When a man gets along with women, he always acts arbitrarily, does some unreliable things, repeatedly disappoints women, women feel that such men are difficult to accompany for life, even if women are a little interested in men at the beginning, willing to have contact with men, for a long time, women see that men have no hope of change, feel that it is difficult to have happiness with men, and they are not willing to invest too much energy in this man, and the relationship between the two people will become increasingly flat.
Or, in the process of pursuing women, men only know that they are humble and flattering women, and they are dedicated to women, but they never want to improve themselves and show their best side, women see that men have no enterprising spirit, lack of planning for their lives, women can't see the hope of the future, and finally they are not willing to give men the opportunity to pursue themselves.
In fact, for men, wanting to enter the hearts of women is not to humble and please women, nor to deliberately do something for women to impress women, but to let women see hope. In other words, a good way to make a woman emotional is actually two words: hope; only when a man gives a woman hope, a woman will be relieved to entrust herself to this man.
1. Let her recognize you and feel that you are worthy of trust.
When two people are together, he is always spontaneous, say what he wants, do what he wants, often indulge himself, act arbitrarily, make some inappropriate words, completely do not consider women's feelings, maybe men will feel that "living according to their own way of life is their own freedom, women have no right to interfere", but he does not understand that life is two people, if men do not get women's affirmation and support, women naturally do not want to have too much interaction with men, and the intersection of two people's lives will also decrease. Feelings naturally do not heat up.
On the contrary, if men are fighting for some qi, they can light up the flashes on their bodies, consider more for women, and can improve themselves and make up for the deficiencies in their bodies.
A woman will sincerely appreciate this man, feel that this man has the qualities she values, and is a good man worthy of trust.
At the same time, men know that two people live together, it should be expected, two people's lives should become better and better, for this reason, men have been working hard, and take the results of their efforts to show women.
Women feel that this man is becoming more and more perfect, at the same time, feel that this man can become her own dependence, men can make her feel very happy, the future is very secure, women will naturally be full of hope for the future, and they are willing to hold hands with men to live.
2. Do something wrong and correct it in time.
When two people are together, men are always wanton, doing something that is not good for their own growth, or hurt the feelings of two people, and women express their opinions to men, hoping that men can listen to it and repent.
Men verbally promised women that he would correct, the result is that men always talk does not count, just perfunctory women, and do not really consider for women, do not care about women's feelings, do not change their mistakes, always let women disappointed, the result of the relationship between the two people is difficult to improve, the two people are likely to end up unhappy and dispersed.
If a man wants to get the recognition and trust of women, at the very least, when doing something wrong, there must be sincerity to change, which will make women see hope, feel that although men are not perfect, but will become better, always develop in a better direction, the relationship between the two people will often slowly improve and become better in the end.