It is actually a very common thing for children to argue, they may cause dissatisfaction on both sides because of some very small things, and then they will start to quarrel, and may even move. So if two children in the community have an argument, what should we do to ease their emotions?
First, separate the two children in time
In the face of such a situation, parents must be the first time to separate the two children, because for them, the emotions are very excited, some children will cry at this time, that for children, want to let their emotions calm down, must be separated between the two of them, so that it is also effective to stop the further deterioration of the situation. When their emotions calm down, we can better solve this problem, because when a person is angry, in fact, all the words are in the air, and there is no way to judge right and wrong.
Second, figure out the reason for the matter
The reasons for the children's disputes are actually very simple and easy to deal with, so at this time, after we separated the two children, we had to ask them separately what the reason for the dispute was. Because in the eyes of different children, the reasons that may cause disputes are also different, so we must find out what the different ideas of the two children are, and then we can adjust the contradictions between the two according to their ideas. If our parents only listen to what one child says, it is possible to ignore the feelings of another child, so we must pay attention to the fact that both parties must inquire. Third, guide children to learn to face problems
After asking the reason for the conflict between them, we have to guide them to face this problem, and it is definitely wrong to argue first, so let them apologize to each other. This is also the first step in dealing with the problem, and after they apologize, we will mediate the entire dispute. What we want our children to know is that the dispute can not solve the problem itself, but should be through the communication between the two children, in order to be able to understand each other, and then understand, we can have further development, mediate the contradiction between the two people.
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