"Dawei, don't blame the brother for not speaking well, your son Xiaohai, feel, not like your species?" You see how beautiful your daughter is, one look is your own child, this little sea ——, younger sisters have been running around all these years, isn't it... Be careful! ”
Looking at the relatives next to him who picked his eyebrows, Bai Dawei smiled awkwardly and said, "How come?" We are a very loving couple, not to mention, drink, drink! ”
This year is 2009, Bai Dawei's son Xiaohai is 5 years old, in the past five years, Bai Dawei's relatives, friends, partners, have openly and secretly reminded him: "Xiaohai is not like you."
David Bai
After returning home after eating, Bai Dawei went to his son's room and looked at Xiaohai's sleeping face, and he also felt that his son did not look like himself. Is it?
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"Specialty Hospital"
Bai Dawei, a native of Wenzhou, Zhejiang Province, opened a factory in the local area and spent most of the year in the factory, and his wife, Fu Wenjuan, also has her own job, and she is either at home alone or traveling abroad on weekdays. It is precisely because of this that as everyone finds that Xiao Hai and Bai Dawei are getting older and more different, the gossip against Fu Wenjuan has gradually increased.
Fu Wenjuan
Although Bai Dawei also had the slightest doubt about his wife, he immediately dispelled it. The most important thing in marriage is mutual trust, he and his wife are very loving, and they know their wife's character very well, knowing that it is impossible for her to do something sorry for herself.
However, unlike his own affair, his son was also like a thorn in Bai Dawei's heart, making him twist ten times. At this moment, Fu Wenjuan suddenly mentioned an incident that happened in the hospital 5 years ago: "Do you remember that incident 5 years ago?" It's what happened when our child was bathing in the hospital! ”
His wife's words made Bai Dawei suddenly "giggle" in his heart, yes, how did I forget that thing.
Friendly hospital
On March 19, 2004, Fu Wenjuan gave birth to Bai Dawei's son Xiaohai by caesarean section at Wenzhou Huashan Friendship Hospital. Three days later, the nurse carried Xiaohai to take a bath, and when she returned, the Bai family found that Xiaohai's appearance seemed to have changed. The skin of the whole person became a little yellow, and the nose collapsed. At the same time, the hand with the room number and the mother's name that had been tied to his son's hand was gone.
The Bai family felt that the hospital might have held the child wrong, and quickly found the head nurse and asked, "This is not like our family Xiaohai, are you holding the wrong one?" After hearing this, the head nurse said impatiently, "How can it be wrong?" Rest assured, our hospital is professional, it is absolutely impossible to hold the wrong child. ”
"But this kid looks different than before!"
"Alas, the child has just taken a bath, and some changes are still very normal things, don't think about it."
At that time, the Bai family was half-convinced of what the head nurse said, and then went to other delivery rooms to look around a few times to see if the children looked like Xiaohai, and the people who engaged them thought they were going to steal the children. In the end, he found nothing, so he was discharged from the hospital and went home.
After his wife reminded him of this old story, Bai Dawei couldn't help but doubt the statement of the head nurse at that time, and after consulting with his wife, decided to go for a DNA paternity test.
In July 2009, the results came out: "There is no paternity relationship between Xiaohai and Fu Wenjuan. ”
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What happened to the Huang family
After confirming that his son Xiaohai was not his own son, Bai Dawei found Wenzhou Huashan Friendship Hospital with the identification results. The Friendship Hospital showed great cooperation, and immediately transferred the file of that year for him, and found that a total of 7 baby boys had been born in those days. Later, with the help of the police, the hospital obtained ID photos of the fathers of the remaining 6 baby boys.
After identification, Bai Dawei confirmed that Xiaohai looked very similar to Huang Liwu, who lived in Taoshan Town, Ruian City, a subordinate city of Wenzhou City. In order to confirm whether his son is now in the Huangli Wu family, Bai Dawei asked the hospital to find a way to let the other party bring his son to come.
For the hospital, this is not a difficult matter, and immediately contacted Huang Liwu, saying that the hospital recently held an activity to conduct free medical examinations for pregnant women and babies born in the hospital, and invited them to come.
Huang Liwu's family
Huang Liwu's family did not know what the plan was, and they came to the hospital happily. What they didn't notice was that the three had just walked into the hospital lobby when a man hiding in the shadows picked up a video camera and videotaped them.
That night, Bai Dawei carefully watched the playback countless times, and the more he looked at it, the more he felt that Xiaohui, the child of the Huang family, walked in a very similar way to himself. After thinking about it for a night, he decided to meet Huang Liwu.
On this day, when Huang Liwu came home from work, he heard people in the village say that someone was driving a car looking for him. Huang Liwu was very surprised by this, thinking that I had not broken the law, nor did I owe anyone money, what was the reason for me?
When he walked to his door with a doubtful mood, Huang Liwu found that there was a car parked there, and a strange man came straight to him from the car and said, "Hello, I am Bai Dawei, I have something important to find you, can we go into the house to talk?" ”
Huang Liwu
After Bai Dawei entered the house, he took out his own video camera and let Huang Liwu and his wife watch the video of Xiao hai inside. Wife Chen Li looked at Xiao Hai, the whole person was stunned, he and my husband look too similar!
After listening to Bai Dawei talk about his encounter, Huang Liwu and his wife looked at each other and invariably remembered the incident 5 years ago.
Chen Li was originally the owner of a flower shop, and after becoming pregnant, she closed the shop.
