In this world, there are always all kinds of people.
No matter what some people do, they will find someone to accompany them, and they can't tolerate being alone at all.
Others, often alone, are more alone than they are often with others.
One person eats, one person walks, one person goes shopping, one person processes emotions, one person solves problems. In the crowd, she was always a single figure, looking so small and lonely.
When she is always alone, inevitably, others will feel some sympathy for her, think that she is so pitiful, and have no friends or anything.
There will always be people who sympathize with the solitary person, thinking that her heart must be very lonely.
In fact, the parties themselves probably did not have any feelings, but felt quite enjoyable.
Not afraid of loneliness, strong and rich at heart.
Some people may feel that when they are alone, they will feel very lonely in their hearts, without any dependence, and in that state, they will be completely intolerable, but she will not feel such a feeling when she likes to be alone.
Compared to when she was left with only herself, she felt extremely lonely and terrible, and she would only do the opposite.
In her heart, she never felt that she should always go to the crowd, and she never needed to seek a sense of security from others to make herself seem less lonely.
She has a strong heart, strong enough for a person to compete with the years, enough to support her own years.
It really is that whether she is alone in the house or walking alone in the crowd, she will not feel lonely, she will only feel that she is very good like this, and there is no problem.
Instead of seeking something from someone else, she is completely self-sufficient and fulfills herself.
You can give yourself a solid job, you can give yourself a peace of mind, you can make yourself feel happy from time to time.
For her, even if she lives alone for a long time, she will not feel depressed, she will always be able to find her own fun, and her years will seem quite interesting.
Get used to being alone and enjoy that state.
Just like many people will feel particularly unbearable even if they are only left alone, people who like to be alone always let her stay with many people, but she will feel particularly messy and unbearable.
Her heart is relatively quiet, and she always hopes that her life will not seem too noisy.
For a long time, she had been accustomed to tasting everything alone, spending a lot of time on herself, doing what she wanted to do, and using it to feel her years.
When she's alone, she can do anything, like watching a movie, like tidying up the room, like reading a book, or, even if she doesn't do anything, just sit there in a daze and meditate quietly.
Maybe in the eyes of some people, her life will seem boring, but she really enjoys it.
In the years, she has never been afraid of being single, not afraid of being just a person, she is only afraid that someone will suddenly break into her life, disrupt her rhythm, and make her life become no longer peaceful.
I was afraid that there would be such a person, so under normal circumstances, she would not give anyone that chance at all.
Even if she falls in love and gets married one day, she will still maintain some habits of giving, and have some independent time and independent space that is just her own.
Independent and assertive, rejecting low-quality social interactions.
In fact, anyone who is not very independent, likes to rely on others, cares about the eyes of others, and cares about how others say about themselves, they can't always be alone, and they will only desperately squeeze into the crowd.
Because they will worry that they are always alone, others will say that they are different, and they will feel that they are not social.
In order not to become a strange person in the eyes of others, even if you don't like it, you will still choose to cater to it.
And when a person is always alone, to some extent, her spirit is really more independent, can solve a lot of problems on her own, at the same time, she often has her own ideas, and will not indulge in other people's claims.
It is also because she knows very well who she is and what she wants, so there are some circles, there are some parties, and she really doesn't want to fit in, and she doesn't want to waste her time to participate.
She knew that there were occasions when it seemed very lively, but everyone's heart was just very helpless.
Like that kind of social networking that has no meaning, she really doesn't want to deal with it, for life, she has her own ideas, just wants to make really more like-minded people, just want to have one or two higher quality friends.
No matter how others are, she is so willful, she only wants to interact with people who agree, only wants to insist on what she insists on, and live in the way she likes.
To be honest, there is really nothing abnormal about people who come and go alone. It's just her way of living, it's not the same.
There is not only one way to live in life, everyone can choose, they can do it the way they want.
Everyone who came and went alone, she just looked relatively lonely, but she herself had never felt that way.
If she really doesn't like it and feels very lonely, she won't always live like that, she will only try to find ways to have a lot of people around her, and she will only desperately try to keep some people.
It's always just a person, and that's really because she likes it, and she feels very comfortable.
It's not that she doesn't fit in, she just lives a relatively sober life, knows a lot of relationships, that can't be forced, and knows that with some wrong people, it's better to be alone than to be alone.
Compared to having many people by her side, what she pursues is what she really wants, which is high quality.
Text/Tan Meng
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