Some time ago, a video of Ke Yimin singing a song in a bus was widely circulated on the Internet.
In the video, she looks very depressed, simply dressed, her hair is disheveled, and her two front teeth are missing.
Soon, this video attracted the attention of many netizens.
Ke Yimin, who was once bright and beautiful on the stage, and who was high-spirited, would fall to this point, which is really regrettable.
However, netizens did not sympathize with her suffering, but instead sneered and accused her of what she had done.
Why does no one sympathize with Ke Yimin's suffering?
At that time, when Ke Yimin was a judge of "Super Girl", the fact that he hurt the contestants with bad words was impressive.
At that time, when a contestant appeared on the stage, because he had a serious cold, he first explained the situation to several judges.
Unexpectedly, before he could finish speaking, he was stopped by Ke Yimin and said, "Don't sing, gun!" ”
Such a situation made the players on the stage frightened, after all, this is a public occasion, the mentor actually said dirty words, people can not understand, and finally the player did not qualify.
Another time, when a fat player was singing, she said directly: "No one wants to watch a sow sing on stage." ”
And so on, such as such events, Such a "poisonous tongue" as Ke Yimin even had to bow to Venus.
At that time, although these things did not attract much attention from the audience at the beginning, with the rapid development of the Network, Ke Yimin was still pushed to the cusp of the storm.
In the condemnation of a large number of netizens, Ke Yimin could not withstand the pressure to stand up and apologize.
Although Ke Yimin's apology attitude was very sincere and he also bowed 90 degrees, netizens did not buy it.
For this reason, Ke Yimin's career has suffered a lot of blows, not only lost cooperation, but also declined in popularity and reputation.
In order to return to the screen again, Ke Yimin came to the stage of "Super Speaker" and brought a speech.
For some of the disrespect he once had for the contestants in "Super Girl", Ke Yimin still felt that there was nothing wrong with what he did.
Even though the judge Kou Naixin in the audience has always wanted to communicate with her, Ke Yimin still looks like she can't get in.
Who is Kou? Why did Ke Yimin give her face?
Ke Yimin can catch fire and cannot do without Kou Naixin's husband Huang Guolun.
Because her first album was made for her by Wong Kwok Lun.
Ke Yimin, who was still a newcomer at the time, was scolded by Huang Guolun, but she did not hate it, but was very grateful.
Because of this, Ke Yimin's album can sell 1 million copies of good sales.
As the saying goes, "strict teachers make high disciples", and Ke Yimin grew up in this way.
After becoming popular, Ke Yimin is also a top figure in the music world, and even has the same name as Li Wei at his peak.
But now netizens mention that she only thinks of her swearing, but rarely mentions her popular experience.
Born in Malaysia, she graduated from the Royal Academy and has a deep talent in music, and has reached the level of The Eighth Grade of Royal Piano.
In 1993, a song "Too Silly" created by Wu Qixian made Ke Yimin a hit and officially entered the music scene.
In the same year, he won the "Best Newcomer Award" and the "Best Singing Award" and other awards, which can be described as the peak of his debut.
Subsequently, Ke Yimin made a steady progress in the music world, and his career began to flourish.
In 1996, Ke Yimin and Li Wei collaborated on a classic song "She Cried Before Bedtime", and his career reached its peak.
It is said that at that time, the entire music scene was dominated by Li Wei and Ke Yimin, and then this situation occurred when Sun Yanzi and Xiao Yaxuan debuted.
But now Li Wei has long become an "international diva" and stands at the Oscars and sings.
Ke Yimin's career, on the other hand, was not as good as before.
Because when Ke Yimin's career was rising, she chose to marry and have a daughter and return to the family.
Many people have heard of Ke Yimin's achievements in music, but know nothing about her life.
In fact, Ke Yimin in the marriage is also very bitter.
Ke Yimin's husband, Huang Guofu, is a vice president of a music company and the manager of famous actress Shu Qi.
At that time, Ke Yimin signed a contract with Huang Guofu's company, and when his boss introduced him to the vice president, Ke Yimin's first impression of him was not very good.
Although the other party's position is very high, Ke Yimin feels that Huang Guofu looks short, ugly and fat, like a big frog.
I thought I would never like him.
Unexpectedly, after the two fell in love, they lived a very sweet life.
But Ke Yimin's marriage was doomed from the moment she met her mother-in-law.
Knowing that the mother-in-law is a very traditional person, Ke Yimin hopes that he can make a good impression on the other party.
However, no gift is as good as a good body.
Seeing Ke Yimin's slightly plump figure, the mother-in-law nodded with satisfaction.
Because Huang Guofu is the only son in the family, the mother-in-law's greatest hope is to be able to hold her grandson as soon as possible.
But this was also the beginning of Ke Yimin's misfortune.
After getting married, Ke Yimin soon became pregnant.
But when the mother-in-law saw that it was a daughter who had been born, she turned her head and left.
At that time, Ke Yimin also had a conflict with her husband because of work, and wanted to divorce several times, but she was stopped by her husband.
As her daughter grew older, Ke Yimin gave up the idea of divorce.
But this home has long since lost its human touch.
After Ke Yimin returned home, her mother-in-law said at most three words to her, which was basically to ask her how much money she earned, when to leave, and so on.
Even when her husband Huang Guofu was suffering from kidney disease and was taking care of himself in front of the hospital bed, her husband secretly transferred the inheritance to his lover.
After the death of her husband, she was the heir to the first estate and had to voluntarily give up the inheritance because of her mother-in-law's sneer.
Even her lawyers fought for her.
However, even if he did not receive an inheritance, Ke Yimin would still visit his mother-in-law.
Perhaps it was his sincerity that impressed his mother-in-law.
When she heard her mother-in-law say to her husband's tombstone, "You married a good wife", Ke Yimin was relieved of the pressure she had been carrying for many years.
When she was ready to fight in the music scene again, she found that there was no longer her place.
So she began to work behind the scenes as a mentor and came to the stage of "Super Girl".
Perhaps based on his past achievements, Ke Yimin always looks like he is on top.
The tone of the review was also not good enough, and when the contestants heard the slightest flaw, they immediately beat the other party into the eighteenth layer of hell.
Perhaps, Ke Yimin's attitude is indeed not good enough, but her starting point is still good.
It can be seen that in the entertainment industry, in addition to having strength, sometimes it is also important to know how to speak with high emotional intelligence.
In the book High Emotional Intelligence Chat Technique, it has been mentioned how to show the best side of yourself with the shortest words, and how to win the favor of others with the shortest communication.
As Kou Said, must we scold the other party until we can't face this in this life?
Ke Yimin is no longer the king of the song world, and I hope that she can also put down her body.
If you're still embarrassed that you can't speak, you must finish reading this book, you will definitely come out on top in the fierce social competition, and your career will be smooth.