Speaking of which, love should be based on understanding.
After two people know each other, they both have a certain understanding of each other, feel that each other is more suitable, and then say that they like, then decide to be together, and then determine the relationship and become boyfriend and girlfriend.
In reality, there are always times when a person who is obviously not familiar with us at all suddenly tells us that he likes it.
He said all kinds of very nice love words and let us stay with him directly.
I really don't know anything at all, I may not have had any intersection, or even I haven't been in touch for a long time.
In this case, some people say that if you like it, you can be a little happy, but at the same time, you must be rational.
Don't know you, just say like you, such a like, you better not believe too easily, don't take it too seriously.
Cast a wide net to see who will be hooked.
Love should have been a serious matter, and everyone should take it seriously.
But there are always some people, not serious at all, just a special child's play, do not feel that they should be dedicated, but just proud of their hearts, like to be ambiguous, always want to find a lot of spare tires for themselves.
Basically, whenever he knows a person of the opposite sex, he will not let go of anyone whose conditions are slightly in line with his standards.
Will use the same routine, to express their likes, will have a special sweet mouth, and say a lot of good love words.
How much he likes you, how different you are from other people in his eyes.
You think he's just doing this to you, but he's like this for all people, in fact, he's not willing to spend time and energy trying to understand the real you, so he just says something that can pass no matter who he says it to.
His likes, always seem so rash, always seem so unreal, such a person, of course, he does not really like you, when it is so to you, he is the same for many people.
For him, there was never any liking, never sincerity, but just to see who would believe his words, so that he could have it without spending any cost, and for a while, he could play with it.
What you like is the imaginary you.
There are also times when a person just has a little contact with us, and when they see us once, they will say that they like it.
There really is no one else around him, just you, he is just telling you, and he is indeed very sincere.
Even so, you don't have to be happy too soon, even if he says he likes you, he really thinks he likes, and what he likes may not be the real, real you.
I don't know what kind of person you are, I don't know what kind of experience you have had, I don't know what kind of life you want, so I just casually say that I like it, what he loves, of course, is not the actual you, but just what he thinks.
It may be that after seeing your appearance and seeing your certain behavior, he has developed a fascination with you, thinking that you are the person he wants to find, so he does not care so much, and directly expresses his heart to you.
When a person says he likes you so quickly, even if he is very sincere, you better not take his likes too quickly and accept them directly.
It's not that you don't deserve his liking, it's that his liking may have moisture, and if you think he's good, you don't have to turn it down too early, just take your time with him, get to know him first, and let him get to know you first.
In the process, if you feel inappropriate, or he feels that his likes are somewhat impulsive, then forget it, if you feel very good together, it is not too late to determine the relationship.
There is no choice, look for you to try.
Whether it is someone who has just met or someone who has known for a long time, there will always be some likes, suddenly.
He will say that he likes you and wants to be with you, but in his behavior, you have not felt any liking.
I have never cared about you, I have not really done anything for you, I have not been interested in your things.
While saying like, on the one hand, there is simply no behavior that likes you, when you meet such a person, you will inevitably wonder why he is like this, and in the final analysis, in fact, he is old, wants to fall in love and get married, but he has no choice.
Because I really don't have any choice, after finding out that you are single, I suddenly have the idea of taking you down.
Want to see if you want to see if you want to, so you will say like, to test, at the same time, because he does not really like you, so he is too lazy to pay, too lazy to do something for you, not even willing to pretend.
Like this, you don't have to deal with it, at the beginning you can't do anything practical, even if you go to his side, he will not be very good to you, only use you as a tool to complete the task.
When he achieves his task, he will not care about your feelings at all, and he will not really treat you as a whole, but will only ignore you in various ways, and will not take you seriously at all.
People who are not familiar with you say that they like you, and they are happy at once, and they don't have to be with each other because of it.
Although the other party may also be sincere, sincere at the moment, and will be in the future, it is more likely that the other party is not.
No matter when, no matter how old, in the relationship, you must be cautious.
Don't easily believe what a person says likes, until you really feel it, don't easily start a relationship with a person, until you are sure that he loves the most original you, until you are sure that you like him as well.
Slow down, there is nothing wrong with it, that will allow you to see a person clearly, to be able to see a relationship.
After experiencing the like of time precipitation, it can stand the test of time.
Even if it is more troublesome at the beginning, after being together, it will be more reliable and happier.
Text/Tan Meng
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