Singer Old Wolf once said this: The relationship between college roommates is the kind of relationship that can be remembered for a lifetime.
I have a deep understanding of this sentence, I also had a few good roommates in high school, and then after college, I rarely contacted.
However, several roommates at the university, although they went their separate ways after graduation, chatted in the group almost every day, and they missed each other very much.
The reason for this is because when I was in college, I understood what is real affection, if I can have a few friends who have a very good relationship in this period, it is a lifetime of wealth, Xiao Gang is a college student who has just entered college, when he first entered the dormitory, his impression of his roommates is very good, because he feels that each roommate is helpful and modest and kind.
But after a few months together, some roommates began to show bad problems.
In particular, the roommate named Xiao Jun in the dormitory, who likes to listen to music very much. That night, it was already 10:30 a.m., the lights in the dormitory building had been turned off, and the dormitory was pitch black.
At this time, some roommates have slept, and some roommates are hiding in the bed secretly playing mobile phones, as long as Xiaojun is playing music loudly on the computer, xiao gang can't sleep at all.
Xiao Gang told Xiao Jun a few times, and Xiao Jun said that he would sleep after playing this song, but after playing four or five songs in succession, Xiao Jun still had no intention of sleeping.
Xiao Gang couldn't stand it anymore, so he ran to Xiao Jun's bed and shouted, "Can you shut down the music for me?" ”
At this time, Xiao Jun did not have any response, and then Xiao Gang repeated his words again, but Xiao Jun still did not respond.
Until the third time he asked, Xiao Jun suddenly spoke, and he said impatiently, "You take care of me." ”
This can make Xiao Gang angry, directly unplug xiaojun's power supply and network cable, this time the music suddenly stopped, the atmosphere is slightly awkward, this time Xiao gang directly went back to sleep, and Xiaojun did not say anything.
After many netizens learned about this matter, they expressed their opinions.
A netizen said: Roommates have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be some friction, and it is better to be able to take a step back from each other. When your roommate does something that affects you, be sure not to rush it first, but to remind you kindly. But don't blindly tolerate it, otherwise he may become more intense.
Another netizen said: When I went to college, there were five people in the dormitory. Every day they played games until one o'clock in the morning, so that I couldn't sleep and had a nervous breakdown. I myself am a relatively cowardly person, I dare not say or be embarrassed to say, I have lived such a life for four years, and I am almost on the verge of collapse.
In my opinion, listening to songs is indeed a soothing thing, but listening to songs in the dormitory must be plugged in headphones, not with external amplifiers, which is the minimum respect for others.
Emotional master Tu Lei once said: What you like, others may not like.
So when you carry out your favorite entertainment activities, you must remember not to affect others.
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