Text: Xi Xihuan
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Everyone lives in this world, always indispensable to money leaning, although money is not omnipotent, but no money is impossible.
Money can give us a better material life, can solve many of the problems we face in life, and even when it is critical, having money can make life last longer.
But we also need to know that although money is important, do not indulge in the acquisition of money excessively, because many times, in the process of pursuing fame and profit, it is often easy to lose yourself, make mistakes that lose principles and undermine the moral bottom line, and at that time, not only have your conscience been defective, but also caused harm to others.
Character is always more important than external materials, if a person's character is not good, then he has more money, no matter how much power, no one will be willing to get along with him, will only let him lose more.
A person's character is often hidden in his attitude towards money, and people with this view of money are often not very good, if you meet please stay away.
01 Mercenary people
Some people regard money as more important than anything else, although they have their own goals, but on the way to achieve their goals, they will do whatever it takes, even if they hurt the interests of others.
There was once a colleague who was such a person, in the eyes of everyone, this colleague is a mercenary person, as long as there are benefits to be obtained, no matter how tired and difficult he is not afraid.
Originally, others thought that he was a very motivated person at work, and it was not a shame to want to make money, because living a better life by his own efforts was a positive attitude towards life.
But everyone has been working together for a long time, and they all see his personality, as long as there is interest, he will take advantage of the interests of others, and even deliberately belittle others to elevate himself.
Once he was in charge of an order with another female colleague in the company, the other customer was very difficult to get around, and the conversation was not discussed for a long time, and both of them were a little discouraged.
But the female colleague quickly adjusted her mood, re-understood the specific needs of the other company, and finally found a breakthrough, and when we talked again, the other party quickly agreed to sign the contract.
However, when the company's leaders finally commended him, the male colleague counted the credit on his own head, and said that the female colleague took many leave to go home to take care of the children during the negotiation of this order, and he alone carried all the pressure.
Female colleagues are not willing to worry about him, and finally the bonus is more he gets, and other colleagues in the company are very uneven for female colleagues, but she said that such a mercenary person does not know how to communicate, nor does he know how to maintain interpersonal relations, sooner or later there will be a loss.
Sure enough, not long after, the colleague was fired because of the problem of private pricing was discovered by the leader, seeing that such a good job could not be saved, he begged his colleagues to intercede for him, but his reputation in the company has long been bad, and no one is willing to speak for him.
In the end, he slipped away from the company, heard that the new company did not make changes, still mercenary, offended many people.
In fact, in the face of interests, people have the heart to yearn for and want to get, which is the common sentiment of people, and there is no need to hide it, but how to get the benefits they want reflects how the character of this person is.
Just like that colleague, he takes money too seriously, and for money he can have no principles, no bottom line, and even lie, which will make others look down on him.
How much wealth a person can have, many times in fact has a lot to do with character, when you can restrain yourself in front of money, can keep the principles and bottom line, your personality charm will also be shown to others, so more people are willing to give you opportunities, it is really a virtuous circle.
And if a person loses the principles and bottom line when facing money, regardless of the interests of others, and only knows how to fight for his own interests, then in the end he will often lose more.
Therefore, a gentleman loves money and has a way, we love money is not wrong, what is wrong is the improper channel to obtain money, and money cannot be allowed to destroy the conscience of being a human being.
02 People who squander money
Some people are very rich and make money easily, so he does not experience the hardship and hardship of running around for his livelihood.
It is said that the easier it is for a person to get, the less precious it is, and some people treat money like this, they spend money lavishly, neither frugally nor understand the truth that money is spent on the blade.
Although everyone's view of money is different, sometimes the way a person spends money can see whether the person is worth the deep friendship.
Zhao Nan is a rich second generation, his parents are in business, so he has lived a particularly rich material life since he was a child, many children of the same age have not eaten, and he can easily have things that he has not played.
His parents were busy with business when he was young and didn't have time to take care of and accompany him, so Zhao Nan was always brought up by his grandmother.
The old man with children, the most likely problem is doting, grandma to Zhao Nan, the only grandson is the same, simply want the moon does not dare to give the stars.
When the parents' business is not so busy, they have the heart to accompany their sons, but they find that Zhao Nan is not very close to them, which is not the most important thing, and the father finds that his son's education problems are very serious.
Because of the debt in her heart, the mother has always been generous in pocket money, and as long as her son asks for money, she has never refused.
Therefore, when Zhao Nan goes out with friends to party, he pays for it, and his clothes and shoes and the like have to buy new ones every month, and sometimes a piece of clothing is not worn several times and is not thrown in the trash can.
The father is a self-made entrepreneur, how difficult it is in the early stage of entrepreneurship, he can't forget in this life, seeing his son squander money like this, extravagant and wasteful, he is very angry, taught his son a few words, Zhao Nan moved his father, but also shouted that his parents did not earn enough money, so that he had no face in front of his friends.
I have to say that Zhao Nan's parents have completely failed in his education, and the absence of the growth process has caused a distortion in Zhao Nan's view of money, and also made him not know gratitude and did not sympathize with his parents' hard work of making money.
Some people feel that it is easy to get money, so they forget that this money is not easy to earn, and while squandering money, it also proves that they are not a grateful person.
If a person does not have gratitude to others in his heart, he will become more and more selfish, and naturally he is not worthy of deep friendship.
Money can make a person or destroy a person, so whether in the process of self-examination or when getting along with people, we should not be blinded by money and lose our minds.
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