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"Can't Forget the Farm" ushered in the "graduation show", and we only knew that the elderly people in this year had many volumes.
Grandma Dandelion heard the curtain in English fluently.
Treasure old man's happy farm
The previous two seasons of "Can't Forget the Restaurant" let us pay attention to the elderly with Alzheimer's disease, who have taken away some memories by the "forgotten beast", but still try to live optimistically.
This time, among the treasure old people in "Can't Forget the Farm", some people are plagued by cognitive impairments, some people have taken care of patients for many years, and some people are still reluctant to go down the line of fire after retirement... Each of them has its own cuteness.
Grandma Xiao, who is magical and infectious in laughter, usually loves to chase stars and loves to watch dramas, and her favorite beans include Wang Jiaer, Zhang Yixing, Lu Han and Huang Zitao.
Grandpa Zhan and Grandpa Shen, who have mild cognitive impairment, are brothers of farm living treasures.
The two were particularly speculative when they saw each other, and when they visited the farm, they pondered taking advantage of the long Huang Bo to sleep in the middle of the night, and secretly grabbed the rooster on the farm to make a large plate of chicken, Grandpa Shen said: "That chicken crown can be fried on a large plate." ”
Huang Bo's mother, Grandma Cui, was the last member to join this time.
Suffering from cognitive impairment in junior high school, she also began to forget things, sometimes forgetting what she was here for, asking Huang Bo, "You asked me to come over and make a movie?" Mingming was wearing an employee uniform, but asked Huang Bo, "How did I wear your clothes?" ”
Beneath every smiling face lies a heartbreaking story
These old people look like they are giggling all day, but behind each smiling face, there are heartbreaking stories.
Grandma Xiao, who loves to laugh the most, has also suffered the most.
Grandma Xiao was originally an only child, from a good life, after marrying at the age of 26, she was still spoiled by her lover, almost ten fingers did not stick to the spring water, and the happy marriage lasted until she was 49 years old, and her lover suddenly fell ill and fell, and she had to stand up to support the family.
The old couple also learned to be happy in the pain, once the wife fell at home, the foot was stuck under the cabinet, Grandma Xiao was dragging and dragging can not get out, anxious to sweat, but the wife also joked with her: "We bought a house for so long do not know how many square meters the living room is, just now can measure a quantity." ”
In 26 years, her husband experienced two cerebral hemorrhages and seven cerebral infarctions, all of which were desperately pulled by Grandma Xiao, and when his wife died, he held her hand and refused to let go, Grandma Xiao comforted: "Rest assured, we will meet again in the near future." ”
The death of his wife, coupled with the fact that her son has been busy with his career for many years, Grandma Xiao actually has a lot of loneliness and heartache that cannot be told to outsiders, but she is particularly independent and strong, and many negative emotions are digested alone.
The seemingly gentle and gentle squinting grandmother, who also has a strong heart, has experienced the most romantic and sincere love.
Grandpa Jian cen, Grandma's lover, was a mechanical bully at Sichuan University when she was young, and she was as versatile as she was, able to erhu, love to sing, and good sports.
After being introduced by a friend, the squinting grandmother, who admired his talent, wrote a letter to confess, but did not expect to receive a long reply from him soon, and the two exchanged letters for several months without meeting.
Later, Grandpa Jian cen deliberately took a night train and a half-day car to rush to Dazhu County, where Grandma Squint was located, to "run to the scene", the two saw each other as they were, slowly the two hearts got closer and closer, and finally organized the wedding under the auspices of their parents.
After getting married, they still live the days of the gods and immortals, during the day Grandpa Jian cen busy with work, at night to squint grandma to pull erhu, he will also make clothes by hand, squint grandma and daughter dresses, are all arranged by Grandpa Jian Cen ...
Speaking of the long past, Grandma Squint remembers it vividly, and even the details are clearly remembered.
She will remember that the first letter to Grandpa Jiancheng was on April 4, 1967, the first time she met Grandpa Jiancheng was on July 7, 1967, and she remembered the full moon in the sky, the small river and the white tower on the shore when they walked along the ring road...
Unfortunately, all this is now only remembered by Grandma Squint.
In 2011, Grandpa Jianzen was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, the course of the disease progressed rapidly, and Grandpa Jianzen, who once remembered well like "Sherlock Holmes", began to remember things, and gradually forgot about the people around him, including children and squinting grandmother.
As a squinting grandmother of the patient's family, she has been trying to compete with the "forgotten beast" for a lover, she feels that Grandpa Jiancheng still has some memories of music, so she tries her best to mobilize, learn the piano, learn to sing, and learn to play his favorite "Candle Shadow Shake Red".
