when he loves deeply, he will not be able to control thinking about you, even if he just met one second ago, and the next second he can't control his thoughts.
Deep love for a person is like this, his thoughts are hidden in the heart, sometimes just frown and up to the heart, this kind of love can not be restrained, but also can not stop.
In the face of people you don't love, you don't have this kind of thought at all, and you don't have a feeling of missing, even if you don't see each other for a few days, you won't feel uncomfortable.
Therefore, how deep the love is, how real the thought is, and to truly fall in love with someone is to unconsciously miss the other party, miss her laughter, miss her taste, and miss every day with her.
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Conclusion
Love is unexplainable, and the person who truly loves you is uncontrollable, even if he doesn't say anything, every move will be revealed.
The person who loves you deeply is by no means a whim, but really into his heart, so that he can't let go if he wants to, he can't help but look for you, can't help but have contact with you, can't help but miss you.
This uncontrollable performance is a proof of true love, and if it weren't for his heart, he wouldn't have had this impulse and wouldn't want to stay with you all the time.
When you understand that he is sincere to you, don't live up to his love for you, there are not many such people, treat him well, enjoy his love for you, and cherish your feelings.