Does the Roy-like figure meet the criteria for a man's mate selection? I think the answer is yes.
The 58-episode new field workplace drama "The Hunting Ground" finally came to an end not long ago, this drama with Hu Ge as the leading actor and many big celebrities to fill the supporting roles has received widespread attention since its release, and the hot discussion has been continuous, and the most topic is Hu Ge's emotional drama in the play. Zheng Qiudong, played by Hu Ge, finally achieved glory in the workplace, and this road is not without the company of women, and the audience has sighed as if they are watching "Love Field".
But even so, the workplace has not learned anything, if you can give some inspiration to the human field is not necessarily a good thing. The role of Roy in the play as Zheng Qiudong's first love and also as Zheng Qiudong's final destination, in my opinion, is a textbook woman, who not only fully meets Zheng Qiudong's mate selection standards, but also should meet the mate selection standards of most men. It is not difficult to find the following characteristics from the Roy people:
First, elegant and confident temperament
From the moment she appeared, Roy had an otherworldly temperament that had not changed since her initial college years and later as a professional elite.
And the reason why she has this temperament can actually be found in the details of the play. Roy people are a typical literary and artistic young woman, whether in the university dormitory or in the closed guest house can see her reading figure, but in her leisure time, she is also in the state of reading and raising, just as the so-called belly has poetry and bookish self-glory, Roy people are full of knowledge, so that she has full confidence and self-confidence, from the inside out to show an extremely elegant temperament, and these are xiong qingchun and Jia Yimei are not fully possessed. Therefore, with this temperament alone, the "Roy" woman has been able to capture the hearts of a large number of men.
Second, the character of softness on the outside and toughness on the inside
In addition to the elegant and confident temperament of the Roy people, they are also very gentle and kind in the treatment of people and things, and if you feel it carefully, you will find that this woman is always like a trickle of clear spring, gentle and quiet, not alarmed, even if strangers get along with her, they seem to feel as extremely comfortable as the warm sun in winter, even after Zheng Qiudong was imprisoned, she did not have any rebuttal, but she silently shed tears, facing all the sadness of the world, she chose to face it with a positive attitude, no madness, no complaints It is too painful to treat this world that hurts her gently.
And her tenderness is by no means weakness. Roy people have always worked hard in society by virtue of her own efforts, and when there are men to rely on, she knows how to show tenderness, knows how to show weakness, and is the image of a bird's girlfriend; and when she encounters men's abandonment and betrayal, she will not sink, but can be independent of her own ability.
It is precisely because roy people have strong strength and capital that they will not be too attached to any man, but use their unique charm to attract lovers. Compared with a woman who is overly dependent on men and survives on men, a woman who is not only gentle and considerate, but also can help each other in her career may be more appreciated by men. Therefore, a woman like Roy who is soft on the outside and tough on the inside, with both gentleness and independent personality, will naturally become an excellent object for choosing a mate.
Third, high emotional intelligence, deep affection
Whether it is a man or a woman, the ultimate criterion for choosing a mate is actually the same, that is, to love yourself enough.
The most important reason why it is said that the choice of mate is to find a Roy-like woman is that the "Roy" type of woman can exert a super high emotional intelligence for the sake of the lover, whether in love or when separated.
Zheng Luo and the two naturally do not need to say more when they are together, and the deep affection of the Roy people can be seen in every look, but the most difficult thing to do is when they are separated.
When Luo returned to Hangzhou to find that Zheng was ready to get married, she never showed all kinds of pain and struggle in her heart, she did not want Zheng to be embarrassed, so she chose to invite Xiong Qingchun to eat a meal very generously, swallow the pain herself, and smile goodbye; when Zheng ignored the fact that Lin Bai's wife was about to be in the basin, Luo arranged everything behind her back, but because she did not want there to be a gap between Zheng and Lin Bai, she told Lin Bai that all this was prepared by Zheng; and finally in the matter of helping Yan Feng recover, In order to make Zheng's conscience completely comforted, Luo did not hesitate to watch her boyfriend kiss other women long, and she was willing to sacrifice everything for the sake of her lover.
This kind of woman with high emotional intelligence, who understands the wisdom of love, who knows how to grasp the collection and release of love, and who knows how to truly think about her lover, must have no reason for men to refuse. In this way, the Roy-like woman must meet the mate selection criteria of most men. Not to mention men, even women I think they will have a heartfelt admiration and affection for women like Roy.