On March 22, 2005, Chen Li gave birth to her son Xiaohui. At that time, Chen Li was also a caesarean section, unable to move, and only looked at her son once and he was carried to the bath. Although there was only one glance, when Xiaohui was carried back, Chen Li still found something wrong: "How did this child's nose become taller?" ”
The Huang family quickly approached the head nurse and said that the child's nose had become high, and it was not the wrong change. The head nurse said confidently: "Impossible, it is impossible for a child to change the wrong!" Don't you want your kids to be pretty? Just want your child's nose to be shorter? ”
The problem is that the "Xiaohui" who brought it back still had a sign in his hand that said "303", which was the number of the next room. Pay attention to the public number special nine groups. Chen Li's mother-in-law asked again unassuredly, who knows, the head nurse still said that it was impossible to hold the mistake: "Our hospital has so many children born every day, and it is wrong to hold it and pay it back?" ”
Later, the Huang family went to the next door to look at it, and it turned out that the family was discharged from the hospital, and the Huang family did not think much about it, so they took the child home, and they did not think that the child might not be their own child until now.
Soon after, the Huang family also went to a paternity test, and the results said that there was no blood relationship between Chen Li and Huang Xiaohui, and that there was a biological mother-child relationship between him and Fu Wenjuan.
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Go?
The precious son who had been raised for five years became someone else's seed overnight, and the Huang family was really difficult to accept for a while. At this moment, Mr. and Mrs. Bai Dawei came to their home again and offered to exchange their two children back.
After a long silence, Huang Liwu and his wife said: "Anyway, we have also been raised for 5 years, although it is not blood thicker than water, but the feelings of these five years are not fake." If the two children are rushed back, it may have a bad impact on the mental state of the two children. We feel that if we don't just go wrong, the two families will do their best to raise children, let the two children continue to walk like brothers, and grow up to 18 years old in the future, so that they can choose which side they want to go with. ”
For this proposal of the Huang family, Bai Dawei resolutely refused to agree. Indeed, Xiao Hai's child is smart and cute, and he is also very lively, and he also likes it, but Xiao Hai is not his own son after all. The economic level of the Huang family and the Bai family is actually not much different, but a family lives in the city, a family lives in the countryside, and there is a big gap in the facilities in all aspects, which also has an impact on the future of the child.
Bai Dawei believes that while the child's wisdom is still in the enlightenment stage, it is the most correct choice to change the child back.
The Bai and Huang families had a huge disagreement over whether to change the child, and the two sides argued for a long time, and Bai Dawei did not want to argue anymore, and said directly: "Either change the child back, or we will see you in court!" ”
The argument between the two families has gradually affected the child, and Xiaohui, who was originally well-behaved and sensible, has suddenly become very clingy, and even the kindergarten teacher said that Xiaohui is now somewhat abnormal.
After several trade-offs, the Huang family finally decided to agree to exchange the child back so as not to cause more harm to the child in the future.
In order to slowly adapt the children to the new living environment, the Bai and Huang families decided to let the two children live in the two families for a period of time after consultation.
In August 2009, Xiaohui was taken by her parents to her parents' home in Lucheng District to live with Xiaohai. During this period, Xiao Hui has always behaved very calmly, letting him do whatever he wants, and there seems to be nothing unusual. However, when he and Xiaohai were sent to their adoptive parents' house in Taoshan Town a week later, they suddenly lost their temper and kept slapping their parents, as if they thought that their parents did not want him.
After several rounds of exchange, the two families tentatively asked the two children whether they would like to exchange to a new family, and the two of them invariably expressed their reluctance.
Xiao Hui
In this case, Mr. Bai believes that it is better to directly make up his mind and directly change the child back.
At the end of 2009, Xiao Hai and Xiao Hui each returned to their biological parents. Xiao Hai behaved very sensibly when they were separated, and also kissed his adoptive father. After Xiaohui got out of the car, he seemed to realize something, and he held his adoptive father's thigh for a long time and did not want to leave...
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A hospital blunder, a tragedy for two families
Although the two children were exchanged back, what awaited the Bai and Huang families was not the joy of harmony, but the endless distress.
After Xiao Hui arrived at the Bai family, he kept crying and shouting to find his mother, and Xiao Hai squatted in the corner of the Huang family in a daze. The parents played with the toys, and the two children seemed not to see them.
Moreover, because the growth environment of the two children is very different, not only can the child not adapt to the parents, but the parents cannot adapt to the children. With the increase of daily contact, Bai Dawei was disappointed to find that his own son could say that he did not understand anything, neither wearing socks nor clothes, and had to be fed at meals.
Xiao Hai, on the other hand, had symptoms of autism, either in a daze or sighing, and was no longer as lively and active as before.
The child's condition makes the Bai and Huang families feel like a knife, they think that if it were not for the mistakes of the hospital in that year, it would not have caused this situation today, and the good son did not recognize himself, who can accept this?
Therefore, the two families decided to take the hospital to court.
In April 2010, the Bai family formally filed a lawsuit, and after trial, the Lucheng District Court of Wenzhou City sentenced Wenzhou Huashan Friendship Hospital to compensate Bai Dawei and his wife for 90,000 yuan.
As for the court's verdict, the Bai Dawei family resolutely refused to accept it. 5 years of emotional loss, mental damage to two children, is it possible to make up for 90,000 yuan? Therefore, The Bai Dawei family chose to appeal in court.
In court, Bai Dawei cried and said: "Especially when I am separated from my adopted son, I... I am 40 years old this year, I really rarely shed tears, only I want to adopt my son, especially when I wake up in the morning, the pillow is wet with tears." ”
On July 31, 2010, the Wenzhou Intermediate People's Court rendered a final judgment on the case: "Uphold the original judgment and reject the appeal." ”
Because of the hospital's undeserved negligence, the two families have suffered greatly, and the hospital undoubtedly has great responsibility. Fortunately, when the child is only five years old, the two families have found their own biological children, and I believe that with the passage of time, the two children will slowly accept their biological parents and live happily.