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Recently, some media have exposed the news that Tang Wei has been "divorced".
The reason is that Tang Wei has taken his daughter back to China to live since last year, and has not sent a message related to her husband for half a year on the only social platform Ins, which has attracted countless speculations for a while.
Until Valentine's Day a few days ago, Tang Wei uploaded a photo of the feet of a family of three on the social platform, with the text "Daddy's Little Lover", personally smashing the rumors of marriage change.
Such casual and euphemistic clarification is indeed very tang wei.
And she does have such a skill, even if she is far away from the entertainment industry for a long time, as long as the slightest wind and grass can make people focus on it.
01 Chengye "sejie", defeat also "sejie"
When it comes to Tang Wei, most people's first reaction is "playing the heroine of "Sejie", even if many years have passed, they can't get around the biased scrutiny.
In fact, if you put aside those Who seriously looked at Tang Wei at that time, you can understand what Ang Lee said about "being a genius after entering the role.".
In the movie, Wang Jiazhi's untouched youth and Tang Wei's simple and clean temperament complement each other. Wearing a cheongsam and high heels, her eyes are flowing, and her style is infinite; sometimes she is flirtatious, sometimes defensive.
But she was not the first choice, and it is said that Li Ann was looking for Han Xue, Zhang Ziyi and others at that time, and always felt that something was wrong. What he needs is a role that can be tolerated in the face of adversity, and there is also a student spirit.
Until Tang Wei changed into a cheongsam, he finally made a decision, and the imaginary Wang Jiazhi should be like this.
But this does not mean that Tang Wei only needs to simply stand there as a vase. In order to present the psychological game between the characters, there is a scene where Liang Chaowei presses Tang Wei's head and hits the wall, and also beats Tang Wei with a belt. This scene has been passed many times, and after filming, the lead actor and the director three hugged and cried together.
For Tang Wei, the sacrifice behind it can be imagined. But she did not want to classify the play as a "sacrifice", and she told reporters at the premiere of the film: She did not think too much, and using body language to highlight the art is a progress in Chinese films.
It's just that the explosion and the fall occur almost at the same time, and the more the eyes focus on the film's clips, the greater the controversy about whether the value orientation is reasonable. This also led to Tang only winning the Best Newcomer Award at the 44th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards in the last second, and being ruthlessly banned the next second.
At that time, Tang Wei's boyfriend Tian Yu also went to see the movie, and after returning in silence for a long time, he still mentioned breaking up.
At this time, after a photo of Tang Wei zippering Ang Lee was exposed, public opinion was even more one-sided, believing that she was "a means" and "a famous person".
Those days were like What Tang Wei recalled, "After frantically rushing to the highest point in history, I collapsed in a panic." ”
But to say that he did not regret it, Tang Wei shook his head firmly. It has nothing to do with ambition, in fact, she is more like the experiential school of life, whether it is bitter or happy. Casualness is like an aimless vessel, drifting to the shore wherever it goes.
Later, out of helplessness, Tang Wei "fled" to Britain in the name of studying abroad, and once disappeared for a long time.
02 Put on the clothes you took off one by one
At that time, the media described Tang Wei's days abroad as "eating, drinking and having fun" and not being happy.
In fact, she worries about money every day, and once used to tear out her clothes from old newspapers while selling on the street, and she began to open for business in a paper dress. He also went to the club as a sparring partner, went to the stadium as a caddie, went to the gymnasium to paint the floor...
In the eyes of everyone, her literature and art are cold and cold, and she should not eat human fireworks. Whoever ever wanted to take root in reality, she could also bury her head and bow her head and run for her livelihood, busy in the ordinary fireworks.
The delicate lily in a window is beautiful, and a stubborn morning glory flower is more vital.
The three years of being hidden by the snow gave Tang Wei the opportunity to observe the world. Therefore, when she returned, her acting skills were hung all the way:
In "Full Moon Hennessy", she is not sociable, taciturn Eileen;
In "Late Autumn", she is anna who lost her husband after domestic violence, sad and distant;
In "Beijing Meets Seattle", she is also a vain and arrogant Wen Jiajia who worships gold.
The major awards came again, and her clothes were put on one by one.
