When a woman gets along with a man, she has a strong admiration for the man, at this time, the woman will naturally want to enter the man's heart, looking forward to getting the man's attention, which is the common sentiment of people.
However, if a woman mistakenly regards "possession" as "true love", because she cares too much about this man, always wants to "entangle" this man forever, and does not allow men to look at other people of the opposite sex more, women will put forward excessive requirements for men, kidnap men with morality, and force men to do something they don't want to do.
At the same time, in the process of getting along with two people, women always have no "sense of boundaries", often invade men's personal space in the name of "love", and arbitrarily meddle in men's affairs, which adds a lot of distress to men's lives.
In the process of getting along with women, men see that women do not know how to respect themselves, often feel tired, and the relationship between two people often becomes very tense in the end. If a woman does not want to see such a result, she must carefully manage the emotional life of two people, and get along with men with a serious attitude, and the feelings of the two people will continue to heat up. In fact, after a woman is emotional, she must understand: "Have good intentions, have boundaries in your heart", do you know?
With good intentions:
1. Respect love.
When two people are together, women regard themselves as very important, often ignoring each other's feelings, or making excessive demands on each other in the name of love, or indulging themselves, doing some wrong things, and asking each other to tolerate themselves.
In fact, women always have such a statement, that is, not enough respect for love, not enough respect for men, in love, the position of two people should be equal, two people should respect each other, considerate of each other.
If a woman wants to get the approval of a man, she must be kind to this man, think more for men on weekdays, do more things for men, restrain some of their wrong behavior, give men some surprises, men will naturally feel that such a woman is trustworthy, can stay together for a lifetime, and the feelings of two people will often become better and better in the end.
2. Sharing afflictions and hardships.
In a relationship, women regard their "self-interest" as too important, always want to get benefits in this relationship, pin their happiness on men, often ask men in the name of love, and make demands on men.
When a man rejects a woman's appeal, or does not meet the standards set by a woman, or when a man is in a bad situation and is in adversity, at this time, the woman feels that it is difficult to get what she wants from the man, and she has the idea of leaving the man.
Men will dislike themselves when they see women falling down, they will not look at themselves, they will naturally feel disappointed, and the feelings of two people will often become worse and worse in the end.
If a woman does not want to see such a result, she must know how to respect love, since she has chosen this man, she must have the consciousness of staying with the man, have good intentions, and share the hardships with men, often move men, and the feelings of two people will often become very good in the end.
The heart has boundaries:
1. Respect each other's personal space.
Some women, when getting along with men, value themselves too much, like to put themselves above men, and will invade men's privacy at will, invade men's personal space, and do not consider men's feelings.
Or, women lack a sense of boundaries, feel that men are their own people, they can casually look through men's mobile phones, look through the diary written by men, occupy men's time, and disturb men's lives.
At this time, men often feel impatient and feel that women have no sense of boundaries, which makes him very stressed, and the relationship between two people may eventually become tense.
2. Do not interfere in each other's affairs at will.
Some women, when dealing with men, feel that they and men are very close, know each other's roots, and are entitled to intervene in men's affairs, so when men face choices, or when men encounter some things, women will point fingers and express opinions on men's affairs.
Men have their own ideas and want to act according to their own will, and women always pour cold water on them, demanding that men listen to their own words and obey their own will.
At this time, men may feel that women do not respect themselves, and the last two people are likely to have some contradictions.
If a woman does not want to see such a result, the more she cares about this man, the more she must know how to respect this man, do not interfere with men's affairs at will, maintain a "sense of boundaries", and let him deal with things that men should deal with by themselves, there is no need to worry about it.