In "Mountains and Rivers Moon Ming", Xu Miaoyun faced Zhu Di who came to visit, treated him with courtesy, but Zhu Di came to retire from marriage, a word made Xu Miaoyun lose face, Xu Miaoyun kicked the screen in anger, stepped on the screen, and said to his brother: Send a guest. This move made Zhu Di stunned, and it was also the beginning of his heartbeat.
In the play, Xu Miaoyun insists on marrying Zhu Di because she really loves Zhu Di? Of course not, she was sober enough to accept this affair.
1, she has long locked her own goals
Xu Miaoyun, as the "female students" praised by everyone in the play, has plans for her future. At that time, when his father Xu Da was called into the palace for dinner, and when he came back, he was very angry and complained to his daughter, Xu Miaoyun just said lightly: Daddy is going to fight? After hearing her marriage, she asked again: Is it the Yan King?
Xu Da came back from the war and asked Xu Miaoyun if he wanted to marry the King of Yan? If he didn't want to marry, he would find a way to return to this family affair. She did not answer directly, but listed the marriages: the prince married the daughter of Chang Yuchun, the king of Wu married the eldest daughter of Feng Sheng, and the eldest princess married Li Qi, the son of Li Shanchang. Now there is Xu Da's family left, Xu Miaoyun is the eldest daughter, so she is destined to marry into the royal family. Because of this, Zhu Yuanzhang formed an in-law with the first five princes through the in-laws of his children.
There were several princes of the Zhu family, and the only ones who were similar to her age were the King of Jin and Zhu Di, the King of Yan. Zhu Di was extremely stubborn, but the prince was the closest to him, and no matter what aspect he considered, Zhu Di was the most suitable candidate.
Although Xu Miaoyun never spoke, she had long been sure in her heart that she would marry King Yan. That's why she was not surprised at all about this marriage, more calm than her father.
In fact, Xu Da also understands very well, you see, he kept complaining in front of Xu Miaoyun, but he did not say that he was going to retire from marriage. Only later when King Yan came to the house to make a fuss, Xu Da felt that he had the upper hand, so he asked Xu Miaoyun if he wanted to retire from marriage.
Xu Miaoyun wants to marry Zhu Di, not because of how much she loves, but because she is sober enough.
2) She has the capital to maneuver between several concubines
Why did Xu Miaoyun choose Zhu Di? Because she did not take the daughters-in-law of Zhu Di's brothers in her eyes.
Xu Miaoyun and Zhu Di's marriage must have been certain, Empress Ma immediately arranged for Xu Miaoyun to enter the palace, Xu Miaoyun took advantage of this opportunity to perform a good performance, entrusting the orphans of xu Da's adopted soldiers over the years to the empress, not only showing her ability to govern the family, but also providing more protection for her father. You see, after this incident, Zhu Yuanzhang immediately identified this daughter-in-law. Later, it was the matter of gift-giving, Xu Miaoyun handled it better, and Zhu Yuanzhang and the crown prince Zhu Biao were more convinced that Zhu Di must marry her.
Because Xu Da was fighting with Wang Baobao in the front, coupled with The fact that Lan Yu insulted Princess Wang Baobao, Empress Ma arranged for the second prince's princess and Xu Miaoyun to enter the palace together, and after they finished talking, they let the princess receive her, but the princess said that she was ill and could only be received by the princess concubine Lü Shi.
Although it is not revealed in the play what the three of them talked about, after the second princess and princess left, Xu Miaoyun had a behavior of stopping to watch, and there was a heart between her eyebrows, indicating that she saw something.
And the solicitation of Lü Shi was avoided without a trace. You see, at the beginning, she also affectionately called Lü's sister, and when Lü said that she could find her mother and me, she performed a ritual and said: Thank you Niangniang. That's it, she avoided Lu's solicitation without a trace.
No matter how capable Lü Shi was, she was only a side concubine, and now that the crown princess was still there, Xu Miaoyun naturally wanted to be a little more defensive.
After getting to know these people, Xu Miaoyun was more confident, after all, they were not her opponents. With her intelligence, it is not difficult to maneuver between these people.
3, she has the confidence to control Zhu Di
Xu Miaoyun is willing to marry Zhu Di, not because of love, but because she has the ability to harvest happiness no matter who she marries.
Xu Da asked Xu Miaoyun if he wanted to quit the marriage. Xu Miaoyun first asked Xu Da, Zhu Di has been a soldier in your place for a while, what do you think of him? Xu Da said, yes, most like Zhu Yuanzhang. But Zhu Yuanzhang was afraid of Empress Ma, which was the ability of the people themselves. He could not guarantee that. Xu Miaoyun said confidently, rest assured, I have the ability to clean him up.
Why is Xu Miaoyun so confident? First of all, she had already figured out Zhu Di's disposition. There is a detail in the play, the prince said that Zengshou and the King of Yan were good friends, which means that before the marriage, Xu Miaoyun had already learned from his brother what kind of person Zhu Di was, and gave him sex in his heart. Otherwise, it will not be said: tossing and turning and not showing up are two different things.
Secondly, she saw through Zhu Di's "inability to see clearly". Zhu Di himself came to retire from marriage, although this incident made Xu Miaoyun angry, but Xu Miaoyun saw through Zhu Di through this matter, he was actually "unclear". Zhu Di's marriage to Xu Miaoyun could not be decided by themselves, and even Xu Da himself could not interfere.
Therefore, Zhu Di came to retire from marriage alone, which was really "immature" in Xu Miaoyun's view. It was his "immaturity" that made Xu Miaoyun see the possibility of controlling him.
Third, she has let Zhu Di see her "can't afford it." Hearing that Zhu Di was about to retire from marriage, she said loudly, "Stand still", and then pushed down the screen and stepped out of the screen, and asked her brother to send a guest.
This may seem superfluous, but it actually shows her attitude. Later, when the crown prince disposed of Zhu Di, he also said that if Miaoyun sent someone to file a complaint, he would choose to retire from marriage.
Miaoyun punished her sister and said to her brother, we didn't have to come forward in this matter, there were still people who gave us an "explanation", and your handling of it made the matter irreparable.
Her sobriety was terrifying. And it is precisely this sobriety that makes her destined to have a different life.
Therefore, Xu Miaoyun insisted on marrying Zhu Di, not because of how much she loved, but because she was sober enough and capable of controlling her own destiny.
In fact, no matter who she marries, she can have her own life.