After several autumns and winters, youth is no more, life is just a chess piece, or success, or defeat, and finally it is a passing cloud, suddenly looking back, only yi people are the same..., this is my biggest feeling after watching "The Hunting Ground".
This TV series is a bit sadistic to be honest, and the Roy man in the play is also a character with mixed reviews.
But I have to say that this is a woman worth studying, and recently there are many fans who have left messages in the background to understand how Roy is experiencing the death of Lao Bai, the mistress of the executive and the comedian Yu Chengfei splitting legs, how Zheng Qiudong still has a constant cut and chaotic emotion for her, always stirring his heartstrings.
First of all, the image she presents has the soft and weak side of Sister Lin, which makes people can't help but have a sense of pity.
There is also arrogance and freedom, can be at ease in front of multiple men, calm side, compared to xiong youth, Jia Yimei, Roy people all the time there is a magic that makes men want to get closer.
A copy of "Norwegian Forest" is the nostalgia of the two people for the green years, and it also sets the tone of their feelings. Zheng Qiudong has experienced several women back and forth, and there is no doubt that Roy is his best soul mate.
Returning to counseling, you will actually find it difficult for many girls to do this, and once they fall in love with a boy they like, they will lose their framework. Even can not do a good job of themselves, suffer from gain and loss, at first the man chases after himself, but in the end it becomes his own crazy chase of men.
And roy people have set a good example for us in this regard, she always holds her emotional initiative in her hands.
Those who have watched the TV series should remember that there is such a plot in it, the executives are dismounted, and roy people go to Hangzhou alone to find him after learning the news of Zheng Qiudong.
At the moment of seeing him, the Roy people had actually read from Zheng Qiudong's eyes that he was reluctant to love her, and in the face of Zheng Qiudong, who had a somewhat cowardly personality, the Roy people directly hugged Zheng Qiudong and took the opportunity to ignite the long-lost warmth, and this warmth was exactly what Zheng Qiudong needed.
This point actually tells us to learn to understand the psychology of men at different stages, to understand the appeal of men's hearts, which is the ability that girls must have in the process of redemption, and the strong attack will only make men continue to retreat.
Just like the Roy people in the play on the road to face Zheng Qiudong's feelings, every step is carefully prepared, and a hug just touches the softest part of Zheng Qiudong's heart, because Zheng Qiudong does not hate her at this moment.
Later, when the Roy people heard that Zheng Qiudong was preparing to marry Xiong Qingchun, the Roy people did not know whether everyone had noticed a move. She took a sip of her drink in a hurry, and then hurriedly took a tissue from her bag and wiped her mouth to calm her panic.
But within a minute she adjusted, and then offered to arrange the meal in a calm tone. At the beginning of the meal, Xiong Qingchun said: "I think your experience is really legendary", I remember that the roy people's answer at that time was "he is the most legendary".
There is no doubt that he refers to Zheng Qiudong, and when he said it, he was still looking at Zheng Qiudong, and a multi-person dinner game seemed to have become a show for the two of them in the amazing wisdom of the Roy people, and without too many words, they looked at each other and made Xiong Qingchun automatically admit defeat.
From this fragment, we can learn a few points: when facing the fact that your former beloved has a new love or is about to get married, don't mess around, let alone use some extreme ways to break up the other party, but should remain calm. Then dig into the truest thoughts in each other's hearts.
Obviously, this Zheng Qiudong is a helpless move to get married, not to believe that Xiong Qingchun is the most loved woman in his life, this is Zheng Qiudong's weakness, and the Roy people just happened to grasp it.
In addition, we should pay attention to flexibility in multi-person meals, of course, this is a long-term accumulation process.
Roy's sharp language and just the right amount of response, such a wonderful language of speech, and her love of reading in school are inseparable. Even she and Zheng Qiudong will communicate with a poetic dialogue from time to time, here is a scene for you as a reference.
The moment luo yi people came to Hangzhou and saw Zheng Qiudong, Zheng Qiudong asked her if she was free? She said I want to fly over, just fly over and you say it, and the voice is very soft.
Later, Zheng asked her how long she was going to stay in Hangzhou? At that time, the Roy people were looking at autumn and winter, and it was up to you! What a seductive answer, I think everyone has already felt it. It also reached the expectation test of Zheng Qiudong.