It is worth mentioning that whether it is "Late Autumn" or "Beijing Meets Seattle", and then to "No Two Love Letters", they all have a close connection with the city of Seattle.
If you think of a city to define Tang Wei, it must be Seattle. This city in the northwest of the United States is far away from the bustle and impetuosity, just as Tang Wei faded the chaos of the entertainment industry and stood in a corner of the stage silently glowing.
It was also when filming "Late Autumn" that she met love and embraced director Kim Tae-yong.
Kim Tae-yong photographs her, saying that he can't help but be moved when he just stands in front of the camera; Tang Wei also loves him, describing the other half as gentle and thoughtful and meticulous.
"If I cook breakfast he likes it very much, he will take pictures with his mobile phone, save them on the computer one by one, and he is the one who knows how to be grateful for everything."
"Once he asked me to close my eyes and said he was going to surprise me, and as soon as I opened my eyes it was the piano. He understood me, and my dream since I was a child was to be able to learn the piano. ”
Mention jin Tae-yong, the corners of Tang Wei's eyes are all smiling. But choosing to enter the marriage hall with each other, in addition to the details, more importantly, the frequency of the two is just synchronized, and the life they yearn for is so consistent -
Leaving aside the glitz and glamour of fame and fortune, I prefer fireworks in the world.
03 Do not argue, do not grab, leisurely
At that wedding, counting Tang Wei and Jin Tae-yong, there were three or four people in total, and the whole ceremony did not take more than 20 minutes. Even the wedding photos were taken by a friend who had just met for a day.
After marriage, Kim Tae-yong bought 480 square meters of land in the suburbs of South Korea. It was a small village of only seventy or eighty families, remote and secluded, almost isolated from the city.
But Tang Wei and her husband were happy. They raise their own chickens and ducks, personally plant all kinds of fruits and vegetables: corn, winter melon, pumpkin, potatoes, cabbage, and personally weed and fertilize.
Fans felt that Tang Wei was wronged, but she triumphantly photographed the tomatoes she planted to show off, and also showed off that her cucumbers had grown into "supermodels".
Pastoral marriage, so comfortable.
Some Korean artists have said in the show that they have seen Tang Wei and Kim Tae-yong riding bicycles by the Han River in sportswear several times, and the two have talked and laughed, which is particularly sweet.
But this cross-border marriage has not been smooth sailing. In the beginning, in order to be a good Korean daughter-in-law, Tang Wei learned Korean etiquette, holiday taboos, and daily Korean cooking through CDs every day. Because he only speaks basic Korean, Tang Wei cannot integrate into the local environment, and his life circle is limited to a small family.
One day she decided to communicate with her husband, and after saying that she was confused, she proposed that she wanted to continue filming.
Kim Tae-yong understands, but he can't put his mind at ease because the issue of foreign countries has always been his concern, and he is afraid that it will cause a gap between the two.
He carefully asked Tang Wei: "Wife, can you change your nationality to South Korea?" ”
When Tang Wei heard this, he did not get angry or accuse, but said gently:
"I won't do that, I won't mention it again, I won't change my nationality now or in the future." You don't have to worry about family, I'll take care of it, you have to trust me. ”
Although Tang Wei's tone was gentle, his eyes were unusually firm.
Kim Tae-yong knows that Tang Wei is a very assertive person and says one thing or the other. So he chose to respect his wife's opinion and did not mention it again.
Transnational marriage is not easy, but the two can find tacit understanding between differences, which is inseparable from respect, tolerance, understanding of their partners, and positive communication in the face of contradictions, and active resolution.
Obviously, Tang Wei became more relaxed under the nourishment of marriage.
Focus on work when you are busy, and enjoy life when you are idle. You can not only wear Chinese clothes to show your style on the set, but also dress up in plain clothes to grow vegetables and catch fish in the countryside.
Several times netizens met Tang Wei by chance, she was dressed elegantly and faced the sky.
Daily sunshine is a good time, there is a lover, a daughter, a self, a beautiful view.
To this day, she has slowed down, but such a slow life may be the most suitable rhythm for Tang Wei.
Bless Tang Wei. Step by step, she used her own experience to prove that if she did not take off, she could also get recognition and praise; there was no dispute, there was also a world that belonged to me.