-01-
Last weekend, I ate with friends in a musical restaurant.
Northern days, although it was spring, it was still very cold, there were not many people in the restaurant, and the atmosphere was good.
Everyone was chatting happily, when suddenly there was a cry in a corner, only to see a young girl, wearing a beautiful skirt, and the cries of hissing kept coming, and there seemed to be a lot of sadness, and the man sitting opposite her, in the face of the doubtful eyes cast by everyone, did not seem to have the slightest sense of cramping, but there was some anger, angry eyes looking at the people who were crying on the other side, not coaxing, not talking.
Moments later, he called the waiter, checked out, picked up his coat and left.
The girl saw him go, and cried even louder, slowly turned into a whimper, the last person sat there in a daze, the waiter saw the situation, sent her a glass of ice water, but she suddenly became angry, loudly asked: You send me a glass of ice water, what do you mean?
The waiter said sorry and left immediately.
Later, until we were ready to leave, she was still there sitting in a daze.
Friends said that eighty percent were broken up, the little girl could not slow down, but look at the man's look, where is it worth her sadness, and quarrel with the waiter, it is really a head show, where did people offend her?
I nodded yes.
Yes, I would like to say to the girl: When you grow up a little longer, you will find that many people or things in this world are really not worth your anger, sadness, sadness, and distress.
-02-
Life, really busy.
However, if you are busy with "getting angry" about some unworthy people and things, then your time is really wasted.
In this life, there will be countless shortcomings, countless unsatisfactory, so that after we experience, we find that we are so powerless to change some facts.
But what you can change is your own attitude. Tagore once said: If you cry because you miss the sun, then you will also miss the stars.
Therefore, what you miss may not be able to reach the light of the "sun" at all, so why make yourself sad and make yourself angry?
Our life is really short, minute by minute, like flowing water, fleeting.
Sometimes, you think that you have come to Japan for a long time, but when you look back, you have already lived more than half of your life. When you open your eyes, you will see wrinkles climbing on your forehead; when you open your eyes, you will find two sideburns, stained with white frost; when you open your eyes, you will sigh that some people are forever separated in this life.
Therefore, you must cherish your precious time, do not be sullen because of anger, and do not waste your life because of the injuries caused to you by some others.
-03-
We live and must do the "right thing to do".
In "The Second Flower Blossoms", it is said:
When you let go of prejudices and disguises, no longer anxious and needful, your heart is really open, in fact, life is not easy to practice.
We always trap ourselves in attachments and past hurts, but sooner or later, you will understand that except for life and death, the rest is just bruises.
Oh, yes! "Except for life and death, the rest is just a bruise"!
The older you get, the more you will understand that life is about constantly doing subtractions, and no one will know what will happen in the next second.
Therefore, don't let yourself live so tired, ponder the mind that can't be understood, then go with the flow; those who can't understand, don't bother to guess and tempt; if you shouldn't be calculated, there is no need to let yourself live too calculating; if you can't think straight, then don't think...
No matter what you encounter, no matter who you meet, you first think: go your own way, do what you want to do, and love the people you want to love.
The rest, let him go!
-04-
When people are angry, often, the first person to suffer is themselves.
You can't move your liver and fire at every turn, but you don't know that while you are angry, others don't take it seriously. Moreover, it is not a joke to be angry and hurt.
There are many people, after getting angry, sleeping with their heads covered, angry, sleepless all night, and even overeating, causing physical burdens, in the end, anger will infringe on your health, and for your inner entanglement, for the solution of things, but it will not help at all.
Once saw a story.
A teacher, because and her husband in the morning because of some chicken and garlic, mixed a few words, she was in a bad mood, when buying breakfast, because the boss first gave the back of the queue, and a big fight, after going to school, was tripped by the school's sports equipment, and the physical education teacher had a quarrel, and then opened the school forum, and found that there were students spitting on her, and finally poured water to drink, because of the inner irritability, was burned by boiling water.
It can be seen that when people are angry, if you can't adjust your inner impatience in time, the last person to suffer the most is yourself.
Your mood determines your life in the moment.
In life, people who love to be angry will always make people feel that his face is always covered with dark clouds.
Therefore, if we want to enjoy the clear sky, we must abandon the rain and snow in our hearts, and you must remind yourself that no matter what you experience in the present, anger cannot change anything that has become a fact, but it will blind you with a lot of beauty in your eyes.
-05-
There is no shortage of good stories in this world.
It's just that a lot of times, when we think that others will care about how you live, how you live, you do something, whether you achieve it or not... In fact, most of the time, it is you who think too much.
You know, people with hearts will only think that you live a little worse, and people who really care about you care about whether you are hard or not.
So, no matter what your ending is, whether you are a hero or a clown, the result is only your own responsibility, and others are just bystanders.
Don't live in the eyes of others, know: in life, everyone is alternated between unbearable and smooth, in order to prove that you have lived seriously.
Of course, there is no need to live too much.
For some unreasonable people, if they are not happy, they must say it, if they don't like it, they must express it, if they don't want to do something, they won't do it, and those who don't like it will have less contact.
Don't let yourself be wronged in order to "not be angry.". Pleasing others is the most stupid thing, and only by not wronging yourself can you love yourself well.
In the adult world, everyone will experience some collapse, but will also quickly allow themselves to grow.
In this world, it is not easy for everyone to live, but you must believe that as long as you work hard enough, the sky will never fall.
Life is a long road, don't be angry, just take good care of yourself! Don't be angry, there is nothing in life that can't be put down!
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!