There was indeed a time when music could briefly awaken Grandpa Jianzen, but more often than not, he seemed to be in a vacuum, allowing Grandma Squint to call out the name of her lover affectionately, and his eyes were always empty and dazed.
Loss of health, loss of memory... The pain caused by the forgotten beast is not clear which is more heartbreaking, but these old people on the farm are not addicted to it, but they know how to cherish the people in front of them, cherish time, and actively live the current life, which is much more enterprising than our young people.
If we don't argue anymore, we will not be able to catch up with the pace of the old people!
Did you find out just after the end of the year? The elderly in the family are now getting more and more fashionable.
Chinese New Year's Eve prepare Chinese New Year's Eve meal, they will follow the short video to make "net red dishes", even the dumpling skin is with tiger stripes; watching the Spring Festival Gala, I know more stars than we do.
From the first day of the new year to the seventh day of the new year, young people sleep until three rods on the day every day, but the elderly are changing into new year clothes early and going out, and it is a dance team KTV party, and it is a tai chi team tea house dinner, and the field is too many to catch up...
In the past, you didn't eat dinner at home for the New Year, and it was inevitable that your parents would have to eat dinner, and now you may have to eat takeaway when you go home, because they are not home than you are.
The old man who "can't forget the family" is also "living to learn to play until old".
Grandma Squint first learned piano in order to wake up Grandpa Jian cen with music, and later she gradually fell in love with the enrichment brought by learning, so she insisted on learning something every day.
Although Grandpa Jianchen's oblivion is still deepening, Grandma Squint is no longer afraid, and Grandpa Jiancen's love for her, love for life and art, has always brought warmth to Grandma Squint.
There is also Grandpa Shen who loves to do small handicrafts, Grandpa Zhan who loves to take pictures, grandma Zhang who loves to do yoga... Grandma Zhang, who has been a doctor, also learned the relevant knowledge of cognitive impairment in the elderly in advance, made thick notes, and prepared to give advice to the community.
Grandma Zhang said that she wants to "retire without fading" and strive to give back to the society.
Grandma Xiao is even more complete in martial arts. Grandma Xiao said that in the past 27 years, she was constantly going back and forth to home and the hospital to take care of her wife, she had no time of her own, no life of her own, so after her wife left, she desperately seized the current time, singing and dancing and chasing the stars.
She said: "My life has only just begun, I am only living for myself now, I really want to live a few more years..."
Because they insist on contacting society, the concepts of these elderly people are also very enlightened and advanced.
Once Grandma Xiao chatted with several female guests, one of whom was a single mother with three children, she said that she still longed for love, and Grandma Xiao immediately agreed: "Don't say you, I also want love!" "It made the guests laugh.
For young people a bit of a homely lifestyle, they all said "can understand", after all, the current young people work pressure, order takeaway can save time to rest is understandable, but the old babies agree that young people should still have more contact with society, more walking around and more communication, in order to maintain a good state.
Look, it is time for the older generation to let young people move around more and communicate more to maintain a good state, and if we don't argue anymore, we will not be able to keep up with the pace of the elderly.
Their energetic appearance not only makes us re-understand the elderly group, but also re-understand aging and old age life.
At that time, our physical strength and memory may decline due to age, but our love and enthusiasm for life can never be extinguished - this is also our ultimate weapon against the "Forgotten Beast".
Sister E Conclusion:
The old people have been trying to fight the forgotten beasts and try to keep up with the pace of this world, but this society and their loved ones often forget that they are struggling and lonely against aging.
The last program gave the relatives of the elderly people a thorough examination, and many children found out at this time that they did not even know their mother's birthday and favorite dishes. Grandma Xiao's son deeply examined it, saying that the questionnaire was simply "literally heartfelt."
"Can't Forget the Farm" is like the "World Paradise" of the elderly, this is a natural and primitive farm, in and out without scanning the two-dimensional code, without fighting with various digital programs, there are gentle and patient field leaders, and there are often interesting guests to join, accompany them to pick fruits and vegetables, and coax them to be happy... Everything revolves around them.
In fact, "Can't Forget" is not only a utopia, the spiritual atmosphere presented by the program, popular science and suggestions can be implemented into life, like Huang Bo, Spicy Yoko and Shen Teng Deng Chao, these guests, they and the elderly interesting, warm relationship just provides us with a good reference template.
I believe that after leaving the show, following them back to real life is not only a good memory, but also courage and wisdom.
As an audience, we should also understand that as long as we communicate with the elderly with an equal and respectful attitude, we will continue to find treasures and highlights in them, will harvest a lot of moving stories and valuable life experience, and will find that they are not only our elders, but also our good friends and partners.
If the Forgotten Beast really exists, stop leaving our loved ones alone.
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