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When people reach middle age, they need to leave a way out for themselves.
Life can not go on forever, when one day, when the encounter of difficulties and stagnation, there is still a way back, life will have no regrets.
The "Warring States Policy" tells the story of a "Feng Chenke Meng Yujun":
Feng Chen was a protégé of Meng Tianjun and was unremarkable.
When one day Meng Tianjun wanted to find someone who knew accounting to go to his fiefdom Xue Yi to collect debts, Feng Chen volunteered to stand up. And took orders to go and collect debts.
Feng Chen did not take back the debt as Meng Yujun wished, but instead burned all the bond contracts of Xue Yi's people, that is to say, he did not want everyone to pay off the debt.
In his view, this is meng tianjun's "righteousness" to the residents of the fiefdom, which is what Meng tianjun is most urgently lacking, and he helps "buy" it back.
Although Meng Tianjun was a little unhappy, he did not have a good seizure and gave up.
Later, Meng Yijun was snubbed by the King of Qi and had to return to the fiefdom of XueYi, and to his surprise, the people of Xueyi helped the old and the young, and lined up to meet him. Only then did Meng Tianjun realize that the "righteousness" that Feng Chen had bought for him was paving a good way out for him.
Meng Tianjun was lucky, he had a doorman like Feng Chen to advise him and make overall arrangements, thus avoiding falling into the trap of "the authorities are fans".
As an ordinary person, you need to always be alert to yourself, whether you are in good times or bad times, you must have a way back. Otherwise, even if the current situation is difficult, do not easily make changes, but grit your teeth and persevere.
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When people reach middle age, no matter how capable they are to make money, they must remember to save money, and there is a deposit before there is a way out.
As the old saying goes, "If you have grain in your hands, you don't panic in your heart." ”
When people reach middle age, they have a deep understanding of this sentence. Whether it is the present or the poetry in the heart and the distant places, they all need real money and silver to pave the way. Otherwise, you will not be able to live every day of the present, nor will you be able to reach the paradise of your dreams.
Making money becomes the only theme in the lives of middle-aged people.
Those "white-collar workers" who enter and exit high-end office buildings, those "blue-collar workers" who come and go in the wind and rain, although the division of labor is different, the purpose is very consistent: "For the sake of crushing silver, for three meals there is soup."
On the shoulders of men, it is the heavy responsibility of supporting the family; on the shoulders of women, it is the mission of "going up to the hall and getting the kitchen down"; since the day they stepped into society, no one will get used to themselves, learn to suffer hardships, learn to be angry, and learn to strengthen themselves a little in grievances, which is a compulsory course for every adult.
However, making money is hard, spending money is equally difficult, and saving money is even more difficult. After all, for most people, it is not an easy task to break even, all expenses must be planned, and if you want to save some money, you have to cut back on food and clothing.
On the one hand, the so-called "quality of life" and on the other hand, "in case of unforeseen needs", people who are slightly undisciplined become "moonlight families". And when it was urgent to use the money, it was found that there was no deposit, and it was really desperate.
Therefore, the habit of saving money regularly every month will slowly build a "protective wall" for the already overwhelmed life.
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When people reach middle age, health is the most expensive, and insisting on exercise is the best way out for the rest of their lives.
If you pay a little attention, you will find that all successful people are particularly concerned about their health.
They not only spend huge sums of money to buy insurance, but also take time every day to insist on exercise, so that the indicators of the body can be maintained at a healthy level and in a better state.
In fact, when people reach middle age, everyone should put health first. Because, if you are in good health, you can work well.
When we see people of similar age from the Internet from time to time, because of overwork and accidents, or, because of physical reasons, someone we know has to go through the early withdrawal of illness due to physical reasons, and left serious sequelae, or suddenly die, we will suddenly realize: "People's life, in addition to life and death, are small things." ”
My neighbor Uncle Wang, with a big waist and round waist, looks like a good man in the green forest in a martial arts novel, never asks about housework, and is bent on making money.
Indeed, Uncle Wang has many "jianghu" friends, often gathering for drinks, and often returning home in the dead of night. And then, it lasted for a long time, and the vomiting was also very quiet. We are always awakened by his vomiting sound mixed with long and short sighs, we can feel his extreme discomfort and extreme helplessness, and secretly complain about his "unrepentant".
However, after Uncle Wang was in the hospital for a week because of a drunken unconsciousness, he began to work out. Every night after dinner, Uncle Wang would take his two children to play badminton in the yard and accompany Aunt Wang for a walk. As for the vomiting in the middle of the night, it gradually decreased.
When people reach middle age, it is important to make money, but blindly overdrafting their lives at the expense of health, most of the money earned will also be used to restore health.
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Conclusion:
The boat to the middle of the stray is more urgent, and the road to the middle of the mountain is steeper.
When people reach middle age, they face heavy pressure, such as walking on thin ice, like a man on their backs, blindly just burying their heads in work, counting a day, obviously, can not bring the whole family stable happiness.
Only by taking precautions, thinking of danger in times of peace, leaving a retreat for ourselves early, and finding a way out for the whole family, can we be fearless and fearless on the arduous road of life day after day.
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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