To like a person is not to make yourself cowardly, but to make yourself more excellent, so that the person you love is more and more inseparable from yourself. Sooner or later, the wrong people will disperse, and those who love each other will eventually meet again.
Remember the saying: "No matter how much you love someone, remember not to take the initiative to do these three things." ”
Love may be blind, falling in love with a person may always do stupid things, will do some very silly and childish things, but this is a sign of true love for a person. When a woman is moved, she will burn like a fiery fire, desperate to give, as long as she can be with the person she loves, she is willing to do anything.
But the more this time, the more we must understand that there are some things that must not be done, and doing it is to make yourself lower your own value.
01. Don't give up your past
Everyone has a past, and there are many people who experience a lot of things, and naturally there are happy things and unhappy things.
Before meeting that person, you have a lot of secrets, for your past, whether good or bad, I don't think you should give it all to a friend you think you have a good relationship with, because many times the speaker has no intention, the listener intends.
Writer Zhang Haochen once said: "Don't casually dig out your lungs and keep a part of the mystery, that is the only thing you can save yourself in a difficult situation." ”
Too intimate, too free to speak, it is difficult to create a sense of freshness, too much understanding, so it is always easy to lose the desire to "explore". Your feelings can, but not your past hurts. Treat every relationship honestly, don't cheat, don't deliberately hide, don't pretend to cover up, be frank, and really love.
If he likes you, he'll take it. If you don't like it, all that's left to do is mind.
02. Don't always make excuses for yourself
Su Cen said: "If you take a person too seriously, it is easy for the other party not to take you seriously." When you never bear to refuse, the other party will start to snub you. ”
If you always think of the other person as the world, then it will only be you who will be hurt in the end. When you give everything for him, his attitude towards you is always chilling. He doesn't love you, and if you're always making excuses for him, then you're waiting to be hurt.
Those who don't care about you usually reply very simply: "busy at work, no time" more want to make all kinds of excuses, can avoid you, and you always find excuses, he is really busy and has no time, he does not love you or does not love you.
In this world, the more affectionate people are, the easier it is to be disappointed. Your kindness is stupid in his eyes, and your tolerance and understanding are all weakness and concessions in his eyes.
03. The more women who save money, the more they tend to get worse
Mo Yan once said: "Life should be an experience that we experience immediately, not to survive the past days, to live a good life in the present, and to have the strength to live better in the future." ”
Tomorrow and accidents, we never know which one will come first. A lot of things, when you miss them one by one because you want to save money, all that's left is endless regret.
Don't spend money for each other without restraint, and don't save money for yourself without asking for a lower limit. We are all excellent, to understand that spending money for each other without restraint, only to buy inches, good love is never a one-man show, but a two-way rush of your love and my wishes.
Feelings need to come and go, he invites you to dinner, you please watch movies, he sends you perfume, you return his tie; slowly, he pays less and less to you, but you think that you are not doing well enough, always want to spend more money to prove that you are not with him for money.
Happy people are all similar, and unhappy people have their own misfortunes.
Happiness is not given by others, but by yourself to fight to feel, when you have these three characteristics, your life must be a happy and pleasant life.