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Some men in the pursuit of a woman, if not successful, basically will blame the reason for failure on "lack of sincerity", in order to let women see his sincerity, men will continue to work hard to pursue, do not know that no matter how close you get to her, you can not get what you want.
In fact, in such a process, many men have a "gambler mentality". There is nothing wrong with perseverance, who let women choose men who value sincerity the most!
It is also true that after hitting a wall on the road of pursuit, men will ask: "What am I doing badly", and women will say: "Sincerity is not enough".
So what is the sincerity of the femininity?
Is it important?
In a sense, the so-called sincerity is nothing more than an alternative "trade-off", and it can also be said that it is a very realistic, very "rational" factor.
Suppose that when there are 3 men pursuing a woman at the same time, the woman will choose the other half according to her "mate selection criteria". However, in this age of temptation, marriage does not mean a lifetime, love does not mean to get married, women in order to give themselves a way out, will subconsciously divide men into A B C.
If one day, the man who was originally chosen changed his mind or left due to some unspeakable thing, you can also choose among the other 2 people, if such a thing really happened, the woman will say in her heart: "He was chosen because he was good-looking, and the condition was the best of the three; however, if there is an accident, you can choose again".
Of course, smart women will not say this, because this is too hurtful to the feelings of the "spare tire", which is not conducive to the follow-up let him continue to be good to himself. Therefore, women will say: "I chose him because he was the most sincere to me, did not choose you, not that you are not good, but I can't feel your sincerity."
Therefore, when a woman says that you are not sincere, you have to be careful and careful, maybe you quietly play the role of "spare tire"; because her words save you face and create opportunities for you.
To know the relationship between men and women, this is a kind of "gambling", the woman's sincerity makes the chosen man unable to refute, because she always uses the reason why you have not been chosen, is not sincere to cover up your anger, she only let this statement continue, in order to be invincible.
For the man who fails, because his sincerity is not enough, no matter how good his conditions are, he will involuntarily act as one of the tires on the other side's four-wheeled body. Perhaps, many people do not agree with such a statement, some people will say: "Women really care about each other's sincerity, and many women also choose ordinary, but they love her men very much."
This kind of woman does exist, some women in the choice of mate, will observe the other party to contact themselves several times a day, in the quarrel of the attitude and other details, even if the man repeatedly invited, she refused, even if the man invited her every day, she may also refuse, this is not intentional but intentional.
Because many women like to argue whether a man has the spirit of perseverance, because they are extremely insecure, will not easily trust a man, must pay a lot of men, full of sincerity, they will pay, to accept, to love this man.
Sincerity is the lubricant of the relationship between men and women, so that each other can move forward and backward freely, so "sincerity" is the basis for the interaction between two people. However, "sincerity" is not the only means of successful interaction, although a woman is emotional, she will show a rationality that she has never had when choosing a partner, and she will repeatedly examine the other party.
When she distances herself from a man, there is only a small probability that the man is not sincere enough. Men who are rejected because of "not sincerity", stop trying to promote your standing relationship by expressing "sincerity", because that is not the reason you are rejected at all.
——EDN——
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