After Dad went, Chen Xiaochun and Ying Caier's son Jassper quickly circled a large wave of powder, and also won the nickname of "Little Bell Pepper", of which Mom powder was the most. They are all lamenting that Ying Caier's education is really great, and how to educate children so well.
In the later BaoMa popular variety show "In the Diary of a New Student" and other variety shows she has participated in, Ying Cai'er has successively mentioned what clear guidelines she has in her son's education, including: emotional intelligence, storage, eating, independence, etc. Educational methods are worth learning from. As Ying Caier herself said, "I don't want my children to go out and not be disliked in the future." "I think that's what every one of us parents is like.
House rule one: Do not throw toys
In a previous show "Wife's Romantic Trip", there was a real scene photographed in the living room of Cai'er's family, which was clean and tidy and spotless. That's because the rule that Ying Caier set for Jasper is that the living room belongs to everyone, not you alone. Your toys should be in your own room and should not be littered. Children love toys from an early age, but they usually just take them out and throw them around after playing without picking them up. Giving children a house rule that "you can't throw toys can actually exercise the child's sense of responsibility and can also increase the child's induction ability."
Family rule two: from an early age, you must have the ability to take care of yourself
Jasper, who is less than three years old, can carry a small school bag to school. Of course, Ma Ma had been secretly following in case there was danger halfway, but at least his independence had been exercised.
Many parents will consider everything for them because of their young age, which will actually make the child form a lazy nature. Therefore, exercising the child's self-care ability from an early age can improve the child's independence, and the child can understand that it is not easy for parents to maintain the family.
House Rule Three: You are not allowed to play with electronic products
Afraid of not being good for the child's eyes, Ying Cai'er resolutely did not let him play with mobile phones or tablets all day when he was only a few years old. In order to set an example, she and Chen Xiaochun also quit the bad habit of playing with their mobile phones during meals. Now that electronic products are full of children's lives, children can easily indulge in them. But this will have a negative impact on children's vision, schooling, etc., so without the premise of not letting children touch electronic products, it actually plays a protective role.
House Rule Four: Don't rely on everything
Usually children will be used to relying on adults, and it is quite normal to ask their mothers to help them carry things or do something. But Ying Caier's attitude towards this matter is very clear: no. Take what you want yourself.
For the child's requirements, parents and elders if everything is obedient. Over time, children will not know how to thank their parents, and will feel that their parents' obedience to themselves is taken for granted, which will develop children into self-centered, do not know how to consider and appreciate others.
House Rule Five: Don't ask for things
Once Jasper said she wanted a piano, and she would consider whether the child was on a whim, so she told him it was too expensive and there was no way to buy it at home. If you really like it, study hard and give it to him as a gift on his birthday. Only in this way will he feel that it is not easy to come by and cherish it extraordinarily.
Some children's families are more economically prosperous, parents try to give their children what they want, and slowly the children will ask for things. Establishing this rule can guide children to consider the necessity and practicality of things, so that children will know how to cherish and not waste
House Rule Six: Don't spoil in particular
Elders are often prone to doting on children, just as Jasper's grandfather asked him what he wanted to eat, and he ordered something, and grandpa immediately did as he was asked. Ying Cai'er immediately gave a serious warning: This is not a restaurant, you have to eat whatever people cook.
Therefore, in life, we must pay attention to communication with the elders in the family, and do not give children special doting.
Only children who grow up with moderate care and care will be healthier in body and mind.
House Rule Seven: Occasional Need for "Stick Education"
Some children are "hard and not soft", so when children can't listen to their parents' reasoning, occasionally
Educational assistance is required by "stick education". Of course, Ying Cai'er will stay alone with the child in the "stick education" and will not maintain the child's self-esteem in front of the public.
House Rule Eight: Don't fool around
For the children's unreasonable crying, Ying Cai'er has her own set of methods. "Someone will definitely pick it up
Just cry and ignore him. He couldn't cry for a day, crying until the end there was no audience to cry to whom to see "sitting on the street and refusing to go?" That's even worse. No nonsense, just pick it up and you'll get it. Seeing Jasper being pulled into the car like a chicken with two arms, he had no resistance to "power" and waited for the child to calm down and deal with it.
When encountering things, you can't fool around, which helps children to manage their emotions and calmly handle things.
House Rule Nine: Be sure to do what you say
Ying Cai'er and Jasper made an appointment to go to play the next day, so they had to get up at the agreed time. Teach children that they must always be faithful in their words and never contradict each other.
Parents are the best teachers for children, so every word and deed of parents seriously affects children, and children know the importance of commitment.