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Parenthood is the greatest, noblest, and most difficult profession in the world. The love of fathers and mothers in the world is the most true, and tears and blood dissolve into the bodies of children. Exhausting all his efforts will eventually be a son, and the heart of poor parents in the world. Indeed, no matter how flowery the words are used to praise the love of the Father and the love of the Mother, it is not exaggerated. The famous singer Bian Xiaozhen is well-known in the song world for singing golden songs such as "The Sun is the Reddest, Chairman Mao is the Dearest" and "Spring Water Ding-Dong", and is well known to everyone. She and her husband, Xue Zhuren, are a pair of great, selfless, strong and stoic parents. Their difficult experience of saving their son with cerebral palsy with love and tenderness made people cry, and also wrote the legend of father's love and mother's love...
Born in 1946 in Wuhu, Anhui Province, Bian Xiaozhen has loved literature and art since childhood, and is especially good at singing. When she hears a new song that sounds good, she will learn it as soon as she learns it. At that time, there was no radio at home, so she ran to the neighbor's house to listen, often forgetting to eat. When she was in high school, Bian Xiaozhen could sing more than 300 songs.
Young Bian Xiaozhen
Teacher Chen Yanjuan of the Wuhu Mass Culture and Art Museum found that Bian Xiaozhen was a singing seedling and often invited her to participate in the performance. When she was a student, Bian Xiaozhen was well-known in the local area. After graduating from high school, Bian Xiaozhen was admitted to the Music Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts in Beijing with excellent results. After graduating from university, she was assigned to the Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe as a soloist.
In 1970, Bian Xiaozhen met Xue Zhuren while rehearsing a performance. He was 5 years older than Bian Xiaozhen, a former paratrooper, and later worked as an interpreter in the Air Force system. Xue Zhuren is talented and fluent in English and Swahili in countries such as Tanzania. Moreover, he is tall and talented. Bian Xiaozhen fell in love with this big handsome guy at a glance, but Xue Zhuren did not have any special feelings for her. One is that Bian Xiaozhen is not a beautiful woman at first sight, and the other is that she has just returned from a company performance, her face is tanned, and her cotton jacket and shoes are broken, leaving An impression of Xue Zhuren's imperfections.
Bian Xiaozhen with her husband
But Bian Xiaozhen often made excuses to find Xue Zhuren. In frequent contact, he found that Bian Xiaozhen had a good personality and was well-bred. Especially after listening to Bian Xiaozhen sing the singing section in "White Haired Girl", Xue Zhuren also fell in love with her in his heart.
At that time, the marriage had to be approved, and the leader gave Xue Zhuren the bottom line: "The unit is ready to send you to study and work abroad, Bian Xiaozhen is a small owner, if you marry her, the future will be ruined." "Going abroad was quite a big deal at that time, and how many people envied it! In the contest between the future and love, in the end, Xue Zhuren chose love.
In 1971, Bian Xiaozhen and Xue Zhuren married naked in Beijing. The following year, their son Xue Song was born. At that time, Bian Xiaozhen had difficulty giving birth, and because the doctor's rescue was not timely, Xue Song was stuck in the birth canal for more than 40 minutes before coming out. Due to suffocation, he was blue in the face, did not cry at all, and had been in the incubator for more than 10 days.
After Xue Song was more than 1 year old, he could not speak, could not walk, and his eyes were a little sluggish when he saw things. Mr. and Mrs. Bian Xiaozhen took their son to the hospital for examination, and Xue Song was diagnosed with mild cerebral palsy. The doctor concluded that when Xue Song was born, he spent too much time in the birth canal, resulting in lack of oxygen in the brain, damage to the cerebellar nerves, and impaired tongue nerve function. The doctor told Mr. and Mrs. Bian Xiaozhen: "The child may be cured, and may be disabled for life." "The couple's heart is broken.
This is clearly a medical malpractice! The kind Mr. and Mrs. Bian Xiaozhen did not hold the doctors and the hospital accountable, and went home with their son in tears. When relatives, friends, and colleagues learned about it, they advised them to have another healthy child. Bian Xiaozhen disagreed: "Xiao Song is already unfortunate enough, if there is another brother or sister, we will definitely ignore him in the future." Xue Zhuren and his wife's attitude were the same: "No birth, do your best to save Xiao Song." ”
After that, Bian Xiaozhen and her husband and son began a difficult journey to seek medical treatment. Carrying their sons on their backs, they traveled to more than 30 hospitals in Beijing, asking doctors to give Xue Song acupuncture, massage, and preparation of Chinese herbal medicine. At that time, Bian Xiaozhen and her husband's salaries were 52 yuan, adding up to 104 yuan, which was high compared with ordinary people. But the son's monthly medical expenses accounted for more than half, and Xue Zhuren had to send 10 yuan to his parents every month. In this way, the actual control of Bian Xiaozhen and his wife is very small.
