Wen | Wen'er
The human heart cannot stand the test, and no matter how good the relationship, when it comes to monetary interests, many human natures are nakedly exposed.
Zhang Chu and her husband have been married for five years, Zhang Chu is also 32 years old, and the two have no children. It's not that they don't want to give birth, it's that both of them have physical problems, and the chances of natural pregnancy are extremely low, and the doctor recommends that they use scientific means to give birth.
So Zhang Chu and her husband decided to do IVF. To carry out this operation, a lot of preliminary preparation is required, not only does it require a lot of money, but also a lot of physical conditions for both parties, especially the woman's physical condition.
Therefore, Zhang Chu also bears a lot of psychological pressure when he adjusts his body. And Zhang Chu's best girlfriend knows her situation and comforts her to relax her mood, even if she can't have children in the future, then her son is her own son, and let her son give her a pension in the future. Zhang Chu thought that this was a comforting word from his girlfriend, and he gladly accepted the suggestion of letting his son recognize himself as a mother.
Later, zhang Chu overheard his girlfriend say to his son, is it not beautiful to drift here? If you can't give birth to younger siblings in the future, the house and property will be yours. Zhang Chu was shocked, he and her husband were only children, the job was good, and the family property was not cheap, but at that time, he thought that his girlfriend was just joking, and he did not take these words to heart.
After many hardships, Zhang Chu finally got pregnant. The girlfriend has also been teaching Zhang Chu the experience of pregnancy, and has repeatedly knocked on the side to ask the baby's gender. Zhang Chu only wants the child to be born healthily, and he does not care about gender. Later, a daughter was born, and everyone was very happy, and the girlfriend also sent a lot of gifts.
But then the girlfriend's operation is more like a routine. His son applied for the class to let Zhang Chu pay half the money, and said that only by cultivating his son well, he could give his mother a pension in the future, and the girls would always marry out, and usually always found an excuse to let Zhang Chu take her son, saying that only by cultivating more and getting closer to her mother and son could they have feelings.
There are many situations, Zhang Chu figured out the taste, the girlfriend wants to let herself spend money to train his son, but also wants his son to inherit his property. Zhang Chu suddenly felt that this girlfriend was terrible.
I think Zhang Chu's pondering is not wrong at all, according to Zhang Chu's description, I think this girlfriend's routine is too deep, step by step temptation, and the heart is too deep. Stay away from girlfriends, to put it badly, she may wish that Zhang Chu would never have children, so that her son can get your property. She may want your daughter to disappear from this world.
At the same time, I think that the girlfriend child, under the indoctrination of his mother, has already felt that all your current property is his. This kind of thinking will be engraved in his bones. If he doesn't get what he wants, it may lead to an irreparable tragedy. Don't be confused, it looks like nothing, it's not a trivial matter. Don't plant hidden dangers for your children. The most important thing is to protect your own children, and the sinister supernatural cognition of the human heart. Especially if she has already thought about your things, for those who are worried about their own family property, tell her gently and firmly: there is no possibility at all! Let her completely stop this idea as soon as possible!
Do you have such a person around you? 】
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