The world kissed me with pain, but I sang in return,
On August 20, 2021, the People's Daily reported on a special doctor,
She was obviously paralyzed, with only one eye and one finger available.
But it took 7 years to create the Flower Armor Forum,
Specializing in providing medical information on the health of the elderly,
How did she go from a paralyzed patient to an admirable doctor?
What's going on here?
Let's walk into the life of this female doctor.
If you look at the first half of Wang Lei's life, it can definitely be described as a smooth sailing.
In 1982, she was born in Huangshan, Anhui Province, her mother was a village doctor.
Under the influence of her mother, she developed a strong interest in studying medicine from an early age.
And hope to become a doctor one day,
With the support of this idea, she studied very seriously as a child, and her grades were always at the top of the class.
But the father did not understand the daughter's hard work,
In his opinion, a girl only needs to read to get married after secondary school, what is the purpose of reading so many books?
Instead of wasting time arguing with her father, she studied harder.
Fortunately, her efforts were not in vain, and she received various scholarships and honors every year.
Gradually, the father also changed his views and began to support his daughter's studies.
In 2001, she was admitted to the Xiangya Medical College of Central South University with excellent results.
Later, he gave up the graduate school and studied for a doctorate in neurology.
During her time at the school, she won several scholarships and published many papers on SCI.
You should know that this institution was founded by the American Institute of Scientific Information, one of the world's three major scientific and technological literature retrieval systems.
It is very difficult to publish a paper on it,
It can be seen how good Wang Lei really is, and after graduation, she entered the hospital to work.
When her career was going well, she also met her own love and soon became pregnant and gave birth to a child.
At this time, Wang Lei almost thought that she was the happiest woman in the world.
But in her fourth month of pregnancy, fate struck her.
One night in December 2012, she suddenly felt something strange about her body.
So I took out my phone and called my mother.
"I feel like something is wrong physically, I want to throw up, but it has nothing to do with morning sickness."
Before she could finish speaking, she just fainted and completely lost consciousness.
In the end, after the mother received the call, she rushed to the hospital to take her to the hospital.
Soon the results of the examination came out, she was a brainstem hemorrhage, showing a two-thirds of the area of transverse fracture injury.
Wang Lei was in a coma for a week before he woke up, and the world also changed at this moment.
She was unconscious in most of her body, and her right eyeball was blind as a result.
Only then did she understand why her former patients were so desperate.
Because being sick not only has to endure physical pain, but also to watch your family run for yourself,
This feeling of powerlessness, even she could not stand it.
However, in addition to her treatment, she also faces a serious problem.
Does this child in the belly still want it?
If so, then in the process of treating the disease, the doctor must take into account the child's situation,
Even so, they can't guarantee that the child will be a normal child after birth.
After hesitating for a long time, Wang Lei's mother made up her mind: "We must stay." ”
At this time, she was ready for her grandson not to be a normal person.
Whatever the end result of this child, they are going to leave him behind,
Because this may be the daughter's only flesh and blood.
The process of treatment was undoubtedly painful, she once had her heart stop beating and put on a ventilator,
Those drugs that are treated are also very likely to affect the child,
She was also unable to eat because of the fever, and her whole body was in an extremely dangerous situation.
Sometimes Wang Lei understands that his hope of being cured of this disease is too low.
She didn't want to be a drag on her family.
But when I think of the children in my belly, and the parents who have gray hair running for themselves,
She persevered.
Fortunately, there are still many well-meaning people in society.
Some friends will also donate money to relieve her stress after hearing about her illness.
When she was still a month away from her due date, the doctor gave birth to a healthy boy by caesarean section.
She named her son Siyuan.
But fate did not let her go, and bad luck soon fell on her again,
She was unstable in her body due to blood transfusions, causing bleeding on the right side of her brain again.
At this point, her whole body was completely paralyzed, and she could not even do the basic swallowing movements.
She had become a complete wreck.
