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After Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian officially announced their divorce, her pregnancy photos were also exposed online.
Also, they are all divorced, and it is difficult for someone to interfere with your freedom.
Shortly after their official divorce, photographer Tatsuko released a photo of her pregnancy with the caption "Happy Single Pretty Mom". I watched Wu Qian's pregnancy photos, and in those two photos, she was really beautiful, she was wearing a white veil, more like a woman married to herself.
If you look closely at Wu Qian's pregnancy photo, you will find that there was light in her eyes at that time. Although we all feel unworthy for her marrying Zhang Yujian, we have to say that Wu Qian herself is willing to do this, it must be because of love, but her love has been disappointed.
She loves Zhang Yujian so much, and it is because of love that she is willing to tolerate everything, but what does this man give her in the end? However, it was a marriage and a daughter who had to admit it as a last resort, and the result was that her name was only the child and her mother, and the word "Wu Qian" officially appeared in his Weibo when the divorce was officially announced.
In this regard, some netizens incisive commented: "The only time her ex-husband's name appeared on Weibo was the official announcement after the divorce, when she was 22 weeks pregnant, her ex-husband was still standing up as a single person, not without money, but even the wedding, she chose to have a child with him when she was popular, and when she was forced to admit marriage, she also scolded her for not protecting the child, and was photographed." ”
Why has Zhang Yujian been so down-to-earth?
It is because he is not responsible, he does not dare to admit that he is pregnant and does not dare to admit it, and he still does not dare to admit it when he is married. What is even more infuriating is that when Wu Qian became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter because he delayed his career, he was still setting up a single person.
Wu Qian is the girl who once had light in her eyes, maybe when she had an affair with Zhang Yujian because of the drama "I Only Like You", Wu Qian was truly loved, she had good expectations for her married life, she thought she was married to love, but she did not expect that the reality of marriage gradually shattered her: it turned out that you were passionate about love, but that person did not put you in your heart, no responsibility, you will be disappointed in your marriage.
As the disappointments in your marriage build up, the light in your eyes disappears.
The pregnancy photo that Wu Qian was exposed was like a lot of girls who had beautiful expectations for marriage, they were so beautiful at first when they entered the marriage, and their smiles were as bright as flowers, but when they really got to marriage, they found that there was no fairy tale in marriage at all.
Love and marriage, after all, are different, love is romantic, and marriage is realistic, there are too many chickens and dogs in marriage, and poor communication between two people will lead to the flow of those once loves bit by bit.
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Wu Qian is a good actor with a lot of spirit, but she really has no ambition, even her agent Zhang Shaohui said that she is not self-motivated, for this, Wu Qian does not deny. In her opinion, being an actor is just a dream, and although she loves the job, it is not her dream.
"Ever since I was fifteen years old, my dream has been to get married and have children and be a housewife."
This is what Wu Qian said in an interview, she said her dream is to be a housewife. So many female stars in the entertainment industry are afraid of getting married and having children, afraid that their careers will be so ruined, but Wu Qian is dreaming of being a housewife.
She was a very simple girl, the kind of person who attached great importance to marriage and family.
Wu Qian also said that if she had the opportunity to become a housewife, she was willing to give up filming. But before the opportunity came, she wanted to complete the work in her hand, shoot seriously, and live simply.
Soon, this opportunity came, in 2018, Wu Qian and Zhang Yujian cooperated in the filming of the youth drama "I Only Like You". At that time, I was also particularly fascinated by the love between Mo and Qiao Yi, the love between xueba and xue scum, and satisfied the beautiful fantasies of many girls about love.
I also had this fantasy when I was young, that a boy who was particularly good at learning could fall in love with me, and then we began a flirtatious adolescent love. When I was young, I didn't have any particularly big ambitions, and I always thought about love more simply; but after maturity, I wouldn't look at love this way, especially after marriage, and I looked at so-called love more and more lightly.
Wu Qian for Zhang Yujian to secretly marry and give birth to a daughter, Zhang Yujian does not dare to admit that she does not dare to come out, perhaps she has been looking forward to Zhang Yujian dare to admit it, but unfortunately her affection has been disappointed, the man who has never put you in his heart, he will not appreciate your love for him, he will even feel that you are dragging him down, because of your relationship he has been angrily scolded by so many netizens.
I have always suggested to many girls: don't take love as important, love is something to have, but it is by no means the most important. Girls still don't love the brain too much, you must love a person worthy of your love, if you love him more, you do not respond to his love, I think you still take the time to stop the loss.
Love a man who is not responsible, you are disappointed or disappointed.
It is okay to have no responsibility in love, but it is absolutely not okay in marriage.
The man who does not have responsibility in the marriage, he can't give you love and warmth, he has no sense of responsibility for you and your children, what do you want him to do?
Why do many women have light in their eyes before marriage, but in marriage, their eyes gradually disappear, because they grow up, because they see the man they love, because they see their marriage.
We often say that a woman is not very happy, it can be seen through her eyes. A woman with light in her eyes is happy, but a woman who has no light in her eyes after marriage must be unhappy. Wu Qian must have also realized this, so after a year of official marriage, she still chose to divorce, she grew up, and she knew that women are king on their own, and men are unreliable.
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After the divorce, Wu Qian's pregnancy photos were exposed: she was also a girl with light in her eyes.
It's just a pity that she is still disappointed in her love. It was also a blessing that finally allowed her to grow up in it. Many girls are like this, at the beginning did not enter the marriage has a good expectation of marriage, but after entering the marriage, they gradually recognized the truth of marriage, it turns out that it is not that you marry the person you love, you must be happy, you have to marry a man who has you in your eyes.
It's not enough that you have light in your eyes, you have to let the other person see you, there is also light in your eyes.
I hope you love someone who deserves to be loved, don't be humble, don't be so low-profile, don't please anyone, you don't need to please him in love. If he does not know how to cherish your goodness and give up early, love is not the most important thing, the most important thing is yourself.
Bless Wu Qian, she is still so beautiful, 29 years old, still very young, rich and beautiful, have a career and children, the rest is to fight for a career. As for the ex-husband, go to hell, when you are in love and get married, you don't dare to admit it, and when you divorce, you respond so crisply, and it's good to be separated.
Wu Qian is still the girl with the aura, single mother, Happy Valentine's Day, Happy Lantern Festival.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.