The reason why Roy people are so seductive is because she can always bring emotional fluctuations to Zheng Qiudong, not a little, and emotional value is the most core element of communication.
In addition, she took advantage of the opportunity with Minister Xia to exercise her ability to handle complex interpersonal relationships and cultivate the art of language.
Sometimes it is not impossible to "use" men, and the most terrible thing in the relationship is to lose the wife and fold the soldiers, which is very common among the trainees consulted.
Many girls build intimate relationships with boys and end up learning nothing, which is a loss-making exchange of feelings.
Women still have to have some means, if you are a girl with a more realistic heart, and you are struggling not to know how to use the resources around men like Roy people to make themselves mentally superior.
The third cleverness of the Roy people is that she can make the women around Zheng Qiudong feel flustered, whether it is Xiong Qingchun or Jia Yimei, let them lose in front of her.
She never saw these two women as real competitors, but went to explore the greatest inferiority and trepidation in the hearts of the two women. In the process of counseling, in fact, many girls can not do this, once the boyfriend behaves abnormally, some girls will always wonder if there are other women around the boyfriend.
Some girls like to check their boyfriend's mobile phone, a look at the boyfriend has the information to chat with other girls, the nerves are tense, and finally they end this unclear relationship by forcefully asking the boyfriend to delete WeChat or delete the message.
But in fact, the boyfriend and this girl are just ordinary friends. Letting the boyfriend delete the message or quarrel is a way to cure the symptoms, and deleting the other party does not mean that you will not miss the girl.
Jealousy is actually a more terrible force, and unconsciously his emotions are affected by the girl.
Let's look at the Roy people who are not shocked by the insults of the girls around Zheng Qiudong, and they do not take each other as a thorn in their eyes, and they do not pay too much emotional value for the girls around him.
Therefore, in the face of the so-called love enemy, it is necessary to deal with it in a more gentle and elegant way, and not to leave the other party with the image of a shrew. When facing Jia Yimei, she calmly said to her, "You are not suitable for each other." This was the greatest inferiority and trepidation in Jia Yimei's heart.
And the Roy people are Jia Yimei's most feared love enemy, so this sentence almost directly announces the end of the relationship between Jia Yimei and Zheng Qiudong.
However, when Jia Yimei really left Zheng Qiudong, the Roy people blamed Zheng Qiudong for being unreliable, "You said that people (Jia Yimei) honestly confided in the girl, you are not a bully."
In this matter, Zheng Qiudong is the face, and the Roy people are the Lizi. First, the Roy people easily repelled Jia Yimei, and second, Zheng Qiudong passively restored his freedom.
This also takes into account his face, and will not let Jia Yimei feel that he is a negative man, and he will fight off the love enemy with one stone. What makes the Roys so skilled in "Lizi Kung Fu"? It was during the time when she was entangled with various forces within the Media of China Insurance and was able to protect herself.
This trick is really worth learning from girls in love, paying attention to the existence of love enemies in behavior and flouting in mentality.
And just like Roy, you also need to know what your strengths are against the man in front of you? How deep is the emotional connection between you and him? Stalking will only end up embarrassing yourself.
But from a different perspective, we should also see that in fact, Roy is a woman who is extremely dependent on men, whether it is Zheng Qiudong, or Lao Bai, or Minister Xia, or Yu Chengfei, it is a straw to save her.
Just like Luo Zijun in the previous popular TV series "The First Half of My Life", her life is not only to buy and buy, but also to wait for her husband Chen Junsheng to come home from work.
But then Luo Zijun went out of the house, constantly changed his appearance and self-confidence, and navigated the workplace, so that he had more rights to choose his life.
The Roy people, Luo Zijun, all surnamed Luo, may be a coincidence, but compared to Luo Zijun, although the Luoyi people finally found Zheng Qiudong, she needed to attach herself to him.
If she can know how to stand alone, have her own life goals, and not go with the flow in her feelings, then she can finally leave or return in front of Zheng Qiudong.
And Luo Zijun finally managed to play freely in his own emotional world. And in real love life, it is often this type of woman who lives wonderfully.
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