Bian Xiaozhen would not be meticulous, and Xue Zhuren became a housekeeper. He listed each week's expenses: how much to pay for the car, how much to buy vegetables, how much water and electricity to spend, all planned in detail. 7 days a week, what to eat at each meal is also clearly written. Every night he had to reconcile the accounts, never more than one point. When they took their son to the hospital, Bian Xiaozhen and her husband were reluctant to take the 5-cent bus and walked more than 20 miles back and forth. Thirsty and tired, the couple could not even buy a penny of popsicles and drank tap water in the hospital. Xue Zhuren often spent 5 cents to buy a basket of tomatoes, and it was a week to eat.
Under the hard work of Bian Xiaozhen and his wife, when Xue Song was three years old, he could call "Mom and Dad" and walk on the coffee table. But compared with the average child, there is still a gap. The couple sent their son to kindergarten, and the teacher was reluctant to accept the child when he saw that the child had problems. Xue Song had to stay at home with his parents.
Bian Xiaozhen often performed in the company, and Xue Zhuren took care of his son at home alone. When he went to work, he locked his son in the house and sneaked home at noon to make food for his son. 20 miles back and forth, he trotted all the way. Xue Zhuren wanted to buy a bicycle, but he couldn't afford it. Later relatives gave him a bicycle ticket, and he borrowed money to buy a pigeon brand bicycle. In this way, he can ride a bicycle, carry his son to the hospital, and no longer have to trot for more than 20 miles at noon.
In 1976, Bian Xiaozhen became famous by singing "The Sun is the Reddest, Chairman Mao Is the Dearest". Immediately after, she launched classic songs such as "Spring Water Ding-Dong", "Xisha, My Lovely Hometown", and "Big Goose Love", becoming one of the most popular singers at that time. After years of rehabilitation, Xue Song's walking and language function gradually recovered, but he spoke, walked, and reacted more slowly than the average person, and entered an ordinary primary school.
After becoming famous, Bian Xiaozhen performed more than 100 times a year. At that time, there was no remuneration for the performance, and the financial conditions of her and her husband were still very average. Since Bian Xiaozhen was absent from home for many years, Xue Zhuren held up the family. While he went to work, he took care of his son and took care of the housework, and colleagues called him a "family cooker". Because he spent too much energy on his family and son, Xue Zhuren was never promoted, and the evaluation and evaluation did not have his share, and the gap with Bian Xiaozhen was getting wider and wider.
At that time, some powerful people pursued Bian Xiaozhen and said, "Your husband is too ordinary, as long as you divorce and marry me, I will let your life go up a few steps." Bian Xiaozhen replied seriously: "I have a very good relationship with Old Xue, we are a couple in distress, and we will grow old in vain." Someone also reminded Xue Zhuren: "Teacher Bian is so famous, you are an ordinary person, are you not afraid that she will kick you?" Xue Zhuren said confidently, "I know her, she is not that kind of person." ”
Xue Song and his wife
Xue Song did not enter the university after graduating from high school, nor did he have any skills. With his mother's encouragement, he sold newspapers and popsicles on the street. In 1993, Mr. and Mrs. Bian Xiaozhen funded a small store of more than 10 square meters and let their son open a small grocery store. Xue Song can buy goods, will find change, and 3 friends take turns to go to the store to help him. The son can finally support himself, not the burden of others' imagination, Bian Xiaozhen and her husband no longer have heart disease.
In 1995, under the management of Bian Xiaozhen and his wife, Xue Song got married. The girl is gentle and beautiful, and the two have a good relationship. Bian Xiaozhen hurts her daughter-in-law as a daughter, and her daughter-in-law also respects her, and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law love her mother and daughter. In 2000, after the birth of her grandson, Bian Xiaozhen took her grandson for her son and daughter-in-law, so that the two children could guard the store with peace of mind.
Mr. and Mrs. Bian Xiaozhen with their grandson
Mr. and Mrs. Bian Xiaozhen have always lived with their son's family and have never had family conflicts. After Bian Xiaozhen retired, her grandson also went to primary school, and she and her husband took care of everything in the family. After returning from the performance outside, Bian Xiaozhen cooked and did sanitation as soon as she put down her luggage bag, and pushed the cart to the market like an ordinary housewife to buy vegetables. Someone recognized her and asked, "Are you Teacher Bian Xiaozhen?" She smiled and nodded. The other party said: "You are so famous, why do you still buy vegetables like us?" Bian Xiaozhen smiled and said, "I'm an actor, but I also have to eat." Walking off the stage, I am my mother, wife, grandmother, mother-in-law, and my life is no different from everyone else's. ”
Bian Xiaozhen and his wife
In 2020, Bian Xiaozhen is 74 years old and her wife is 79 years old. His son Xue Song was also middle-aged, and his grandson was also an adult. Bian Xiaozhen and his wife are still quite strong, and although the son's family is very ordinary, their lives are stable and peaceful. What could be more gratifying to a mom than that?
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