I feel the energy of the injury on my side, you should be very sad in your heart, this hurt is not necessarily given to you by others, it may also be brought by you to others, or caused by yourself. What is the situation you have to judge and substitute according to your own experience, now the message I see here is that the energy of you and the other party is now contradictory, you still have feelings, you love each other, but now you don't see each other, don't want to look at each other. In fact, your and each other's emotional foundation is really quite good, and even have the idea of forming a family together, you did not expect such a thing to happen, more suddenly, let you be caught off guard, the quarrel is also very fierce, it can be seen that it is the influence of third-party energy, there may be a person between you, but your connection with each other is more complicated, will not cut off this relationship immediately because of this energy, your personality is quite strong, say no is not wanted, But you find yourself unable to make the final decision.
This is a relationship that is difficult to end happily, you and the other party still have to be prepared, if the problem is not handled well, I feel that the relationship will continue to be entangled. I also said that you and the other party were originally a very happy couple, you are very independent, have your own ideas, but also very industrious and pragmatic, will work hard to build the future for the relationship, but now encounter such problems but make you all difficult. Negative things still block your emotional exit, you need to dredge and heal, and then quickly solve the problem. My advice is that you should try to forgive, you should all learn to let go of forgiveness, don't be too harsh on each other, and learn to let yourself go.
There is the meaning of disconnection, you and the other party are not in contact for a long time, but not contact does not mean that the relationship disappears, there is still a connection between you, the emotional part of the words I think has not changed much, you still have feelings for each other, the other party is the same for you. The other party has always felt that you are an assertive and calm person, very mature in terms of feelings, and he likes your overall feelings from the inside out, so now he has no way to calm down, and his emotions will fluctuate when he thinks of you. But although he always thinks of you, he has no action, and his stubbornness makes it impossible for him to take this step.
You may be hoping in your heart that the other party can turn back, but I think the other person's state is not in place, he may still be healing, and it will take longer to prepare. I think the other party seems to have suffered a relatively large blow, which also makes the other party feel difficult to ease up. What you have experienced between him is only clear in your heart, so I have to say here that you have not seen the results in the near future, and the other party has not forgotten you in his heart, but he does not have the courage to communicate with you now. You may not be able to judge which thing is specific, maybe you want to know what you can do, then I hope you can open your heart to me, let's analyze it specifically, I can give you some more helpful advice.
You seem to be relatively independent, your heart is also very strong, your energy is very good, the overall look is quite strong feeling, and now you will be a little dazed. You have fallen into a difficult situation, in this relationship you have been looking for a sense of security, in fact, you and the other party have not lost their minds in the relationship, you are very aware of the meaning of this relationship, there are preparations to pay, but maybe the timing is not right, you are doomed to an encounter or can not have a good outcome.
It's like a threesome or a long-distance relationship, communication is hindered in terms of objective conditions, so when the mood is unstable, the impact on the relationship will be very large, plus you can't explain face to face in time, misunderstandings will occur, and the more and more contradictions piled up will only separate the relationship and withdraw your trust in each other. Now I hope you still calm down, it doesn't matter if you stop here for the time being, you think first, don't give an arbitrary answer, because the turnaround will still appear, depending on how you do it.