The more developed science and technology, the more advanced the society, the faster the pace of life, the greater the pressure on people, and the more impetuous people's hearts will be.
Without the heart to learn, without the heart to work, and even to live without the heart, impetuousness has unconsciously penetrated into our hearts, bones and blood.
As a result, it is difficult for us to calm down and do one thing, even if it is a small thing, and we are even more unable to maintain a calm and peaceful mind.
Once people's hearts become impetuous, their vision will become narrower, the pattern will become smaller, and their careers and futures will be imaginable.
An impetuous heart, in addition to suffering from gains and losses, anxiety and restlessness, cannot really bear the pressure and responsibility of life.
Impetuousness is a person's biggest inner demon, the culprit who destroys the mood and mentality, and the obstacle on the road of life.
Impetuosity and anxiety cannot solve any problem, and only by calming down, thinking seriously, and carefully calculating can we get out of the predicament.
Because many things are not urgent, fast, sloppy, the more anxious the heart, the worse the mentality, the more prone to mistakes.
In work and study, including in life, impatience is useless, and in an impatient state of mind, how to do it is easy to make mistakes.
As the saying goes, if you want to be fast, you can't reach it, you can't eat fat in one breath, and the more you rush to achieve it, the more unsatisfactory the result may be.
Only by calming down can we return to ourselves, can we take every step steadily, and we will not fall into traps or fall into swamps due to impatience.
There are countless paths to success, and we must not choose to take risks and be aggressive in order to take shortcuts, and finally gain more than we lose, and regret it.
You know, all the good and far-reaching, the eyes are high, the eyes are high, the heart is proud, are the root of impetuousness, and they will trap themselves at the bottom of the well.
And those who are only thinking about the things in the sky and are not willing to do a good job in front of them will only end up complaining about themselves in impetuosity.
After the water settles, it will become clear, and people will become calm after quitting being impatient, so impetuous people must learn to calm down and act in a low-key manner.
Impetuousness and impatience are the taboos of life, if you do not pay attention to and change, all kinds of beauty will be lost with yourself, and it will always be yourself who suffers losses.
Precipitate their own preferences, principles and beliefs, not be insulted, quiet and safe, and be a person who looks at the world calmly and indifferently to gains and losses.
In short, we must be calm, calm down, with a peaceful attitude, to face the vicissitudes of life, and strive to live as we want.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.