Just when she was desperate, the person closest to her, her husband, left her,
In fact, at this time, Wang Lei already had expectations for his departure.
Because her husband gradually became estranged from her in the second year after she fell ill,
It is said that there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, and her husband is just a person who has no blood relationship with her.
There was nothing wrong with leaving, and she could understand that it had nothing to do with the original unforgiveness.
Fortunately, although this man left, he still did not do too much in the end.
He left his son and all his possessions to his wife, and he went out of the house himself.
And paying the corresponding child support every month is also considered to be the end of benevolence.
However, the departure of her husband undoubtedly hit her hard.
This plunged her whole being into despair,
She didn't understand why Heaven had chosen herself, why it was herself who was unlucky.
At this time, she once wanted to give up her life,
Fortunately, her parents have been with her, holding her son to show her, making her think about at least having a son.
With the help of her family, she finally slowly perked up,
Also decided to start rehabilitation.
At first, she was very uncomfortable, she had to massage every day, and she had to suffer 20 needle.
Later, she was able to slowly complete those difficult actions.
When things got better, she began to think about her future.
Do you really want to be a waste, raised by your parents and family all your life?
She didn't want to, she studied medicine because she liked this profession,
Although she can't be a doctor now, she can also answer some questions and popularize medical knowledge for everyone.
Not to mention that the elderly are now easily deceived by some false advertisements,
She can answer some medical knowledge about the health of the elderly through the Internet.
Reduce their chances of being deceived by various online fake experts,
So she got into action.
In 2016, she began to set up a special information website dedicated to the health of the elderly.
But she has no understanding of programming, and can only learn according to some tutorials on the web,
Later, she spent money on various online classes, and then asked relatives to help her buy a domain name for the website.
So the Flower Armor Forum appeared.
But soon she found out that things were not as simple as she thought.
Because of her paralysis, she only has one finger on her body that can move.
Don't look at her when she's healthy, she can type a lot of words every minute,
But now she's struggling to type three or four words a minute.
In order to quickly answer the questions of netizens,
She spends a lot of time every day stopping in front of the computer,
If it is too late to reply, she can still get her mother to help,
And so the Flower Armor Forum was established in a stumbling fashion,
She took these things as her new job.
In the seven years since the site was founded, more than 5,700 members have been registered.
The number of posts has reached 8,000 upwards,
Some doctors who have heard about Wang Lei's deeds will also come to visit,
Become a member of the site and answer questions from those people.
As for her son Si Yuan, he has slowly grown up under the care of his family.
He seems to have inherited his mother's ingenuity and achieved good results in every exam.
In mathematics, you can get a full score back.
After the holiday, Wang Lei's mother will take her grandson to various interest classes.
Sometimes Siyuan sees her mother answering questions.
Will also obediently stand by her side to play a piano song for her mother,
Perhaps for Wang Lei at this time, it was enough to have such a son.
Wang Lei's life is more difficult than most people,
Although she had a good time, she also experienced pain that ordinary people could not bear later.
Paralyzed in the good old days, if it is replaced by other people may not be able to survive at all,
But she still persevered, and what is even more rare is that the human world has brought her so much pain.
When she was most desperate, even her husband stabbed her,
But she is still willing to treat the world with tenderness,
Help for those in need.
Maybe she's not a healthy person, but she's leaving more than most healthy people.
Today's Wang Lei still has not forgotten his work,
Her flower nail forum posts are also increasing,
In the forum, in addition to some consultation posts, there are also some posts that care about the health of the elderly.
For example, some health care posts and chicken soup for the soul post,
She helps the elderly from both physical and mental aspects.
In addition, she herself is also using her leisure time to create,
Before that, she wrote a romance novel of more than 200,000 words.
It's just a pity that this novel didn't cause much repercussions.
Now that she is ready to continue writing novels, this is also a hobby of hers.
The world treats her so harshly, but she is willing to bring beauty to the world,
Hopefully, she can continue to stick to her philosophy and help more people.