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When Du Chun's wife Wang Can was on the show, she said a sentence: "Then I once had an emotion. ”
This sentence makes many netizens speculate whether she is married twice?
As soon as she updated the video on the social platform, some malicious netizens asked her if she was married for the second time, and Wang Can directly replied: "Do you talk about the two words of the second marriage as a shame or an eye?" Talk to my fans, come on! ”
Even if it is a second marriage, what is wrong, is it difficult to become a second marriage is very humiliating, and should be discriminated against? What age, some people still have such feudal ideas, which is really laughable and generous.
Some netizens did not forgive, and wang can replied and continued to ask: Then are you married twice?
Wang Can did not respond positively, but said: Are they all better than you, this confidence I have.
Wang Can's words are quite free, whether they are all better than you, whether a woman is excellent or not really has nothing to do with whether she is married or not. And when a person breaks the casserole to the end of "whether others are married twice", it has already explained his thoughts and insights.
What happened to the first marriage, what happened to the second marriage, people Du Chun didn't care what you were doing here.
Du Chun's wife responded to the second marriage: Is it the second marriage and what is wrong? If you don't get married twice, you should be discriminated against!
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I have to say that there are still some people who look down on divorced women today, and in their ideological concepts, they probably think that divorced women have problems, otherwise how can they get divorced? Otherwise, why don't others divorce, why did you leave?
If you have a history of marriage, they will instantly feel that they are superior, as if divorce is an ugly thing, and divorced women deserve to be discriminated against. People with this ideology just illustrate how shallow and ignorant they are.
I agree with one author, Yan Lingyang, about divorce: I wonder why anyone has this perception! Can't "divorce" be equated with "having the ability to control one's own life, having the confidence to live independently, and having the courage to pursue a better life"? Marriage is not a deed of sale, and everyone has the freedom to control their own life. If we are comfortable, we will live; if we are miserable, we will be separated. Divorce can be a sad thing, a helpless thing, a regret, not a thing that requires the sympathy of others, and it is not a despicable thing.
Yan Lingyang is a single mother, she now takes her children to fight well, but also helps many people who are confused about emotions, so that they are strong and get out of the mud of marriage.
Marriage is not a deed of sale, we will meet people in marriage who are unladylike, two people can live a good life, can not live on the marriage divorced, what is the problem?
Whether they are married or not, divorced or not, whether they have children or not, no matter which way of life they choose, is their freedom. We others can't think that they should be looked down upon because of this, what logic is this? If you hate and despise others because of this, it can only mean that you are very ignorant.
Divorce is about ending an inertial lifestyle, nothing more.
You used to have a legal relationship with someone, and you have to bear corresponding responsibilities for each other, but after the divorce you are a free body, you have nothing to do with him, you can let go of the past and start your new life again, which is the freedom that belongs to you as a human being.
Don't think divorce is ugly anymore, and don't look down on divorced women, and don't be afraid of being looked down upon and look down on your talent, not your own problem.
Don't divorced women deserve love?
As long as the person you love can accept you, you manage what other people's opinions are. Love or not, whether you marry or not is a matter for both of you, it has nothing to do with others, and the real one who wants to live your life will have to live the rest of your life.
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The author Yan Lingyang also has a sentence in the book "I Am Divorced":
"Divorce is of our own choosing, without being coerced by anyone or being abandoned. We are already adults and know which options are for profit and avoidance of harm. It's like you choose to hold hands with someone for the rest of your life, we can't choose to go on, and this choice deserves to be respected. ”
Don't care too much about other people's eyes, the key is how you see yourself.
I remembered one of the things around me, Meng Li was a very strong woman, but she was actually quite traditional in her thinking. Meng Li has strong personal ability, she earns quite a lot, and because she earns more, mainly she is raising a family. Meng Li has in-laws to help with the children, she spends most of her time busy with business trips and busy work, her husband has a little inferiority, always feel that Meng Li hates him for not making much money. In fact, Meng Li hated him there, and Meng Li just hoped that he could spend more time with the child.
There is a division of labor in a family, since your financial ability is not as good as your wife, what is the matter with spending more time with your children?
However, her husband is still not satisfied, the two people sometimes quarrel quite stiffly, and Meng Li's husband even filed for divorce. After Meng Li's mother learned of this incident, she said bluntly: "You don't let him fool around and bully you, as long as you do what you should do with a clear conscience, if he continues to make trouble, the two people will not divorce." This is nothing, you can live it, you can't live without harm, don't wronged yourself. As a woman, you can live a dignified life, but you can't be too depressed, you bear everything he has and opinions, that is, he is not a man. ”
Divorce, two people are not suitable, can not go on to divorce, as long as it does not involve the issue of principle, there is nothing at all.
I borrowed this article from netizens to talk about Du Chun's wife's second marriage, and wrote to women with this confusion: Don't feel that what is wrong with your divorce, don't care how others look at you, the focus is on how you look at yourself. Whether a person lives well or badly, whether he is admired or despised, depends only on what kind of person he is, not on what kind of identity he has.
If someone around you says that you are "divorced", you should stay away from him and live your own life.
A second-married woman can also have happiness, can also live well, and deserve love and a good marriage.
Du Chun's wife Wang Can is very good, she looks very beautiful, maybe in our eyes people are not happy, but fortunately unhappy she and Du Chun know themselves, have some kindness to others, don't always speak ill of each other. She is still pregnant, bless her, and hope that she can give birth to a healthy and lovely baby.
Live well, may you be independent and strong, may you be free and live your own life.
There is also a sentence for divorced women: you can't accept your divorce you don't want him, look down on your people, you stay away from him, live well yourself, there will be people who are right for you. Even if no one loves you, you just have to love yourself, love is always the icing on the cake, not in the snow, don't care too much.
Today's topic: Should divorced women be looked down upon? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the cold and warm of the world, looking at the world.