Sun Yanjun is an ordinary rural guy, but there are many children in the family, and he is a "model" among young people. Sun Yanjun's first marriage left two daughters, and when they were married, the daughter-in-law brought a son and a daughter, and soon after the marriage, the couple gave birth to another daughter. Every day when you open your eyes, it is the cost of five children, the daughter-in-law takes care of five children, she must not be able to go out to earn money, and the burden of the family is all on Sun Yanjun, is it difficult? difficult!
The son brought by the second wife will return to his biological father when he grows up, and he is only temporarily raised by his mother. For a rural man, Sun Yanjun definitely wants his son, which means he has to have one or two more children. Even if you raise six or seven children, it is a big expense, and it is said that children are blessings, but for Sun Yanjun, it is a burden.
When Sun Yanjun divorced, he was very happy, and finally got rid of his ex-wife and became a free person, no longer angry and beaten. But cool adults, but bitter children, two children follow the stepmother, can it be better? Coupled with the two children brought by the stepmother, the four children are about the same age, and the chickens fly and the dogs jump all day. For the contradictions of the children, Sun Yanjun himself does not know how to be good, and the second wife is even more difficult to deal with! No matter how the husband and wife manage, the children think that they are eccentric, which is the distress of reorganizing the family and the sadness of the children.
Sun Yanjun is an ordinary person, but he has not suffered since he was a child, and with the help of several aunts, his life is very good. If his first marriage could be sustained, life would not be so tight. Sun Yanjun's first wife was a petite woman, who could not stand the slightest grievance, as long as Sun Yanjun quarreled with his wife, no matter who was right and who was wrong, the eldest brother-in-law, the younger brother-in-law and the father-in-law would beat Sun Yanjun hard.
For the sake of his two daughters, Sun Yanjun has been enduring, and when he really can't survive, he selfishly filed for divorce. There are now fewer girls and more boys in rural areas, and even second-married women are not worried about getting married. Sun Yanjun's first wife, very painfully carrying compensation, looking for a second spring. Soon, the ex-wife remarried, had her own children, and lived a very good life, Sun Yanjun also got married again and formed a new family, and the husband and wife relationship was not bad.
Now, every child is a treasure in the eyes of parents, and pampering and pampering are the norm. Sun Yanjun's two daughters were spoiled by their grandfather and grandmother from childhood, and they could not stand the slightest grievance, and their mother was embarrassed. The two children brought by Sun Yanjun's second wife are also coaxed by the whole family to grow up and not suffer half a loss. Children are very sensitive, for the emotions and attitudes of their families, they can quickly perceive, even if they do not say on the surface, the heart is the same as spiegel, of course, do not rule out that children have extreme thoughts.
The four children are defensive and hostile, and it is difficult to blend together, even if it is to maintain a superficial peace. After Sun Yanjun had his fifth child, the feelings between the children became more complicated. In the eyes of adults, children are very pitiful, very ignorant, do not know how to live in peace. In fact, careless rural people are difficult to find children's emotional changes and worries, and they do not know how to alleviate children's insecurity, which aggravates children's inner pain.
The four children were originally positive, love to talk and laugh, since the family reorganization, rebellious, extreme, hostile. The adults did not realize this, busy earning money, busy with the housekeeper, and the children were handed over to the teacher and the care class. For the sake of the family's life, Sun Yanjun soaked in the factory all day, hollowing out his mind to earn money, not paying attention to the children, and it was even more difficult for the stepmothers, and it was not good for the stepdaughters to interfere, only focusing on the newborn and his own children, which made the family relationship more complicated.
Parents for their own bright future, a hit divorce, marriage, and children become victims, parents cool the child bitter. Adult contradictions should be dealt with rationally, and if they are not issues of principle, they can be resolved through consultation. A family can not be broken without breaking down, and the marriage that is managed with heart is not bad. If two people really can't get by, please don't ignore the child's feelings, pay attention to the child's psychological counseling, don't let the children heal their own wounds, you must know that the child is a child after all, and the self-healing power is not good.
Friends, for the guy to marry 2 children, the second marriage brings 2, and give birth to 1, cool parents bitter children! What do you think? Welcome to leave a message, comment, bookmark, forward!